A.T. asks from Goshen, IN on March 29, 2007
Constipation - Goshen, IN
My two year old suddenly has constipation and it is becoming a real problem because he is scared to go and is holding it in. Our family physician prescibed a stool softener but it causes my son to choke and he complains that it hurts so I am not giving it to him. The doctor also said to give him lots of veggies and fruits but my son is at a picky stage and will only eat a few kinds of fruits and just peas as a vegitable. Has any one experienced this and can give some advice?
So What Happened?™
Thank you all for your responses, I really appreciate the help. On Thursday after three days of not going and him complaining that it hurts I gave him a suppository (I'm sure that's spelled wrong), which worked in minutes. On Friday we started giving him fibasure in his food and I continued to push liquids, fruits and veggies. Saturday evening he started making faces and said it hurts so we knew he had to go, I begged and pleaded with him to get him to go and after about a hour and a warm bath later I was able to convince him to go and as he would put it "it's working mommy". So now I know it is not the problem of him having to go, it is him holding it in because he's scared it will hurt again. I am not sure how I can convince him that it won't hurt but we did have a succesful bowl movement this morning, so at least we are making progress. Thanks again:)
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S.B. answers from Fort Wayne on April 02, 2007
I have not had personal experience but somebody once told me to use prune apple juice... give them a glass a day and it should help them... I don't know if it works for all kids but it worked for theirs....Good luck :)
M.A. answers from Lexington on April 01, 2007
Both of my children experienced this when they were younger, I found that white grape juice works great. I know what you mean by picky eaters I have 4 of them now and my husband is one of them. Try the juice hope that works for you.
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H.J. answers from Louisville on March 29, 2007
I've started using Fibersure in drinks and while cooking. It has zero taste (I even drink it in bottled water and can't taste it) and I asked the doc and he said I could give it to my 2 year-old, but to ease off if she starts having diarrhea. Fiber is exceptionally good for preventing certain types of cancer, so why not get extra while you can.
I also cook with ground flax seeds. I mix them in with chili and spaghetti and on homemade pizzas. Little to no taste and lots of fiber.
J.F. answers from Elkhart on March 29, 2007
There is a stool softener that comes in a powder form that is oderless, colorless and tasteless. I mix it in with some juice and my son doesn't even know it's there. I had to get it from the pharmacist, ask your doctor for a script to get it. I can't remember the name of it. Also, apple juice is great, if kids wont eat alot of fruits and veggies. They still can get fiber in the apple juice or apple sauce to help the digestive tract move along.
God Bless <>< J.
B.D. answers from Lexington on March 29, 2007
A.,
Here is what Dr Sears recommends. It is a healthier alternative to a prescription or OTC stool softener.
"Flax oil is a favorite. A healthy alternative to mineral oil is flax oil, which not only has laxative properties, but is a valuable source of omega 3 fats as well. (Although you may hear that mineral oil is a good oil to relieve constipation, because it is a mixture of hydrocarbons dried from petroleum products, I have never been convinced of its safety. And, unlike flax oil, it certainly has no nutritional benefits.) Unlike mineral oil, which slides through the intestines, possibly taking vitamins with it, flax oil is a nutrient that facilitates absorption of the vitamins.
Dosage of flax oil:
Infants: one teaspoon a day
Toddlers: two teaspoons a day
Children and adults: one tablespoon a day"
This page has several great suggestions. Good luck.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/8/t081100.asp
M. answers from Lafayette on March 30, 2007
My daughter had trouble going when she was 6-8 months old. The pedatrician suggested Karo syrup. It worked great and kept her regular. We just put 1 tsp in her morning bottle and that was it. Now that yours is 2, you could probably put it in a cup of juice or something.
R.E. answers from Indianapolis on March 30, 2007
Put the stool softener in his drink when he's not looking.
M.L. answers from Indianapolis on March 30, 2007
Flax oil is good, as is adding FiberSure to food/drinks. Also, apple and prune juice are natural laxatives, so you could give him a glass of juice a day to help keep him regular. If you want fiber in a more kid-friendly way, (and I'm only on my first kid who is four months, so I'm not sure exactly what all your son is eating yet) granola bars are tasty and a good way to get a lot of fiber. Quaker Oats has some low/no sugar added ones that are actually very good... and oatmeal would do it too, which he should definitely be able to eat.
C.H. answers from South Bend on April 01, 2007
Well aren't you lucky! We went through this. My daughter has anxieties about diarrhea and the pain of constipation. She would not poop for anything! She would just lay on the couch and cry her tummy hurt. So I called her ped and they said to go and get supositories (I don't know if I spelled that right), just give her one and only one.
I gave that thing to my daughter and she jumped up and said I gotta go poop!! She started to fall habit again, but I told her if she didn't go number two we would have to take the medicine again. She was hesistant, but eventually went. I like this method because it took care of the problem once and for all. Hope you find a solution. If you don't like any of these ideas just see what your ped thinks is best. If you haven't already. I wish you luck! (I find it ridiculous that even on here people are trying to sell mommies stuff!)
S.B. answers from Fort Wayne on April 02, 2007
I have not had personal experience but somebody once told me to use prune apple juice... give them a glass a day and it should help them... I don't know if it works for all kids but it worked for theirs....Good luck :)
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