Female Cat Marking Her Territory??

Hi V.!

You have enough on your plate as it already is, I say get rid of the cat. You don't need any issues in your life such as pee in places you don't know, when you have your kids to worry about. That is the reason why I would never get any pet/animal. Life is hard as it is. So sorry if you take offense to what I am saying. Have a great day, good luck!

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First take her to the vet and make sure it's not a urinary tract issue, and if she's not spayed then do that. It might clear up.

While you're doing that, you need to start closing doors to places where she pees. Start keeping the laundry in rooms that she's not allowed into.

When did the peeing start? If it started with the baby you may have a jealousy issue (mine did). Try to pay the cat extra attention (hard when you're so baby-focused, I know).

Make sure the box is pristine. She may be complaining about that (mine did that too, since when we were so very tired with the new baby we let the box go a little :-\ ). Now is not the time to try a new litter that she doesn't like -- we tried a new environmentally friendly litter and she hated it so she started going in other places (this after she'd been box-trained for 15 years!).

If she's peeing in any corners or in places that are fairly flat, I have a good trick (read to the end, sounds scary but isn't): get some old-fashioned mousetraps, set them, place them UPSIDE DOWN (business end down), and put a single sheet of newspaper over it to hide it. When she steps on them, they'll spring up and scare her. Later you'll be able to just put down newspaper where you don't want her to go and she'll think there's scary stuff there.

Also, get a squirt bottle (with water). When you see her heading to places she's not allowed, squirt her from across the room.

Create a no-no can: aluminum can with marbles. When she goes into a restricted zone, you shake the can for the loud noise.

Eventually she'll associate these places with unpleasant things (water, springy traps, loud noises) and stop going into those places.

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I'm an "outside pet" person. Put the damn thing outside. Lots of people have outdoor cats. I say the same to people who have dogs that chew things up in the house or make messes. Your cat is not in control, you are.

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Hi, you may want to check with your vet to make sure she doesn't have a urinary tract infection. When cats have this, they will pee on anything and everything just to try and get relief. Just a thought...we went through it. Hope this helps.

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Do you have her spayed? I would bring her to the vet to make sure there are not bladder or kidney problems. Also, there is a cat litter called Cat Attract that is wonderful. It helps the cat find the right place to go to the potty. (There are herbs in it to attract the cat to the litter box.) It works wonderfully for my cats and is usually available at Ralph's Grocery stores (sells for about $13 per bag, but is a larger bag and definitely well worth the price...my cat used to have a problem with pooping in the right place and would go anywhere but the litter box and after that cat litter was recommended to me it is not a problem anymore.

Also, please follow the advice of the others about re-homing the cat if you can't take care of it. It is hard right now for animal lovers who can't take care of their pets due to the tough economy.

Hopefully some advice you find here will work and you can keep the cat.

Best of luck,
J.

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Take her to the vet and have some test run or at least talk to the vet about some options. Find a cat vet, there are just cat vets out there. I have grown up with cats throughout my life, although my family has no cats now. My mom had female cat who was spayed who did this type of stuff and my mom took her to the vet. They ran some tests and she was in kidney failure! She was able to live out her life with dietary changes and regular check ups. I also had a male cat who was doing this even though he was neutered, I took him in to the vet only to find out he had bladder stones and needed surgery! Once we got the stones out and he was on meds for infection he was better. So sometimes it can be a health issue like a UTI, Kidneys, Bladder stones, or even diabetes can cause things like this in cats. So please have her checked.
Also each cat should have their own litter box. And if you decide not to keep her, please find an rescue organization who will take her and let them know of the problem please. All the organizations will be full but alot of times if you can make a donation to them to help with cost of caring for the animal they will try to take that animal in.

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This is a strange phenomenon that seems to happen with rescue cats.
Try changing her litter, she may not like the smell-try several different types until she pees there a majority of the time.

If not: My mom raises rescues and has heard that this works, never tried it personally. It seems a little hard but is supposed to work.

Put the cat in the bathroom (or a hard floor room which she can't get out of) with nothing fabric on the floor or where the cat can pee on it, just food, water, and a litter box for a whole day.

Next day put in a towel folded on the floor and put her food on top of it. She shouldn't pee where she eats/ sleeps. If she does then you may want to give her up as she may never have it trained out of her.

Day three add another towel and split her food half on one towel half on the other. If she doesn't pee on it, move on.

Day four put all of her food on one towel. If she pees you have to start over, if not then move on.

Day five, let her out in the house but make sure that there is not anything fabric touching the floor, hide anything fabric that isn't essential (pillows, blankets, for curtains tie them in a knot so they are high off the floor) and close the doors to the bedrooms. Put food on top of anything fabric (couch-in several places, chairs, beanbag, etc.) Put food if there is a spot where she normally pees on things ie:a pile of towels in the laundryroom-move the towels and put food there. Leave it this way for a couple of days. If she does well then remove the food slowly one spot each day-start with the couch. Once all the food is gone you can add back each fabric item-one at a time.

Then move on to the bedrooms, one at a time, again nothing on the floor, close closet doors, put a couple bowls of food on each bed during the day. As long as she progresses then keep allowing her more access to the house, but if she regresses you have to start over.

Make sure everything is thoroughly cleaned-carpets, flooring, couch, comforters, everything because if she smells her smell on it she will return to it.

It's really a two week commitment to get this cat straightened out. There may still be times when she returns to this due to stress. We as people revert to our deepest instincts when stressed and cats do too. Just start over and she will be reminded of how to act and it shouldn't take as long IF there is a next time.

Good Luck!!!

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Maybe you should have her spayed.
I have had cats, and that is what I did, and I didn't have spraying problems.
But I know each cat has different issues.
But start with spaying.

I would also contact your Vet, and ask him/her about what you can do.... and what they advise.

It looks like a number of things have already been said but..
How long has the peeing been going on? Is it a new thing or has it been going on for a long time?
You mention that your male is fixed, is your female? If not I would start there. We took in a rescue cat and her 2 kittens in Aug. We had to wait until she fully weaned her kittens before we could get her fixed, we almost had her go into heat it was so short a window. When we brought her in she was in pre-heat and was starting to pee on everything. She's not peed on a thing since.
I see you said you wash things in amonia. Don't. Use vinegar. Amonia is close to a cat pee scent and you're only encouraging it. Vinegar neutralizes the pee and breaks it down. This removes the temptation to go back to something.
Are you using a scented cat litter? Very few cats actually like the scented kind. It is only made to please the humans who are using it. It masks their natural scent in the cat box working against the instinct to go there. Switch to an unscented litter if you are not using one.
Various medical conditions can cause peeing in undesired places. Something as simple as a urinary tract infection which needs nothing more than anti-biotics is common. I would bring her to the vet for a check up to rule out anything medical.
Some cats can get picky about how dirty their box is or having to share one with another cat. If they are unhappy they will find somewhere else to go.
You might want to consider getting one of those plug in pheremone things and see if that helps any. She may be reacting to the new baby and feeling stressed. Not knowing when she started though makes this hard to tell though.
A cats natural instinct is not to go anywhere but it's box. When it stops using the box there is a reason, it just takes some sleuthing to find out what the solution is. I've had a several cats throughout my life that I've gone through this with. It does work itself out in the end.

Try & see if you can get her Neutured? Try calling a pet store to ask for advice? Does the cats have their own litter box? if not get them their own. I once adopted a female cat with the same problem as you & ended up taking her back to the Humane Society I know this not an option for you being that this your pet. Pet store advice I think would be your best bet. OMG Good Luck

Ron

Has SHE been fixed? If not, I can almost guarantee you that will take care of the problem. Good luck! :)

Hi V.,

How long has your cat been doing this? If she has only been doing this for a few months or less, I'm inclined to think it has to do with the changes in your house revolving around the new baby. If it has been going since you rescued her, then I'm at a loss for a reason or solution...

-Char

V.,
We had a cat before we had our daughter. She was fine up till then. After my daughter came come she started peeing everywhere too. It drove me crazy and I got rid of her. My daughters health and safety came first. All I needed was for her to pee in my daughters bed or toys. So I would suggest get rid of her, try to find her a home where they will give her all the attention. You have your baby to take care of and give all your attention to. Or take Michelle's advice and put her outside if getting rid of her is not an option.

What may have started as a medical problem might now be a bad habit. I didn't see in your email if you had taken the kitty to the vet to be assesed. She may have a bladder infection, or worse, feline luekemia which can lead to poor bladder control and is common in rescue cats.

If there isn't anything medically wrong with her (it may be something as simple as a change in food or a round or anti-biotics) then you need to work on correcting the habit. Cat's don't like lemon juice and I used that very successfully on areas of the floor that wouldn't be harmed by the acid of the lemon. Where ever I wiped it - the cat did not go.

Some cats will only use their litter box if it is spotlessly clean. My cat only likes to "go" outside on grass. Start at the vets first....if that doesn't help I would ask Gary over at Pet Supply on Brookhurst and Ellis in Fountain Valley - if there is a product on the market that helps - Gary will know about it. Good luck!

Not sure if this will help, but I myself have a cat and she is about 3 yrs old now. I found that my female cat would pee on my clothes when her litter box was not cleaned. After cleaning litter box she would stop.