Hi M.,
I'm very familiar with it, aaarrggh! The only way to get it to quit flairing up is to build her immune system. You sound like you've got the maintenance aspect of health down but you need to hit this one head on.
Chiropractic by a principled chiropractor is a good start. If you'd don't have one that understands the immune system, go to www.upcspine.com and find one in your area. You can control almost any type of health problem if you've got a good chiropractor.
Shop organically for her fruits and veggies if you aren't already. The chemicals in the grocery store stuff will also break down her immune system. She really needs to be on an ABSORBABLE multi-vitamin. I only know of one that does not create free radical activity. Free radicals feed these types of disorders. If you're interested, let me know.
Beta-Glucan, from the yeast cell wall, is an incredibly good immune booster. It is so strong that it is used in the Bahamas in order to cure cancer by building the immune system to fight it off on it's on. It is perfectly safe to take a lot AND often. Get it from a PHARMACEUTICAL grade health store, not a GNC or someplace like that. Vitamin Shoppe is the only chain that I know of that sells pharmaceutical grade supplements.
Like I said, let me know if you're interested in supplementing her eating with a good vitamin. I'd be glad to help.
Regards,
M.
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