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Fear of Fingernail/toenail Trimming

My daughter, who is almost 6, has this crazy fear about getting her nails trimmed. If we want to trim her nails we have to hold her down while she screams -- and I do mean screamed! Screaming, yelling, shouting! I don't know what to do. I wish she would just bite her nails! (Never thought I would say that). Any suggestions to calm her, because I am not willing to hold her down to trim nails!

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Thanks for all the ideas. I have tried the sleeping approach -- but she wakes up. We have done the manicure too. That was the last time I was able to do them successfully. Maybe I will let her try them herself....it is getting to be gross, so we have to do something! :) THANKS!

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Hi B.,
I had the same issue with my son and to this day he hates it and he's 11yrs old. What I did was teach him how to do it himself. He's not scarred to do it himself. Granted it takes 3 times as long but at least it gets done. I taught him to use the large toenail clippers because it's easier for him to handle. Somehow doing it himself took the fear out of it. Hope this helps.


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wait till she is asleep and then do it! That's what I do with my three year old and it works great.

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Hey B.! I just saw a great tip that said that if you are having the trouble you are to try buying 10 finger puppets and as you trim each nail replace the nail with a puppet. Then you get the job done and your daughter gets some puppets to play with for a while. Don't let her keep them to play too long and then store them for the next trim. Hope this helps! Good luck!

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My 2.5 year old son is the same way. We have to do it while he's sleeping. I tell him the "nail fairy" is coming tonight :). I wish there was a different way, but nothing else has worked.

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Trim her nails while she is sleeping.

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She's old enough to let her try it herself. Use the baby clippers and supervise after giving instructions about the white versus the nail bed, etc. Do fun nail polish or a treat as in incentive.

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Cutting & painting them while she sleeps is the best way. Another thought is to file them...it feels funny on the fingertips, so she might enjoy it. Don't make a big deal about it because she'll feed off your frustration and only make matters worse. Good Luck!

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Have you tried using a nail file instead? I know some kids are really terrified of those clippers that look like jaws and make noise, but they are ok with files that don't have the potential to hurt.

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Trim her nails while she is asleep.
Would she go for a manicure with you? Sometimes if someone other than mom does it, it works.

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