Two situations that make normally nice, reasonable people act like idiots: divorce and death. In either situation, people will fight over grandma's frying pan! I dread the day my mother passes - my younger sister is soooo greedy and "entitled." I've already decided I don't want anything and my two siblings can fight each other for anything/nothing until hell freezes over. I'm not getting involved! My mother has given me numerous things to remember her by already - I don't need anything else, especially if it's going to cause more stress and anxiety than dealing with her passing already will.