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Foreclosure

Hi Moms! My husband was laid off almost 2 weeks ago. I am currently doing a full time internship and am not receiving any type of income. So essentially, we have no money coming in and way too much that needs to go out. All the jobs that my husband has been receiving interviews for are out of state. There is absolutely no way we can sell our house. After 3 years we don't own any of it. Our interest rate is too high. With this economy we'd have to lose probably $50,000 at least just to sell it and that's not really helping. We don't have any savings anymore. I'm looking for people who may have had to foreclose themselves or knows someone who has. Or even done a deed in lieu of foreclosure. What did you do? How did it work? Please don't tell me I shouldn't foreclose and that it will be bad for my credit. That is the least of my worries.

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Talk to someone from the morgage company-I have heard that you can 'sell' it to the bank basically and you don't get anything but don't lose anything.

I've heard sometimes you can do a short sale too.

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Sharon I know knows about these types of things.
Best wishes.. we'd be in the same boat quickly too if my husband lost his job.

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Last year we had the horrible discovery that our house had foundation issues and that it was going to be $20k to fix it. The house was in a neighborhood that wasn't getting better, was supposed to be our starter home and was really small as we just had our 2nd child..anyways..after a ton of research and meeting with some bk attorneys we decided to let the house go. We did have excellent credit so we actually bought another house at a great price and just abandoned the other one. We claimed bk got rid of that house and credit card debt and it is the best thing we ever did. Yes, we will have bad credit for awhile..but we have a house and bought a new car right before we filed so... It might do you good to let the house go..live in it for as long as you can for free and finish school. In your case though..have a plan on where you can live once you are booted out. Even as renters your credit is checked. And you will have to claim bk if you let the house go otherwise you will get 1099'd and pay taxes to the IRS on the difference of the balance of the house. Good Luck..

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Hi A.,

Sorry to hear about your troubles. One of the most important things to do is contact your mortgage company. See if you can work out new payment terms with them. Also see if there is any kind of assistance you can get from the government. It seems like you have already received some good advice and I hope that your concern about your house will be taken care of.

I wanted to write for another reason too. I used the following website to assist in my job search. www.indeed.com It is a one stop job shopping website. It pulls in all the new job postings from online sites like career building or monster.com, but it also posts jobs found in newspaper, company websites and so on. It keeps updating constantly. Also you have have emails sent to you for particular types of jobs every day. It might be helpful in your husband finding a new job.

Good luck with everything.

A.,

Have you looked into Bankruptcy?

Talk to someone from the morgage company-I have heard that you can 'sell' it to the bank basically and you don't get anything but don't lose anything.

One other thing that you need to look into is the help that is being offered to reduce interest rates. If you got the 6 months of payments pushed back, a lowered fixed rate interest, and a hardship so you don't have to pay taxes. This will buy you a lot of time.

Here is a website that will give you some definitions of what people have talked about (i looked it up because I didn't know what they were saying). Credit may not be something you care about... but where will you live? If they foreclose you have to move out, and it will be harder to rent a house, if your credit is bad. I wish you the best of luck and am so sorry that you are going through this.

http://www.bankrate.com/brink/news/mtg/20081211-mortgage-...

A. G
I feel the same pain you are having, as I've been laid off from my job & I was there 32 years. You may want to reach my school friend, Ralph Roberts. He's had several books out & his latest two deal with foreclosure information & how to save your home. You can ask questions directly on his ____@____.com
Tell him Karen Alexander sent ya. Good luck to you & may God keep us all in his hands.
Oh, I forgot to tell you that he has his own real estate & mortgage business & has a tremendous staff who can & will assist you with your needs.

I haven't foreclosed but was close to it. Our bank has pushed 6 months worth of payments to the back of the mortgage. That means no house payment for 6 mths. That may buy you some time to find your husband a job. Also you can file for a poverty exemption on your house taxes. We haven't had to pay house taxes for the past 2 years. This really helps!!! You need to talk to your bank. They will help when you tell them what happened. Good luck.

I've heard sometimes you can do a short sale too.

____@____.com

Sharon I know knows about these types of things.
Best wishes.. we'd be in the same boat quickly too if my husband lost his job.

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