T. asks from Seabrook, TX on September 25, 2006
Feeding Schedule for 5 1/2 Month Old
I am writting because I would like a little advice from some of the more experienced mothers out there regarding the feeding/sleeping habits of my 5 1/2 month old. This past weekend we eliminated one of her bottles because she has started to fall asleep earlier. Before this past week, she would take a small 30 minute nap in the evening and then we would feed her a bottle at 9:30 p.m. or so and put her to bed. However, we had a pretty long week of her not sleeping this past week so when she feel asleep around 8:30 p.m. on Friday night we just let her sleep believing that we would be up and down with her again that night, but we were not...thank goodness, Mommy really needed the sleep. Is eliminating this feeding a good idea? She seems to be okay with out it and has slept I think better than she has in a couple of weeks. I have increased the amount of formula she is recieving in her other 4 bottles of the day and I will probably start with some rice cereal in the next couple of days/weeks. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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S. answers from Houston on September 26, 2006
My son is now 8 months old. He was breastfed till 3 months. At around 4 months he was eating 5 times a day on a 9-1-5 eating schedule (5am, 9am, 1pm, 5pm then 9pm). A little before 5 1/2 months he too dropped to 4 bottles. Dropping the 5am bottle. I was giving him 3 teaspoons of rice in his 5pm & 9pm bottles until he began eating more solids then he dropped to 3 meals a day at around 7 months. He got fruit, rice cereal & bottle for breakfast. Lunch was veggie & meat w/ rice & bottle. Dinner is the same as lunch and just before bed he gets a small bottle of just formula. He was a big newborn (9lbs 11oz) and is growing like a weed! He is a happy, thriving very healthy crawling machine! Hope that helps you.
M.B. answers from San Antonio on September 26, 2006
Get this book. I used it with both my children, the dr who wrote it is a pediatric sleep specialist. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth. Good luck.
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T.W. answers from Corpus Christi on September 26, 2006
When my little girl was a baby, I started giving her cereal when she was a month old. I believe if, when you are giving your baby the last bottle before bed, you add cereal it will help them sleep all night long. My baby slept all night once I started giving her the cereal. I do not think it will hurt the baby because you are not giving them that extra bottle. The cereal will make up for that extra bottle and also give the baby more nutrients.
M.B. answers from San Antonio on September 26, 2006
Get this book. I used it with both my children, the dr who wrote it is a pediatric sleep specialist. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth. Good luck.
F.R. answers from San Antonio on September 26, 2006
Hi T.. Mother of 5 1/2 baby here also. Not sure how much of an experienced mom I am, but I am learning as I go. I do have an 8 year old daughter, but going through her feeding/sleeping habits as a baby seem like such a long time ago that I feel like a first time mom again. Anyway, I really don't think there is anything wrong with excluding that one more feeding. I try putting my son down to sleep by 8:30 and if he doesn't wake up to eat, I don't try to wake him up. As I have read over and over in some other sites (Babycenter.com for example), a baby will tell you when he's hungry...at least at this age still. He gets the same amount of feedings during the day, takes good naps, and I try to give him his last feeding right before bedtime. He still wakes up during the night to eat sometimes, but some nights he'll sleep the whole night (I love those nights). So again, I really don't think there is anything wrong with not giving your baby that extra feeding. I actually started giving him rice cereal since he turned 5 months. I don't give it to him with a spoon because he really didn't take it, so I just put it in his formula. It's supposed to get their tummies fuller quicker, but I really don't see a difference. But then again, my baby is about 20 pounds right now, so I think that has something to do with him not getting full. Anyway....I hope I helped a little. I may not be the best experienced mom out there, but I'm learning and trying. If you ever need to talk, I'm here. Take care.
M.N. answers from Little Rock on September 25, 2006
as long as she is still getting all the nutrition she needs, relax and enjoy the rest
S. answers from Houston on September 26, 2006
My son is now 8 months old. He was breastfed till 3 months. At around 4 months he was eating 5 times a day on a 9-1-5 eating schedule (5am, 9am, 1pm, 5pm then 9pm). A little before 5 1/2 months he too dropped to 4 bottles. Dropping the 5am bottle. I was giving him 3 teaspoons of rice in his 5pm & 9pm bottles until he began eating more solids then he dropped to 3 meals a day at around 7 months. He got fruit, rice cereal & bottle for breakfast. Lunch was veggie & meat w/ rice & bottle. Dinner is the same as lunch and just before bed he gets a small bottle of just formula. He was a big newborn (9lbs 11oz) and is growing like a weed! He is a happy, thriving very healthy crawling machine! Hope that helps you.
S.K. answers from Minneapolis on September 26, 2006
T.,
This is absolutely okay. Babies this age can easily go 10-12 hours at night. Many babies can go this long when they are only 2 months old. As your baby grows and takes on more solid foods, you will notice a drop in bottles and it is perfectly normal. By 10-12 months, your baby will probably just have milk before naps / bedtime and with meals.
With my first, I tried to force the continued frequent schedule because I was worried she wasn't getting enough to drink. By the third baby, I finally realized to let him drop the feedings naturally and he would be fine. As a side note, I also learned that it is much easier to wean a 6 month old from a bottle to a sippy cup than it is a 12 month old.
Best of luck,
S.
F.C. answers from Shreveport on September 26, 2006
your little one may of had an upset stomach or gas on her tummy. what u are doing by increasing the formula with what bottles she does take during the day is good too.. Also putting her to bed earlier is wise. I always tried to put my son down by 8:30. Of course that way maybe u can start resting a little better too. If u start her on the cereal that will take away from her not eating so many times during the day. If u make the bottle with cereal for her last bottle. she will sleep all night.
L. answers from Little Rock on September 25, 2006
LONG ANSWER BUT I HOPE IT HELPS: I have a consulting business called Baby Answers (a division of Nanny For Newborns.com), and I am a newborn specialist parenting coach and infant sleep trainer.
At 5 ½ months of age, babies need about 15-16 hours of sleep per 24-hour period. This should include 10-12 hours at night and 2 naps, each approximately 1-2 hours long, plus a third, late-afternoon catnap lasting 20-45 minutes. Babies tend to drop that late-afternoon catnap between 4 and 7 months.
When I am sleep training young babies 3 months old and younger, I do a ‘dream feed,’ which means that I feed them their evening bottle at, say, 7:00 PM and then I get them up at 10:00 PM and feed them ‘in their sleep.’ (I keep the lights low, don’t talk, and make as few movements as possible.)
Once a baby is older than 3 to 4 months, I no longer do that dream feed. Instead, I feed them at 7:00 PM and they sleep all the way through the night until around 7:00 AM.
That was a long way to say that at 5 ½ months old, barring any medical conditions, your baby should be able to have her evening bottle around 7:00 PM (give or take) and sleep all the way through the night until the morning (at least 6:00 AM.)
The really neat thing about this is that, like you said, we tend to believe that if a baby misses a feeding that they will wake more often at night. The truth of the matter is that it is actually more sleep, not more food that encourages a baby to sleep more. Good sleep begets more good sleep!
Also, one mama responded that ‘babies for the most part will do what’s right for themselves and we are best just to follow along.’ While that is partially true in some instances and for some babies, it isn’t always true; so I have to respectfully disagree with that statement. I coach many new parents who mistakenly fell into that faulty belief, only to find themselves with a baby who still wanted to nurse one or more times at night at 6 months of age or even older.
I certainly don’t want to start a battle over whether or not we should feed our older babies and toddlers during the night, so for those that might be reading this who do that, I say this: if it works for you and you are happy with it, by all means continue it. But if it isn’t working for you, please understand that there is a way that might work better for you.
All healthy babies over 3-4 months of age have the capacity to sleep a 10-12 hour uninterrupted night and take respectable naps during the day. And they (and you) will be much happier for it.
L.
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