Embarrasing Question

DH,
I've also had this symptom for all of my life. It ranges from a clear to a milky white, but has never amounted to anything. I don't have yeast infections or STDs of anything. It's just a part of normal everyday life. I wear a pantyliner every day. Like the others who have responded, I also suggest talking with your GYN about it. Remember that our bodies change after giving birth (my shoe size is even different, lol). The women you see on the ads are either wearing a tampon, or they don't have the issue of having to wear a pantyliner all the time. My discharge also smells a little, but my doctor has said as long as it doesn't smell fishy I'm fine. Hope this helps.

God bless,
Liz

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Hi DH--

Is there a faint (and at times strong) odor to your discharge? If so, this is probably a simple case of bacterial vaginosis. It is NOT an STD, although it may be a PH imbalance triggered by intercourse with your husband.

A very large percentage of women walk around with this, and you are not alone! I am very surprised that your gynecologist hasn't tested you for this with labwork called a "wet mount", but you should ask for this. A course of antibiotics called Flagyl normally cures this infection.

It is recurring in many women, but search online with keywords "bacterial vaginosis" and see if these symptoms ring true for you. I hope this helps!

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You are perfectly normal:) I've dealt w/ this problem since puberty...my mom used to wash my underwear and say, you have an infection, you need to go to the doctor. I would go...nothing wrong. Then after children it really kicked it OMG! If I jump rope or get on my children's trampoline I have to go change clothes....even w/ my daily liner that I wear.
It's just one of those things. I also believe it has something to do with your body chemistry and the muscles that weaken. It's something we have to deal with...but....on the flip side, when we hit menopause, maybe it will counteract all that dryness that women complain about;)
Blessings,
L.

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You may want to try douching occasionally with a VERY mild solution of water & vinegar. There may be just a slight sensitivity going on & this could help restore your acidic balance. Good luck!

I'm confused about the discharge, urine or other? If urine...try kegel exercises

Hi,
You don't mention any discomfort. Do you have any? Yeast is very common,and that usualy comes with itching, burning.

I did experiemce a similar situation for many years. No one could give me any answer as to the cause, and I used antibiotics and creams on and off.

Finally I discovered an Acupuncture book-Between Heaven and Earth-that listed conditions that could be treated. I found a practitioner nearby through a friend. That was in 1995 and I have been going for treatment ever since. The terrible discomfort ended rather quickly, though I still tended to have a little discharge. I kept reading and decided to attend Acupuncture School, and let other women know what I had learned.

I have no physical symptoms that need to be treated. Acupuncture helps with relaxation and calming and just helping you feel better. If you would like some names in our area-Howard County/DC area let me know.

Good luck!
A.

My gyn has just said that some women have more discharge than others. I know I go through times when I have "excessive" discharge. If the discharge itself is mostly clear then you should be fine. What you really wanna look out for is bad odor or a not-clearish discharge- that is when there is a problem. On those days of mine, I go through MAYBE two pantiliners, if not just one. Is that what you are talking about here? I wouldn't know what to say if it was a lot more than that.

some women just have more of a discharge than others. the underwear ads are really not an indicator, those aren't 'real' people. they don't put fat women in swimsuit ads either, but we exist.
if there are no medical problems, no itching or odor, and you've eliminated all scented products (toilet paper, sprays and douches, laundry soap etc), then i'd say simply realize that this is YOU and it's fine. using panty liners isn't a huge inconvenience. some women are at the other end of the spectrum and need to keep personal lubricant with 'em at all times.
vive la difference!
:) khairete
S.

Clearly from the responses you are not alone! I also have this issue and noticed when I was on the Pill it was much worse, so much that I called the MD who found all was normal.

It is my belief that it is hormonal, which makes sense. I just deal w/this interesting part of womanhood.

I have been going through the same thing for the past 10 yrs and now that I have my first child its even worse. I can't stand the pantiliner thing because it can cause odor build up. And I feel like I have to wash up in the restroom before having intercourse. Sometimes I even jump into the shower beforehand in the evening. I feel like it makes me paranoid. I spoke with my doctor and there is a procedure but they don't recommend it until you are done having kids. So once I am done I am going in to get it. Sometimes it is so heavy I use a tampon when its not even my time of the month especially when I am going out to dinner or something. I get sick and tired of the pantiliner! I know exactly what you are going through.

I agree with the other people who have recommended "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". Chances are you are seeing normal, natural, cervical fluid, not an infection of any sort. Good luck!

some woman just have alot of discharge. i was the same until i was treated for a yeast infection. i never thought i had one because i never itched but after that the discharge has gone away. have you been tested for that?

Having kids sometimes gives us more than we bargained for. Things "change" inside for some reason after you have a kid. I'm in the same boat as you, my midwife and doctor both said that this is normal.

You are absolutely not the only one!!!! I have the same thing which I can definitely say has gotten worse after each pregnancy. That happened to a friend of mine who went to the doctor and they told her it was normal for women to experience this after having kids. Not so helpful.

I wish I had advice for you = (

You could have a hormonal problem which could be causing the discharge. The good bateria are not living and the bad bacteria are taking over. There is a treatment which takes about 7days and is somewhat like the old fashion yeast infection cures. The medicine starts with "me..." anyway ask the DR about that. Also inquire to see if you have a urinary tract infection. Sometimes those mask the issue. Lastly, wearing a pantiliner is probably making the whole situation worse. I know you may feel that it is doing better, but it isn't. The moisture gets stuck with the liners and creates more of a problem. And if you didn't know some of those pantiliner companies that use dryweave..those are the worse. Do ask your DR about all this. and I am sorry you have had to live with this situation for so long.

I am a mom of 3 (10yr,3yr and 14mns).

This is just a thought but has your doctor checked you for other vaginal infections? I had noticed a lot of discharge and when I asked my doctor about it at my annual exam they looked at a slide and I had a bacterial infection. They gave me an antibiotic and a pamphlet that explained that these infections could be caused by the type of soap I use or even the laundry detergent.

I've only experienced the pronounced change during ovulation since having kids. It's great since I'm trying to practice natural family planning! If you have an IUD, that could cause the excess discharge. Intercourse using condoms, using any spermicidal products, and douching can also irritate and increase discharge. You should avoid scented detergents, wipes, and products of any kind, including your pantiliners. I'm a huge fan of "breathable" liners made by 7th Generation. No plastic backing and no bleach used in production is much healthier, especially if you use them on a daily basis. I used to work for an OB/GYN and we had several women complain of discomfort, itching or discharge with no verifyable infection. In some cases, the wet mount showed a low number of lactobacillus - friendly bacteria. The doctor recommended douching with a high-quality yogurt. A local health foods store may also carry lactobacillus/probiotic suppositories to help balance the flora. It's worth a try/won't hurt you.

A discharge in women is normal, especially when you've had children. If the discharge has an odor you might want to check with your doctor and see if there isn't any bad bacteria present. There is a natural flora in the vaginal canal and if it is disrupted you can experience more of a discharge or odor. Also, douching disrupts this natural flora so it is good to do so rarely and even better not at all.
Hope this helps.

This is totally normal. I would also recommend TCOYF to learn more about your body. Good luck.

DH,
Since you have already been to a Dr. and they haven't given you any guidance, I'd suggest visiting a midwife. They also do gyn visits. This is an issue that is bothering you, and you deserve some assistance.
I'm happy to give you some referrals. Feel free to contact me if you desire.
L.

Great question. I wish my mother explained more to me about the different types of vaginal secretions that I would have: egg-like, sticky/tacky, etc... and what they meant. I found it somewhat confusing when I was younger.

I would highly recommend 2 books: The Garden of Fertility or Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Excellent resources on women's health - particularly the latter. It goes into great depths on charting your fertility, uncovering allergies, getting pregnant, avoiding pregnancy, etc... all from the various vaginal secretions.

If you do start charting, I found black underwear very helpful.

Have you discussed with your GYN? I believe the vagina has a natural discharge, as a lubricant and cleanser. However, if it's heavy enough that you must wear a pantyliner, I understand your concern. Is there any itching? Or just a normal discharge. If it's clear and there are no other symptoms, like odor, pain or severe itching, then it's just probably a normal discharge. Here's a link that might help:
http://womenshealth.about.com/od/vaginaldischarg1/a/vagin...

this is most likely natural. Vaginal dryness or wetness varies from woman to woman. I suggest you take a local Natural Family Planning class to learn about your mucus and what it means.
www.ccli.org

glad to hear everyone was able to help you!

Hi!

I am totally with you on this one! I, too, thought I was the only person on this big earth that HAD to wear a panty liner everyday. My discharge problem started after the birth of my first child - she just turned five last month - and I have wore a panty liner everyday for the last five years. It does have its days when it is not as bad but I clearly still wear a pantyliner (I can't stand the feel of wet panties either!) I now have four little ones and still have the same issue. I talked to my OB about it at my last exam and she just said it was completely normal (as long as there isn't a foul odor or color) and that some woman just are more "dischargey" than others; especially after childbirth.

I think back years before kids and I never wore a liner between periods. I was just like the girls on those undie commercials.... but now NOPE... I'm a pantyliner girl. Thank goodness the are "barely there" thin now!

A.

I have it every single day of my life!!! It has ranged from clear to slightly whitish and sometime gets heavier around around my time of the month. If it smells or looks really weird, or you feel itchy, a yeast infection could be the culprit. Maybe your GYN would be able to suggest some things, but for me its normal everyday occurence. I felt the same way and asked my doc and she said it was pretty normal. I use wipes to freshen myself from a company called Sweet Spot, but I personally don't believe in using douches and things like that. You are not alone!!

I also had this when I was younger. Have you been using condoms? I ask because soon after I met my husband I got on the pill and didn't have much discharge at all anymore which is why I think it was the condoms. Also women when they are pregnant do tend to have heavier discharge, I know I had to wear pantyliners the first couple months of both of my pregnancies. And through out your menstrual cycle your cervical mucous changes too. Have you noticed that it's worse during certain times of the month, like around ovulation. Try keeping a journal of times when it's heavier, it probably is just normal for you.

I don't know what the discharge would be caused by however you might try one of the intimate spray deoderants that say they are to help prevent dampness. I am not sure if it will work or not but it might be worth a try.

Best Wishes!

Really a doctor should be answering your question.

I applaud you for having the courage to put yourself out on limb and bring this discussion to the table.

I too suffer from this and was too embarrassed to ever ask anyone!!!

I'm one of those people that doesn't like to go to the doctor unless it's a "real" situation, so I haven't spoken to my doctor about this and do not really have any advice to offer.

However, I thank you for opening up this discussion because I've learned a lot based on the responses you received.

Thanks again to you and all the other moms out there. It's good to know that it's normal NOT to be "normal"....LOL

D H, I do understand were your coming from I've had the same thing going on with me. It also started after my 1st baby who just turned six. I can go a mth and not have any thing or I can go a mth were it feels like have I have stuff just running out of me. I know how embarrasing it is, I talk to my Doc every year when I go for my yearly, I've also been tested for STDs and thats fine, they have treated me for yeast infec, that doesn't work. I'm like you my husband is the only one I've been with, but before us he did have relations when the doc wanted to test me for STDs I about fliped my lid. I go back for my yearly in Sept and again I'll tak to them again. I'm glad I 'm not the only one going through this good luck.