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Doing My Taxes - Qualified Childcare Expenses

I am filling out my return and hit a bit of a wall. I changed child care providers this year. The in-home lady that has always kept my children was fine with me reporting my childcare expense and listing her as my provider. Due to family illness, she is no longer able to care for my littles.

I found another warm, welcoming family for my children. They are wonderful and I'm lucky to have them. I realize I should've asked before we all got attached to her, but it didn't occur to me - she doesn't report her income! So, I can't report it. I can't get the tax deduction that I have absolutely earned. It feels unfair.

On the other hand, she is a great deal cheaper than any traditional facility and she's like family. If I had to choose the deduction or her, I choose her. Is there another way? I don't want to get anyone in trouble. I have no intention of committing fraud on my tax return. BUt missing out on that $6,000 deduction is going to eat away at me!

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Her husband makes good money and she does keep 2 other children. I just did the numbers on Turbotax. If I claim the whole $6,000 I get $1200 cash. If I claim $3,000 I get $600 cash! That's alot of money to throw away! I rightfully deserve that $1200! I pay $7800 a yr for both kids. I have a right to claim that on my taxes. Bottom line, I should've asked this before we got attached to her. It's important to me that my children be in a home, being loved consistantly by the same people. This isn't something I would change providers over.

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Seems obvious to me. She doesn't claim the income. You can't claim the expense. There is no alternative way of claiming the expense. If there were it would be in the filing instructions. You could call an accountant who does taxes to ask but I'm almost positive you're out of luck.

You are not committing fraud by not claiming the expense. You have a choice. She is the one filing a fraudulent tax claim. And she will likely be caught if you claim the expense.

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Claim the amount you paid to the first woman up through when you stopped using her for this calendar year. After that, you're out of luck.

You aren't committing fraud by paying the other woman under the table & then not claiming it on your returns.

*ETA* You said she's a great deal cheaper than a traditional facility. I suggest that you actually crunch the numbers & see if paying her under the table & not being able to write any of it off IS actually cheaper than paying a center & getting a (in my opinion, rather low) write-off. I'll bet you're right & that you're currently getting the best deal possible. ;)

*ETA*(again) Just so you understand, it's not actually a $6K deduction (unless you really are paying out the wa-zoo!), it's just lowering your taxable income by $6K. It honestly doesn't make an enormous difference in the long run. I assume you're doing your taxes online, so just for giggles, pop in the numbers both ways to see what the end result difference would be. Just be sure you don't submit them with the incorrect numbers attached!!
I worked as a bookkeeper for years at a CPA firm, btw, I'm not just pulling this info out of my butt, lol!

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I'd probably figure out how much cheaper she is than what you'd spend sending your child somewhere else. Are you saving $100 a month? That would offset the $1200 you'd have gotten back if you'd gone somewhere else... so...

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Just think of it as getting a small part of your deduction every month when you are paying her so much less than a traditional facility. You can't have your cake and eat it too in this situation.

ETA: She is able to charge you less since she is not paying taxes on it. If she was claiming it and paying taxes she would charge a lot more. Easily $1200/yr more in order for her to come out ahead. I think in the end, even without the deduction, you are getting a good deal.

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You pay $7,800 a year for someone to watch two children full time? If that's the case, you've already gotten the tax credit and then some. That's an unbelievably low rate. I say consider yourself lucky to have an awesome provider who doesn't charge much, and get over the tax credit. We don't get it either because we earn over the limit. And every year it makes me mad. But you know what? I'd rather have my income than the credit. Try to think of your great day care lady that way too...

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How are you not getting a tax deduction that you "earned"? If you're saving more by using her than you would get back on your taxes, stop your crying.

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But isn't SHE commiting tax fraud by not disclosing income she is earning??

And the person who said housekeeper expenses?? Umm..I am not a tax whiz, but pretty sure a housekeeper expense does not fall under a parents deductable child care related expenses???

Another question I have for you for the future..does your workplace do a pre-tax childcare account? If she is not counting the income legally, than I do not think you can do that either...I do home childcare and its all tied to a EIN or SS#.

Good luck.

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Seems obvious to me. She doesn't claim the income. You can't claim the expense. There is no alternative way of claiming the expense. If there were it would be in the filing instructions. You could call an accountant who does taxes to ask but I'm almost positive you're out of luck.

You are not committing fraud by not claiming the expense. You have a choice. She is the one filing a fraudulent tax claim. And she will likely be caught if you claim the expense.

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How Much is the Child & Dependent Care Worth?
The child and dependent care tax credit is worth 20% to 35% of your day care expenses. The percentage of the credit depends on your adjusted gross income. A full chart of the percentage rates is found in Publication 503.
http://taxes.about.com/gi/o.htm?zi=1/XJ&zTi=1&sdn...

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