Feeling Engorged After Weaning

Ice packs work great but you may have to do a little pumping also.

N.,

I'm a nurse and we tell all the mommies to use cabbage leaves. I know it sounds weird, but it works. Keep the cabbage in the fridge. Take out one leaf per side and score the middle with a fork in the shape of and X place the X on your nipple then put your bra on like normal. When the cabbage get warm and wilted change it. It really works, you will only need one head of cabbage.

Good Luck,
K.

The same thing happened to me when I weaned my 16-month-old. I was worried that if I nursed, my milk production would increase rather than stop, but the opposite happened. 3 days after the "last" nursing, I was so uncomfortable that I broke down and nursed him. I expected that my breasts would fill up again, but they never did and that was truly our last feeding. Besides relieving the discomfort, it was nice to have the nursing bond with my son one last time. Good luck!

Oh yeah, I also used Sage Tincture (you can get it at the Herb Store) to help stop my milk production. You can also take dried sage from your kitchen and have a couple of tablespoons a day.

I just read about a product called "No More Milk Tea" by Earth Mama Angel Baby. It has sage & parsley and a few other herbs that help to dry up milk supply. I haven't tried it because I was always pregnant again while I was weaning. Anyway, there are a couple stores in the valley that carry this brand, you can find them on the website.
http://earthmamaangelbaby.com

In the meantime, get some relief by expressing or pumping a little & using cold packs. It usually doesn't take too long for your body to adjust the supply. But you don't want to get plugged ducts in the meeantime. Good luck!

I am surprised that they are so full at 19 months! Cabbage leaves are worth a try, wear them in a bra till they are warm, then repeat. Also it might sound weird but have you tried taking something like sudafed. It dries up your nose, and your breasts. It worked for me when I did not want it too. Good luck
T.

Go ahead and try pumping if you want... I wasn't very successful with that, I just took weaning really slowly.. like once a day, then every other day, every few days... I was never painfully engorged.

Congratulations on nursing for so long! :) I would pump just a small amount to relieve some pressure. Your body will get used to it and not make as much. I nursed mine from 9-26 months (all four different times) and I would slowly take the amount they nursed down so I never felt engorged. If you do that with the pump, just take a small amount off, it might help. Good luck!

This sounds weird, but wear a snug sports bra and put cabbage leaves over your breasts, inside the bra. It takes a day or so, but it really works! Once the leaves wilt in your bra, replace them with fresh ones. Just do that over and over, and your milk production will stop. This is what I had to do when I came home from the hospital with my second child (I didn't want to breastfeed).

I had the same thing happen to me when I weaned my twins. After about 10 days of pain I was temped to pump, but a friend told me to get cabbage leaves and put them in the freezer and then put them in your bra (I did it at night) and it worked!!! No more pain! I know it sounds crazy - but it really does work.

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I would hand express a little, just enough to ease the engorgement. You don't want to end up with an infection.

I researched this....I found that antithistamines help dry you up. Cabbage leaves in your bra help with inflammation. Sage tea also helps you dry up.

Hi N., as the ladies say below, cabbage leaves is what works! I used that for both of my children & that really did help me out. I wore a sports bra & put the cabbage leaves in there. Follow the directions, as Kristi the nurse explains it.

Also, I was told by the nurese @ the hospital not to put my breast under the hot water because that is what stimulates them to want to produce more milk.

Try cabbage leaves in your bra. I know it sounds funny, but it supposedly helps with engorgement. Also, pump a little bit. I was afraid too, but my breasts would get so rock hard and painful, that I needed to, barely any milk would release, but it would help.

Hi N.,

Cabbage leaves work, I have been told. But it is very smelly and will stain your clothes or bras. What I was told to do is to empty my boobs by either pumping or nursing one final time. Then I got 2 ace bandages and binded myself up. I wrapped my boobs up as tight as I could possibly stand it and kept those on day and night for 2 days. I never had any pain other than the discomfort of being bound. I have told several others to try this method and they have loved it! It works without pain. Good luck!

I never did have to try this, but I swore I would if the hot showers didn't work. I had a cold when I was breast feeding and the Dr. said to becareful of allergy medicine and decongestants because they could dry up the milk supply. My sister-in-law and I always said if we got engorged when weaning, we would try it. Especially at night when you'll be sleeping anyway. Maybe worth a try?

This may sound crazy but my daughter in law tried it and said it worked:

Buy a head of green cabbage and put the a couple of the leaves in your bra.

Hey, I said it sounded crazy!

N.,

I used this when I initially started nursing and I've heard it's amazing when you're weaning. You can get it at a local store and they can help with any questions/give advice that you might need. This is an easy alternative to using cabbage leaves. It's made from cabbage leaf extract.

http://www.milksmile.com/product_info.php/cPath/29/produc...

I have always used Gentel Naturals Teething drops, they have always worked for my daughter and they aren't very exspensive. You can get them at any drug store like walgreens.

I used cabbage leaves when I weaned both of my kids. It works and the cool leaves feel good actually. Good luck!

N.- It's fine to pump enough to relieve the pain and pressure. It won't hurt anything. I had the same thing when I weaned and that's what was recommended to me. I also then recommended it to one of my girlfriends and it helped her as well. Good luck.

I wore a tight sports bra for two days to relieve the engorgement when I weaned my daughter at 19 months. It really seemed to help. I did pump the first day because it hurt so much, I only pumped enough to relieve the pain. It really only lasted about five days for me and then it got much better.

Hi N.,
The best thing that worked for me on my oldest two boys was weaning them gradually. However for my daughter it was different. I suggest that you use your breast pump. Don't pump for long. Just enough to release the pressure. If you pump the entire breast empty it will think you still need to keep your supply going. Also don't pump as often. I hope this helps. Good luck.

I remember experiencing the exact same thing when I weaned my first child. I finally pumped (only 1 time) and it completely dried up after that. After that experience and now that I'm not a fan of pumping, I would have just let my child nurse. As far as I understand it, you're milk will only continue as long as you are consistently nursing. I hope that it goes well for you.