J.R. asks from Camp Hill, PA on October 13, 2006
Daughter Uses One Unknown Word to Describe Everything
Hi all,
This is my second questions here. I was just wondering if anyone experienced the same thing. My little girl just turned two on the 29th of September. She's finally starting to string words together like "Mom eat soup" or "Dad where are you?" It feels like it's taken us a long time to get to this point, but I'm happy she's finally communicating some simple things. But, what concerns me is if she doesn't know what a word is or can't remember the word, she uses the same term for everything. For example, she'll point to a picture of an elephant and because she can't say the word she says "Digo." Or if she doesn't know that a lamp is called a lamp she's says "Digo." I hope you get my drift. Has anyone else experienced this? It is unusual for them to use one generic term for everything until they know what the word is? I tell her what it is and ask her to repeat me and sometimes she does and sometimes she doesn't. Thanks for any thoughts!
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Thank you for all the wonderful responses! It is comforting to know that others have experienced something similar to what I am talking about. Sometimes it gets a little embarrassing when we're around other people because she uses the word so often. People often look at me with a confused look. If she doesn't know someone's name she even say's "Bye, bye digo!" What's also frustrating is we happen to have some other children in the family who were early talkers so in comparison I feel like she is behind. But, based on your responses I think she's making good progress. Thanks for the reassurance!
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M.R. answers from Pittsburgh on October 14, 2006
My daughter did this when she was 2-3 years old. It takes time for these toddlers to learn what words to use. Just keep repeating the words, she will eventually catch on. Toodlers need routine and repition.
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C.J. answers from Harrisburg on October 13, 2006
Before even looking at the other responces, I thought she was trying to say,"dont know" also. i dont know what else to say, except to be patient, and help her understand the words...they will come with time.
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M.R. answers from Pittsburgh on October 14, 2006
My daughter did this when she was 2-3 years old. It takes time for these toddlers to learn what words to use. Just keep repeating the words, she will eventually catch on. Toodlers need routine and repition.
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C.C. answers from Philadelphia on October 14, 2006
it sounds a little like "do you know?" to me. do you say that to her. At the same age my son say "hazel" all the time. I figured it put tht he meant "what's that?" I hope that helps.
N.Y. answers from Pittsburgh on October 14, 2006
she is only two. my son who is now almost 8, talked before two, but was hard to understand. just after two, he really took off! anyway, maybe "digo" is her way of asking what it is. maybe she is saying "there ya go".
i would continue to tell her what anything is that she say "digo" for. also try picture books with simple pictures and one word to tell what the picture is. :)
L.W. answers from Scranton on October 13, 2006
My son does the same thing if he likes something and can't say the name or doesn't know it it's automatically "kittycat" if he is indifferent or wants to know the name he says "dat?" I found that if he has a particular interest in some thing like if he asks more that once i just repeat the word try to get him to say it if he can't i just correct him whenever he says kittycat eventually he'll pick it up as will your daughter its only a matter of time before her vocabulary and speech is overwhelming and you just want silence :)
T.P. answers from Dover on October 13, 2006
J.,
At two, your daughters vocabulary is still going to be pretty limited. It seems like most kids really start taking off speaking between 2-3. When she does, hold on, it's going to go fast. I wouldn't worry about her calling everything digo. I have a nephew who used to call everything "Meow". As he learned new words, the meows got replaced with lamp, picture, food, etc. I wouldn't worry. She'll be talking your ear off in no time.
C.J. answers from Harrisburg on October 13, 2006
Before even looking at the other responces, I thought she was trying to say,"dont know" also. i dont know what else to say, except to be patient, and help her understand the words...they will come with time.
C.J. answers from Philadelphia on October 15, 2006
J.,
my oldest son called everything a "dadat". It was really cute at first but got annoying once he was about 2 1/2. He knew what the things were called he just called them "dadats" just to annoy us i think. Don't worry too much lots of kids do that sort of thing. At least she is talking. My youngest is 19 months and barely says a word. Just keep practicing and don't loose your cool.
Good luck and be safe,
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R. answers from Pittsburgh on October 13, 2006
My son will be 4 in Feb and if he can't remember the name of a color he calls it Blue. He will do that with everything and he talks well (you can't always understand him, but he does know most of his words.)
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