H.P. asks from Houston, TX on September 11, 2011
Don't Break My Baby!
Don't laugh at me. Okay, laugh, but help too.
I need to find a helmet for my baby. He turned 8 months today and memorialized it by bumping his head and getting a knot, right on his forehead! That is NOT okay! Where can I find a helmet??
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I am laughing so hard over here! Thanks, ladies. I am half-joking...maybe. I go back and forth. I know that it happens, but that does not make it okay. (Background: I am not a person who takes things lightly just because it happens elsewhere.)
I appreciate the support, you ladies laughing with me. The sarcasm and cattiness...not so much. It's just not necessary to roll your eyes at the first-time mom of an infant, trying to get accustomed to having her little one experience hurts and figuring which ones should be avoided. I was a rough and tough kid (a boy?), but my first stitches came at 14 years. My brother was in school. I don't know of anyone in my personal life who got banged up the way you describe as an infant. Yeah, there will be bumps and bruises--and he is very precocious, so I expect to really be on my feet with him--but that doesn't mean that I should not protect him from some of those. (Wow, the nastiness.)
Oh, I am actually good about letting him fall and bump around. When he falls/stumbles, he looks over at me, and I smile and say very casually, "You okay?" Then, he smiles and carries on. This is the first time that he's actually cried and later had a knot to show for it. We laughed about it. (SO THERE, for the meanie moms.)
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S.R. answers from Kansas City on September 11, 2011
Seriously, a helmet?
I hope you are kidding.
He will be fine.
It is all part of growing up.
You would have to keep a helmet on him until he was a teenager.
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on September 11, 2011
They don't need a helmet.
They do not.
My kids both hit their heads as babies, as toddlers, and even now! And they are 5 and 8 years old.
They never wore a helmet.
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B.B. answers from Missoula on September 11, 2011
It IS okay. Babies have been bumping their heads since time began, he doesn't need a helmet, he'll be just fine.
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S.R. answers from Kansas City on September 11, 2011
Seriously, a helmet?
I hope you are kidding.
He will be fine.
It is all part of growing up.
You would have to keep a helmet on him until he was a teenager.
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J.W. answers from St. Louis on September 11, 2011
Please tell me you are joking. Please....
You put a helmet on that kid he will be falling a heck of a lot more. Not to mention a lot of screaming to get it off....lord I have no idea but I can say my kids fell, bumps, hit, bled, got stitches, no broke bones mind you and they are doing just find in spite of all that trauma. :)
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D.P. answers from Pittsburgh on September 11, 2011
Luckily for you, 8 month old babies mostly bounce!
Maybe you could get a few rolls of bubble wrap while you're at the helmet store?
He doesn't need a helmet. He'll be fine. :)
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on September 11, 2011
They don't need a helmet.
They do not.
My kids both hit their heads as babies, as toddlers, and even now! And they are 5 and 8 years old.
They never wore a helmet.
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B.B. answers from Missoula on September 11, 2011
It IS okay. Babies have been bumping their heads since time began, he doesn't need a helmet, he'll be just fine.
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B.C. answers from Dallas on September 11, 2011
He'll be fine, and this won't be the first bad knot that he gets! My daughter busted her mouth into the fireplace when she was running away from me at bedtime. I was shaking all the way to the hospital, but she was fine. She's 3 now and has had stitches twice and I've taken her to to carenow for xrays twice. Crazy kid!
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D.B. answers from Charlotte on September 11, 2011
Ah sweetie, I remember those days!
Time to pad your home instead... hope he's okay!!!
Smiles! D.
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J.B. answers from Houston on September 11, 2011
I think bumps are a part of the journey to figuring out how to handle yourself. I have never helmeted my boys and they are no worse for wear and have definitely had their bumps along the way. I think a helmet can stunt his development and discovery process. I know you want to protect your child but life has it's bumps you know? Now if there is something going on like a child beating their head into walls and the floor as an outlet to frustration, a helmet can be warranted, but for regular life I think it would be a big overreaction. Good luck!
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