B.H. asks from Rohnert Park, CA on March 12, 2009
Cloth Diapers Leaking Every Hour!
Hi, I'm brand new to using cloth diapers. My son is 9 months, 19.5 lbs. I'm using Gerber birdseye prefolds fastened with Snappi and Bummis Super whisper Wrap covers. They're leaking all the time (every 1 hour-1.5 hr)! The diaper is all tucked into the wrap, and properly washed for absorbency. Any advice? I can't afford AIOs so I'm stuck with prefolds/covers. Help! I'm so frustrated and I really want to use cloth.
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Hi, everyone! Thank you SO MUCH for your helpful advice! I went ahead and ordered some Indian prefolds from Green Mountain Diapers and some Thirsties covers. They are wonderful! No leaking so far. The cotton in the prefolds is so much superior to the Gerber birdseye, I cannot even believe it. The Thirsties work better than the Bummies wraps b/c they have leg gussets that hold everything in.
Kimmie M. also sent me some beautiful handmade cloth prefolds that I am enjoying. Thank you again, Kimmie!
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J.D. answers from San Francisco on March 13, 2009
My oldest is 22 and youngest 11. I used cloth for all three of them and used terry cloth diapers with the pre-fold in the middle. I tried those diaper covers, but found they weren't absorbent enough. I bought the plastic covers at Sears (their most expensive brand) and used old fashioned pins. I never had any problems after that. I always doubled up at night and naps. None of my children were ever stuck with a pin. I think it's great that you are using cloth!
A.B. answers from Sacramento on March 13, 2009
Hi B., I started using cloth around the same time as you with my son, and he is now 15mos and almost 24lbs. It is hard to get started as you try different things, but then you don't want to spend money on things that don't work! I have tried many different kinds/brands (feel free to email me if you want my experience with the different brands), and I had some issues with the Whisper Wraps; they just started to leak, and although I really liked them and they're cute-- I went for a different one that I LOVE. Thirsties covers have great gussets and they are a thinner material, so less bulk. I haven't had A leak with them. In fact I just ordered a bunch more that are on sale (momsmilkboutique.com; and they do free shipping). I do use Chinese prefolds, from Tiny Tots in Campbell, CA. They have a good website. I know some moms make their own but I don't have time. I also used some Gerber ones at first (b/c they are so cheap!) and they were fine, but too thin to last 2 hrs. Now I use them to cover my son on the changing table b/c he likes to pee in the air.
Feel free to email me-- I have had fun trying different things and once getting the hang of the diapers they are no sweat. (just a little bulk!) Good luck!
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H.J. answers from San Francisco on March 13, 2009
Unfortunately for you, Gerber diapers are junk. Instead of cotton in the padded part, they often have polyester batting which absorbs NOTHING. I would say to look on ebay for "Chinese" or Diaper Service Quality" ("DSQ") prefolds. Or lots of folks sell lightly used (clean, of course!) dipes on ebay. Or, if you have someone that sews, they are neither difficult nor expensive to make. I have two in diapers right now--and I made all of the ones we use. There are lots of patterns available--even free ones online.
As a stopgap measure, go to Costco or Sam's. Get one of those BIG packages of microfiber towels they sell in the tools/automotive area. Put one of those, folded in half in each diaper, maybe with a cheap cotton washcloth over the top of it. (the microfiber cloths are like 36 for $10-12, and regular washcloths can be had in large packages for cheap at Wal-Mart or Target.) I use those microfiber cloths inside my diapers. I make fitted diapers, not AIO's, and then use a wool soaker for a diaper cover. Wool diaper covers can be made from old wool sweaters bought from flea markets--very easy. My almost 2-year-old is sleeping in a pair of "longies" made that way right now.
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V.K. answers from Sacramento on March 13, 2009
Depending on the type of cloth diapers you should be changing them every 90 minutes to 2 hours or so. Anything after that will leak.
Good Luck.
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B.R. answers from Sacramento on March 13, 2009
I'm not familiar with the cloth diapers being sold currently, but what someone said about the ones you're using not being 100% cotton tells me they aren't the best diaper. If you can't afford to replace them, the only suggestion I could make is that you'll just need to change him more often. If the cause of the leaking is due to the amount of urniation, he may need the extra changing anyway.
The rule of thumb at most daycare centers for a child his age is that the diaper is checked once per hour anyway. If it's wet or dirty, it's changed. Once the child is a little older, they begin to lengthen the time out to two hours, but even then watch for signs of a need to change sooner. I understand that you may feel that you are constantly changing him and that the laundry load may become somewhat overwhelming, but it is probably well worth doing.
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K.M. answers from Chico on March 13, 2009
Hi B.,
Cloth diapering is a trial and error process on the way to finding what works for your family. When I was cd'ing my older daughter 13+ years ago Gerber was all I knew, there weren't the options back then that are available today and there weren't as many sources of info. either.
Those diapers just aren't very absorbent, though replacing them all at once may not be an option you can double them up in a pinch to get you by. I always used them 2 at a time, fold one diaper in thirds and lay it down the middle of the folded diaper. When you're ready to replace them try DSQ (daper service quality) CPF's (cotton pre folds) or the Chinese ones. They can be purchased second hand from diaper services cheaper than new but speaking from experience some of them wear out rather quickly because of the harsh cleaning process they go through. I think it's better in the long run to buy them at a second hand shop or Craigslist or buy some new.
You don't say what your laundering routine is but some detergents make cloth diapers less absorbent, fabric softners coat the fibers and make them water resistant, bleach wears down the fibers and shortens the length of your diapers. Check out www.pinstripesandpolkadots.com/detergentchoices.htm for laundry detergents and tips on which detergents may work best for you as well as which ones to avoid.
If you have a few old receiving blankets you no longer use and some basic sewing skills you can make your own very absorbent diapers free. Now diapering my 18 month old daughter I found that by using a cloth diaper as a pattern I could make one very good diaper from each blanket. Just cut the blanket to make two layers the same size as your diaper and use the rest of the blanket to sew the extra thickness (2 more layers) down the middle of the diaper. These make very cute, soft, and absorbent prefold diapers. The snappi clip doesn't grab the flannel though but I found that it really isn't necessary to use it or pins if you're using bummis super whisper wrap (those are my favorite cover, hold the diaper in place and rarely leak).
I hope you get the info. you need to continue cd'ing without discouragement. Let me know if I can help, in fact I have accumulated a large stash of cloth diapers (I'm sure I could diaper 3 babies) including ones I've made and some contour shaped flannel diapers (they don't require folding) and would be happy to pass on a few to someone who would get good use of them.
Best wishes, K.
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M.S. answers from Sacramento on March 13, 2009
Hi B.,
I've used gdiapers which are the best of cloth diapers and disposable diapers. They're also quite affordable. Check them out at gdiapers.com You can also find them at some grocery stores.
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A.K. answers from San Francisco on March 13, 2009
Sounds like the cover may be the wrong size or not on tight enough.
E.P. answers from San Francisco on March 13, 2009
I wonder if there just isn't enough fabric to be absorbent? (I'm not familiar with that diaper, although I use the bummis wraps) - maybe an extra layer or booster. You can sometimes get cd stuff second hand a lot cheaper. I have some flannel boosters which work really well overnight. I tumble dry the wraps occasionally as it seems to improve the waterproofness.
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R.K. answers from San Francisco on March 13, 2009
B.,
try putting two diapers on at once. we've even used three before, as long as the diaper cover is big enough. if that doesn't work, disposables only at night might be a solution. good luck, and the world thanks you for using cloth diapers!!!
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