Ever Since My Appointment

The cold metal instrument is called a speculum. I also agree that sometimes women have a gentler touch. My midwife uses a speculum made of plastic for my well woman pap smear exam and it was much less uncomfortable. No, its not wrong to have an exam this late in your pregnancy, but if you are unhappy with the bedside manner, keep searching for the right healthcare provider for you. Good luck!

Sincerely,
Marianne

I'm having my pelvic exam tomorrow, I'm about as far along in my prgnancy as you. I have some pain and bleeding, but this as always been normal for me. I have a male Dr. as well.

I do think it is normal that he did the exam even though you had your records transferred. If your pain is really that bad compared to usually, perhaps he was too firm.

Yes it is normal for it to be sore, and even some bleeding.

K., i am a midwife and if i had a patient transfer to me at 32 weeks with COMPLETE records i would NEVER repeat a pap or do a pelvic exam. it is NOT NECESSARY if your records really are complete--and by that i mean, was your initial pap documented? were the results of your chlamydia & gonorrhea test documented (most practices do this test on all new patients). if these results were clearly noted in your transfer records there was no reason to do those exams again.

unless your 1st child was premature there is no medical information to be gained from checking dilation at 32 weeks.

the metal instrument is called a speculum. there is nothing inherently unsafe about using one so late in pregnancy, but again, unless there was some real reason it wasn't warranted. i personally always use metal instead of plastic because they are weighted and don't have rough edges--yikes!!--like the plastic ones sometimes have. i'm sure you are sore after a pap and a pelvic so far along.

did he explain WHY he was doing all this? you might want to see if there is someone else in his practice you could see if you are not totally comfortable with him.

best wishes for a healthy baby!

I cannot imagine using that type of instrument could possibly be safe that late in your pregnancy. Follow your gut instincts.

I switched doctors with my second pregnancy because of those last few months of visits with my first pregancy. I don't remember him using an instrament but my appointments were becoming painful and I hated to go. I switched to a woman doctor the second time around and that never happened. I don't know if the first doctor was trying to make me go in to labor or what but you shouldn't dread going for fear of pain.

I've delivered 4 babies, by 4 different obs. I was always sore after pelvic exams late in my pregnancies! And two of those obs were very gentle at that. I'm sure some women are more prone to being sore.
I don't think it's unusual for an ob to do a pelvic at 32 weeks, especially since you are new patient late in your pregnancy. I'm not at all sure about the use of a speculum though.....

I'm in the middle of my 3rd pregnancy and never had any type of soreness after an exam.
With my 1st pregnancy, I would get a little crampy after an exam but I feel that was from my male OB not being as easy as he could. When I was pregnant with my second, I had a female and NEVER had any type of cramping after her visits.

I know the last post said this is normal but I would call the nurse and explain your symptoms.
I'm not exactly sure if it's safe to use the instrument on you so late in pregnancy but from what I can remember, I never had that done so late. I also changed doctors with my 1st pregnancy at 7 months and did not have to do the full exam.

Good luck to you and hope you start feeling better.
~N.~