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Cookie Dough and Gift Wrap - School Fundraisers

I work hard with fundraising for our schools, but I don't care to purchase fundraising items from students knowing that the companies benefit far more than the schools. However, I always feel really bad when I have to say that I am not interested in their products. How do you say, "No"?

On the other hand when my kids want to sell fundraiser items; we live in the country and do not have any family close by. Our friends also have kids in the same schools. How do you help your school with fundraisers and gaining funds to enable teachers to purchase needed items for their classrooms?

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Thank you all for your comments about school fundraisers! I needed to know that parents want alternatives to school fundraisers as I do. I keep hearing the same theme in your replies that giving directly to the school is an effective and direct way to support your school. I also liked the ideas of community events rather than student sales to raise funds. I greatly appreciate your comments and knowing that you do want to give directly to schools. I find your comments encouraging to me to expand my secure donation website, www.Donate2Educate.com, not only to give teachers a voice for what their classroom wishes and needs are, but also to give families a view of what is needed in their child(ren)s classrooms. Your comments also gave me ideas for fundraising events for my childrens school and to offer as suggestions for other schools! Thank you very much, what a great group of Moms!

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I generally just give a cash donation straight to the PSO or PTA. They get 100% of the funds that way.

I suggest just giving a donation. If it's not about you not having the money, just say "I'd rather not buy cookie dough, but I'll give you a $10 donation," I'd say that's support enough!

I was a PTO President for my children's school out in Hawaii. I had a lot of parents come to me with the same concerns. They wanted to help but didn't want to give half their money to the companies. They would just make a monetary donation in whatever amount to the PTO instead of participating in the fundraiser. It was nice and was still a way to support the teachers, other staff, PTO, and their child at the same time.

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I feel the same way about you regarding NOT liking to purchase items where the schools get minimum return, but the companies prosper. I make a cash (check) donation to the organization instead so they get 100% of it. Even a $10 donation gives them more money than a $25 Gold Canyon Candle or a $15 tub of cookie dough!

I agree with you 100%. Instead of buying cookie dough for $12.00 (knowing that the school only gets about $4). You could make a donation directly to the school. Then the school gets the full amount donated. And you don't have cookie dough in the fridge that you might eat by the spoonful. LOL - That's what I do. Put your check or cash in a seperate envelope to have the student turn in to the office when they turn in their fundraiser.

Good morning D....Just tell the student that you don't wish to make any purchases but you will make a donation directly to their school/pta. Write a check to the ABC School PTA (or whoever is behind the fundraiser) and just put "donation" on the memo line. The school/pta then gets to keep 100% of the money you wrote the check for!

L.

P.S. SAHM to 8 and 5 year old girls. I've been married for 10 years and am currently the treasurer on our elementary school's pta.

my kids are all grown up.. but I remember that being such a problem.. my solution was to just donate a dollar ammount to the school... like 20 bucks or something.. just give 20 dollars and skip buying the stupid stuff.. they don't get the full 20 if you buy stuff in the amount of 20 so I just liked to donate the money and skip the selling useless things.. we used to have wrapping paper fundraisers... the wrapping paper was like 12 dollars... good stuff.. but who pays 12 dollars for wrapping paper.. that is something we buy after christmas for less than a buck... so just try donating... and skipping the selling.. my kids didn't ever sell much.. I know kids compete to see who can sell the most.. but my kids are all grown up now, and they don't seem to be affected by the fact that they never won any prizes for selling the most... good luck.Tammie

D.--not sure how close Colton is to Tigard, but in Tigard there is a scrip clearinghouse that sells scripcards to about 100 stores, and the cards can be used online.

Scrip works like this:

Parents order scripcards, which work EXACTLY like gift cards, to stores they know they are going to spend money at (or for gifts for holidays!), and give the school their order and the face-value of the cards.

The school buys the scrip cards at a discount (4%-15%, usually), gives the cards to the parents, and pockets the difference. (Well, and the "how close to Tigard" question--somebody needs to drive to Tigard to pick up the actual cards, because they aren't QUITE advanced enough to email the cards ;) ... but I think we email the order! It's about a two-day turnaround. And most schools keep the most popular scrip on hand for parents who forgot to order and want to shop That Day.)

The parents use them at the store or online just as if they were gift cards (cash) for that amount.

The "spare" money that the schools are pocketing is because the stores can spend less advertising, can create goodwill/customer loyalty--and because sometimes people lose or forget to use their scripcards. They've figured out what percentage they can "give" without losing lots of profit.

I sometimes use New Seasons scrip $400/whack, which means $20 (5%), goes to the school. The only weirdness I've run into is that at New Seasons the computers will only take 4 cards, so I have to have 4 $100 cards and not 8 $50 cards ... but then I can just run $200 off the cards, debit the remainder, and put the other $200 of leftover cards into my next-time budget.

We have 140ish families and not that many participate (SIGH), because many are unfamiliar, but already this year we have over $4000, from people spending what they would spend anyway, at stores they already do business with.

As the teachers what they need, and donate the items. Maybe go in with the friends and purchase the bigger more expensive items. That may be the best way to help.

By the way, no one says you HAVE to purchase the items the kids sell.

Hi D.,
How about simply saying that you do not want the product, but would be glad to give them a donation directly to the school? When your kids want to participate, can you have them ask at church (if you go)? My son does lots of his fundraisers that way, by going around at coffee hour. I would also ask them to offer the same alternative (i.e. you can buy a product or you can simply donate). Good luck!
E.

I have explained to my kids that I will only buy items that I want/need. I think this is teaching them financial responcibility. Nobody should be giving money to everyone that asks! As for other peoples children I do the same thing. I look over the catolog and if I don't see anything I want then I say "no thank you". They have never been pushy about it the most I have ever heard was "it is for a good cause." My responce is simply that I don't have it right now but I will make a donation if and when I can.
You can donate directly to the school. You local PTA probably has a list of projects they are working on and you should be able to designate specificaly what you want to donate to or donate items instead of cash. My kids come home with so many fundraisers that it's just unreal. Every once in a while I do take them somewhere to sell so they can get the expirence but that is it.

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