Daughter Humping the Floor

It sounds like it could be related to a possible yeast infection causing itching, or maybe she has a sensory issue and the stimulation goes hand in hand with that? There are many potential reasons.....

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http://www.drgreene.com/21_606.html

http://www.babycenter.in/toddler/development/socialemotio...

http://www.ehow.com/how_###-###-####_deal-toddler-masturb...

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C.

My daughter too did this and we actually talked to a counselor regarding it because it seemed excessive.It always seemed when she was tired or bored like when she was watching TV. They said the same thing...tell her she needs to do it in her room or in private and just stick with that. As they said above, it is completely normal.

M.

My kids did that too, I also got embarrest by it and still do with my 3year old. Her legs just don't want to stop moving. She's jumping but since her head and arms are on the ground, it looks like she's humping. What I did was I would tickle her, that would tire her out the rest of the way. A much happier & fun way to think of it.

Hi A. V-

Most likely, your child is doing this for attention, since negative attention is better than no attention, right? So-as soon as the behavior begins, pick her up, put her in her naughty chair for 3-5 minutes, say very calmly, "We don't act like that." Be consistent, and be strong. She will tantrum. Her psyche is not being damaged. Do not allow the behavior for even 2 seconds! It is self-rewarding.

Make sure that she has adequate outside activities to entertain her. Make sure that she is not imitating any adult or other child's behavior. Find ways to give her positive attention.

You will be just fine, and so will she :-) Hope this helps, S.

I have read that it is usually a nervous habit. The book suggest to spend some more time cuddling with the child or distracting them with a game or project. Hang in there. It is normal

My niece did the same thing when she was your daughters age. The pediatrician said it is normal. She is just trying to soothe herself. The child doesn't know that it is "humping". He said she would grow out of it and she did. Be patient and try not to get angry at her for it.....she doesn't understand and if it makes her feel better at this age I would say let her. Good luck........Oh by the way, my niece didn't do it on the floor, she did it on a big stuffed animal !!!!!!!!!! yikes

We deal with this at school sometimes and it seems one of the most effective things is distraction. Ask her to get something for you, or offer something to her that will involve her moving location or doing something else with her hands/body. At her age it's probably almost impossible to differentiate between private and public behaviors, and pleasure in one part of her body would have no particular meaning versus another part of her body. I think it's wise to not call attention to it, other than as you have done, telling her it's something to do in her room, but I'd even let up on that and just ask her to change the channel, or feed the fish or whatever might distract her.

My son kept touching his "private parts" when he was young so I just calmly told him that we only do that in private. We just continued to tell him that very matter-of-factly over and over again. I would sometimes just point him toward his room and remind him. It worked fine but I have to tell you the funniest part. We were in a store a year or so later and he saw a sign on a door in the back. He asked what it said. I told him that the sign said "Private." Then he asked me if that's where people go to touch their privates. We still laugh about it today and he is 19!

Hi A.,
Just to be sure, have you had her physically checked to make sure she doesn't have an irritation or infection or something that is causing her discomfort? My daughter had a vaginal yeast infection at that age. It was a shock to me and I had no idea that they could get one so young. Our peditrician said that it can be diet related. (My first thought was someone was being inappropriate with her -- that was a terrifying thought!)
But you do want to cover all the bases to be sure.
A resource that I recommend is Dr. Wm Sears, pediatrician in San Clemente, CA you can ask questions from his website:
www.askdrsears.com
He also recommends whole food nutrition for your childs health that I offer in my health education fitness and family practice.
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My mom said that I was a masterbater and she just told me that nobody wanted to see that and if I wanted to do it I had to do it in my room. She said that she never said that it was bad or wrong, just that nobody else wanted to see it. She said that I would always stop because I did not want to go to my room. Just be consistent with the rule!! -- only in your room and/or in privacy. Good luck!