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Diabetes in Pregnancy

A little history...both of my kids were conceived using Clomid. We tried for many moons to have both without any assistance, but we were blessed to get pregnant pretty quickly with the ovulation help. I was diagnosed with Type II diabetes between the kids. We thought about having another and I just didn't feel like my body was ready and able to be pregnant again. So about 2 months ago we decided to not have another, started getting rid of all the clothes that our kids had outgrown, baby equipment, toys, you name it. It felt so good to get rid of clutter. Well, you can guess where this is going, I am 10 weeks pregnant. I have Poly-cystic Ovarian Syndrome with very irregular periods with often 40+ day cycles. We obviously did not take any clomid or any other assistance. We weren't using any birth control because of our previous experience. We are still in shock and haven't told anyone else yet. My parents, who are super grandparents and parents, have both had conversations with me in the passed couple weeks about how glad they are that we aren't going to be pregnant again, for my health, so I will live longer, all the things that I am scared of being voice by my dear parents. And since we have decided to wait until Thanksgiving to tell both our families, I feel like I am drowning with guilt and fear and worry and a little anger and dealing with it all alone. It is not realy to my husband (I think he is a bit in denial) so any conversation about baby is cut short. This is his personality and I just get so ahead of him and often don't let him process long enough before getting irritated. I am a Christian, so believe this baby is a gift from God in His perfect timing. But I am consumed with thoughts of what to eat, when to eat it, why does it all taste like cardboard, and never enjoying any foods. My glucose numbers are good and I am doing all the things I need to be doing. I guess my quesiton is, now that the venting and ranting is over, does anyone have good, healthy, low-carb, but somewhat quick suggestions for meals and snacks, especially breakfast? I would love any help that I can get.

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That's amazing, and wonderful. My easiest low carb meals, particularly breakfast did take some getting used to. I have one of those little electric grills and grill lean cuts of meat with seasoning or use steak sauce after. And then steam veggies in the microwave. Those already in steaming bags are great if you don't have steaming containers. I also cook whole grain brown rice in the microwave... there's a recipe for it on the bag of one of them sold at walmart. I was surprised how much more flavor brown rice has compared to white. For breakfast, I scramble eggs up with milk as soon as I get them home from the store, and then I only have to microwave them every morning. They'll last a week that way. I also cook up a whole package of bacon or sausage links (you can get turkey meat links/patties) to reheat. Whole grain bread, the stuff that's really dense and has seeds in it... Pepperidge Farm has some, so does Great Harvest... with peanut butter spread on it works well. I use my carbs on either steamed veggies or fresh fruit. Apples and cheese are helpful. Nuts, already suggested. Salads work great, particularly Ceasar salads. They are very low in carbs and high in protein and the dressing has the taste. I just had to get used to meat and cheese. It took time and now I can't stand food with a ton carbs or sugar, tastes too sweet and just icky to me. Good luck and congratulations.

We had almost the exact same situation with our third pregnancy. It took both of us awhile to get used to the idea of having another, and our family was worried at first also. Then, I ended up with Gestational Diabetes for the first time with that pregnancy also. Our daughter is 4 months old now and the light of all our lives, including the grandparents. I am a doula in the Aurora area and am happy to help if you want it!

You sound like an amazing person. I'm sure that everything will work out okay! Best wishes to you!

I would talk to your Doctor. They deal with diabetes and pregnancy everyday and will have great suggestions on what to and what not to have. Good Luck!

Don't stress so much. It won't help your baby or anyone else. It sounds like you have very loving families so they will accept this baby as soon as they get over the shock.
I had gestational diabetes with my second child so I have a vague idea where you're coming from. Unfortunately, it's going to be a boring diet and you're just going to have to dig in and do what's best for your baby and yourself. I wanted fruit so badly when I was pregnant but with my blood sugar levels, I couldn't have any except for maybe some berries late in the afternoon and that still pushed the limits. For breakfast, almost every day, I would make egg beaters (I got the big boxes of them at Costco) with different veggies and proteins in them. My favorite was to put feta cheese inside the eggs and cold tomatoes on top at the end. If you can handle fruit in the morning, cottage cheese with berries (any kind) is great. For lunch I would make a big salad, again with any combination of veggies and protein in it. Good snacks are nuts...tons of them, all kinds, string cheese, turkey slices rolled up with peppers or scallions inside, tomatoes cut up with capers, raw veggies with dip, a low carb tortilla with some cheese and salsa, triscuit crackers with cheese, an apple with cheese. (My nutrition counselor said it was best to pair a carb with a protein, if you're going to have the carb at all). Some low sugar yogurts are okay, too. Dinner was usually some sort of grilled fish/meat with an interesting veggie. Sugar free jello (with whipped cream...woo hoo) and sugar free popsicles got me through the whole ordeal. It was very boring, especially when you're pregnant and you want Ben & Jerry's for every meal but just focus on having a healthy baby and you can get through anything. The very best thing I did was to see a nutritional counselor (specifically for diabetics). They'll be able to tell you everything you want to know. I found out about the diabetes around my fifth month and on the upside, I lost about 10 lbs. I gained a bunch of weight after the pregnancy (binging after being deprived for so long) and since then I re-adopted what I call the "diabetic diet"(although I was able to loosen it up a bit and eat fruit) and I've lost 50 lbs and I'm at a very good weight now.

The best of luck to you. You'll do what you have to and have a healthy, wonderful baby.

we have a gift child also!!! There are SO many out there. Don't tell them at Thanksgiving. Seriously, don't add that stress to the holiday! I was diabetic with 2 of my 7 pregnancies. Nuts are great snacks and Sam's Club has prepackages snack sized that are great to carry in a bag. I have some vague memory of cucumbers in vinegar water being a favorite.
Good luck...this baby will be your easiest, happiest and most "portable"...just like my little guy. I now wouldn't know what to do without him!

GOod luck.

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Congratulatios on your upcoming arrival! I know you are nervous. I would say don't worry about your parents - it sounds like they were supporting your decision of not having children and are genuinely concerned for you. I would guess that they will also support you with a new baby.

As for snacks, as you know, look for things low in carbs. The best option is veggies. They have a lot of flavor, are good for you, have fiber to help you feel full, and are low in net carbs. You can eat them raw or steamed. I've liked to have broccoli, cauliflower, and celery in the fridge all ready cut up and in baggies so you can grab and eat. I also love carrots (they're higher in carbs though) and sugar snap peas and edamome (not sure of the carbs in those). The 'veggies' that are really a fruit (squash, peppers, tomatoes) are higher in carbs and so you need to be more careful with those.
Beef jerkey is a good low-carb snack once in a while (be careful of the sodium). Some people also like pork rinds as a substitute for chips - but sparingly!! (I personally think they are disgusting, they're nothing but fat)
You can have small stash of sugar free candy (Hershey's make some, they taste as good as the 'real' stuff). They should be a special treat though, as the sugar alcohols used to sweeten them can have a laxitive effect.

I have to say congrats. I too was on clomid for my first two children (high doses for many months) and then my wonderful son came to us...surprise...while I was even breastfeeding..wow talk about a shocker. I think I was still in denial the day i had him.

I am a nurse and take care of new moms and babies. I see women and babies all the time come in all the time who are diabetic who are very healthy. Talk to your Doctor and a Diabetic educator about your options. Don't stress out so much, this is a wonderful time.

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