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Embarrassing Question...bed Bugs!

Hello! I have searched previous postings and found a few related to this issue...but still have some questions. I am wondering if we could have bedbugs - yikes - it makes me itchy just to write that:) Here is my dilemma - back at the end of August, my oldest son returned home from school (he attends 1/2 day Kindergarten) complaining of itchy red bumps on his shoulder and the back of his neck. He is very sensitive (even to the slightest mosquito bite in the summer) so I treated them with a topical solution (Bite MD). It seemed to help and they went away in a few days. That was it...no further bites...nobody else in our family - not even his younger brother with whom he shares a room (their beds touch each other at the headboards) had any bites or itching. I figured it was just a spider or random insect bite that either bit him while he was sleeping or got caught in his shirt and bit him at school. Then, yesterday, he arrived home from school and again complained of itchy bites - this time on the side of his butt cheek. I took a look and saw about 10 (what seemed to be) bites on the side of his buttox. I also noticed three on his ankle, two on the back side of his buttox and three on his thigh. I put more of the Bite MD on the "bites" and he seemed relieved from the itching. I asked him when he noticed the itching (I hadn't noticed any of the bites in the bathtub the night before and he usually dresses himself in the morning) and he said he noticed them in the morning before school, but forgot to tell me about them until he arrived home. After some internet research and some searching past posts on this site, I am thinking that these bites might be from bedbugs. In fact, I am considering buying him a new mattress this weekend:) Here is my dilemma...can bedbugs affect only one bed in a house...even when the affected bed is in the same room (touching, in fact) another bed? If we do, in fact, have bedbugs, wouldn't the bites be happening more frequently than every 2-3 months or so...wouldn't I notice more of them every day? If they are not from bedbugs...what could they be? Do spiders bite multiple times in one area of the body? Finally, please share any experiences you have had with eradicating bedbugs from your homes...what treatments worked...didn't work? Should I call a professional exterminator? Are there any over the counter treatments for his bed/mattress? I have stripped all the beds in our house and washed all the linens in HOT water. I have always considered myself a pretty "clean" person (but not neurotic) and this has really got me grossed out! Any help or advice would be appreciated:)
P.S. We do have a dog - however, we checked him for fleas and he checks out CLEAN:)
Thanks (in advance) - you wise Mamasource mommies:)

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Hi L. - it could be bedbugs but you might also talk to a pediatric dermatologist about scabies. I recommend seeing a derm doc only because often a general doc can easily misdiagnose these kinds of things. Because of the length of time between "attacks", it could be spiders. When you look for bedbug traces, also look in the closets and in and around the bed for the cottony egg sacs. I know that sounds gross but the little tiny babies can hatch just about anywhere and they can pack a punch when they bite. You might also consider putting on one of those vinyl mattress cases that completely enclose the mattress. It would be less expensive than buying a new one.

I agree with taking him to the doctor. I thought I had bedbug bites, but couldn't find any proof of them. The doctor discovered that it was actually scabies. No idea how I got infected, but it can be passed with just a handshake. No one else in my house was infected, even though I'd been suffering for weeks from the bites. An oral med and a topical cream took care of it immediately.

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I started working for a Pest Control Co about 7 months ago and believe it or not, bed bugs are a bigger & wider spread problem than you might imagine. It is very important to not move anything including sleeping arrangements as if it is bed bugs, it will cause them to move to other rooms. I would definetly call a professional to at least do an inspection. I am not trained in this, but I am learning. I know that they only come out at night and hide during the day. You can see them. Check under the mattress and in the seams. If there are any tears, check those too. They can also hide in any crack or crevice around the bed or bed posts. When our company treats for these, they even pull up the edges of the carpeting. If you want to really be sure you get rid of them, I would call in a professional.

You can check on google or yahoo for more info, check the Harvard web site, they have a bunch of into. Bed bugs are epidemic in the Denver area and while they used to be considered an annoyance, recent research indicates they may transmit a number of diseases. Don't mess around with this, bring in a professional. They will be able to tell you if they are bedbugs and how to treat for them.

http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/bedbugs/management.html

www.hsph.harvard.edu/

See if you can find some photos of what bed bug bites look like. All the ones I've seen don't really match your description. Bed bug bites are usually pretty gross.
Anyway, if you DO have bed bug, you will probably need to tent and fumigate your house. Bed bugs are nocturnal (only come out at night) and will hide anywhere, in the mattress, behind picture frames, underneath dressers and side tables....LOL, yeah, pretty much anywhere where it stays dark. You can however see bed bugs, so tear the room apart, and look in all those places. I have the bite issue sometimes too, especially right after spring thaw and a few weeks before we get a hard freeze, or if my kids haven't washed their sheets for a while (a few weeks). I've never figured out what, except Spiders, and spider bites will cluster.
Hope you figure out what it is.

we had something similar not that long ago and took dd into the doctor and it turns out it was a viral infection it mimics a bug bite but wasn't. It's a different strain than chicken pox but of the same family is what we were told. DH took her to the doc so I don't have the name of it. lol but maybe run him into the doc to verify it is bites for sure or if it's a virus.

L.,
First, don't be embarassed - bed bugs are travelers and do not indicate that you are "unclean."

Second, my friend/neighbor had bedbugs, and I learned alot through helping her. I pray this is not what you have because they are very hard to eradicate (though it is possible!)

I wonder if you have bedbugs, because usually the whole house and all occupants are affected. One tell tale sign is three bites right in a row.

At first I thought you might have fleas, but then you said the dog was clean. Is there a possibility that there could be fleas where your son goes to daycare? Another possibility is scabies, which can be acquired through soil, animals, and many other sources. My son had scabies this year, and they were pretty easy to erradicate - I had to cover him in a lotion (permetherine). I hate to use the chemicals, but sometimes you just have to. My son also had lice (again, not a cleanliness issue) and the chemicals didn't work - I had to shave his head. WE have had lots of bug issues this year, and it has been a total drag!

I believe this is the email of a guy who has a whole bed bug website, and he will personally reply to your inquiries. It has been a while since I used it so I cant guarantee that this address is still good. <____@____.com>. This is his website: http://thebedbugresource.com/bedbugcontacts.htm

Good luck!!

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Hi L.,

I am not sure if they are bed bugs or not. I actually got them my Freshman year in college in a dorm. There were 3 of us in one room and my bed was the only one that had them and two of our beds were bunk style and the other was touching it like and L shape and they never got them. The school had someone come out and check the beds. They did have to replace my mattress and I never had the problem again. I also washed all my linens in hot water and threw away my pillow and got a new one. Good Luck!!

HI L.:
Don't be embarrassed! Bed bugs are making a huge comeback all over the world! Even people staying in 5-star hotels are getting them! I knwo this because we recently had someone that lives with us (our au pair) bring them into our home after she went on vacation. My hubby dealt with getting rid of the bed bugs while i was out of the country on a business trip (fortunate for me!) so he is the most experinced with them. Typically though you get them from sleeping somewhere that has them. they are only transferred during night time and typically are obtained while sleeping. Ourts were confined to the Au Pairs bedroom adn we had to treat our whol ehouse. Best to call an exterminator as they knwo what the bites look like. Has your son been sleeping at a hotel or someone elses house recently?
S. Kauffman

If they are indeed bed bugs, you should be able to find them on the corners of the mattress, as well as having dark black stains in the crevises of the mattresses. You would also see blood stains on the sheets. Some people are more sensitive or allergic to the bites then others, so some have a more severe reaction. The like the dark and body heat. They may also live in drapes around the bed, framed pictures, the carpeting or base boards. They are pretty tiny so they travel easily and get carried from one place to another. Perhaps try checking on him in the middle of the night by turning on the light or a flashlight to see if you see any on his bed at that time. I would also check with the school/daycare he attends.
If it is bedbugs, I would recommend a professional exterminator as they can be very difficult to get rid of and can hide out dormant for months. Good luck and let me know if you have any other questions(I went thru this a year ago and still feel the pain).

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