C.G. asks from Spring Hill, TN on May 13, 2008
Cloth Diapers from Newborn or Later?
Okay, another mom's request for info about cloth diapers perked my interest. I have an almost 5 year old and I was not interested in cloth diapers AT ALL for her back then, but now I'm expecting and I'm starting to think about it. I love the convenience of disposables, but the main reason I'm considering cloth is because toilet training my first daughter was a NIGHTMARE and has taken over 2 years total. I know in other countries kids tent to get trained much younger and I'm wondering if it is due to our wonderful, extra comfy extra dry disposable diapers. Also, helping the environment sounds good, of course, and I like the idea of only using cloth rather than lots of chemicals on my baby's bottom - for my first newborn, I did not use wipes until she was older, just wet baby washclothes, because the wipes irritated her skin. I plan to do that again, it was easy and laundering them was not a big deal. I'm wondering if adding diapers would be so hard - doesn't sound like it from other moms.
Anyhow, so my big question is, with the way newborns grow so fast, would I be better off from a cost perspective to use disposables at first and then switch over around 10-15 pounds? Plus, you all know how MANY diapers you go through in the first few weeks, with no rest or sleep -- doing extra laundry during that time does sound daunting. What has been your experience?
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L.S. answers from Nashville on May 14, 2008
My 2 cents is:
I used disposables the first week, because I was hesitant to try to wash the meconium poop. But after the first week, that stuff was over and into the cloth he went. My babies are 8-9 lbs to start so size wasn't the issue it might be for others.
As for being too wiped out to deal with them at first... It was WAAAY easier to just do a load of laundry at my own speed when I saw the stack getting low than to try to pack up a newborn and go to the store. It takes less energy to walk to the laundry room than it does to just get through the parking lot at the supermarket fighting with an infant carrier and a diaper bag. Really.
Also: a big vote for the one-size-fits-all style dipes.
E.R. answers from Jackson on May 14, 2008
I used them when at home but if I had appointments or would be gone most of the day I used disposable my daughter was 3lbs 9 2/3 oz so we used preemie disposables till she fit into a regular diper otherwise it was to bulky seamed like the diper weighed as much as she did.but after a year with cloth I went to disposable a lot less work and she has special needs that take extra time that was importen to me.
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L.T. answers from Greensboro on May 14, 2008
I used cloth diapers from the very 1st day we were home. I also washed them my self which was no big deal. I had pre-folded ones which were great as they got bigger. To start with I had diapers which I folded to fit them. Remember you need more cloth in front for a boy and in back for a girl. They also have liners which can be put inside the diaper and then thrown away. There were alot of diapers at first but I never felt like it was too many to do at one time. I only used disposable ones with my 2nd child when we went on outings away from home and then that was when he was older and we didn't go through so many diapers. Good luck. My vote would be for you to use cloth right from the start.
C.J. answers from Raleigh on May 14, 2008
I used cloth diapers for my son and had no problem with it. The diapers they make today are prefolded. How hard is it to throw them in the washer while you watch TV, cook, play with the kids, etc. It is easier to potty train with cloth diapers because a pull up is nothing but a pamper shaped like a pair of underwear. When a child wets a diaper, it is uncomfortable and heavy. They don't really like it. At least my son didn't. He wet one time, did not like it and found him a pair of shorts to put on himself. A disposable diaper or absorbs the wetness. Do you know what it feels like to have a little turd in a cloth diaper? (yuk). If you can afford it you can have your cloth diapers delivered. Basically, its a personal choice. Now I must mention if you use cloth diapers you do have to change them often so they will not get diaper rash. But again, how hard is it to check them. You can use the disposable diapers when you go out. I luck up because the daycare allowed us to use cloth diapers. They also washed the diapers that was used at the school. Good luck on your decision
A.K. answers from Lexington on May 13, 2008
I haven't used cloth diapers before but that sounds like a good plan.
A.
L.S. answers from Nashville on May 14, 2008
My 2 cents is:
I used disposables the first week, because I was hesitant to try to wash the meconium poop. But after the first week, that stuff was over and into the cloth he went. My babies are 8-9 lbs to start so size wasn't the issue it might be for others.
As for being too wiped out to deal with them at first... It was WAAAY easier to just do a load of laundry at my own speed when I saw the stack getting low than to try to pack up a newborn and go to the store. It takes less energy to walk to the laundry room than it does to just get through the parking lot at the supermarket fighting with an infant carrier and a diaper bag. Really.
Also: a big vote for the one-size-fits-all style dipes.
J.M. answers from Raleigh on May 14, 2008
we LOVED our kissaluvs size zero's for the newborn stage - you can get them used and often inexpensive and in good condition on diaperswappers. since we were changing so often, lots of times at the beginning we didn't bother with a cover...until he really started soaking through :) we did use disposables until the meconium was over with.
i had some prefolds and wool covers (they aren't as hot as you'd think - they breathe) and used them as backup, but I honestly never got the hang of the snappi and would just lay them in the wrap cover. obviously not a good strategy once they're mobile, but by that point we'd moved to pockets and AIOs. the laundry isn't that big of a deal, really. i also wrote up diaper laundry instructions and posted them in the laundry room so when people came over to visit and asked if they could help with household stuff, it was something I could let others do :)
there is a great cloth diapering bulletin board community on pregnancy.org, highly recommend it!
I.W. answers from Greensboro on May 14, 2008
I used to nanny for a family that cloth diapered. It was not as much extra work as you would think. Of course, they used a cloth diaper delivery service. So the dirty's were picked up and clean ones delivered. I did not cloth diaper my little one but plan to with my next baby.
Have you heard of "Elimination Communication?" That's the diaper-free concept of parenting. I also know a family that practices that. Google it. It's very interesting.
Here are some links you may find helpful.
http://www.kellymom.com/parenting/infantpottytraining.html
Diaper Free Babies
http://www.kellymom.com/parenting/links/no-diapers.html
K.W. answers from Hickory on May 14, 2008
Hi there,
It's always wonderful to hear about another family switching to cloth diapers! We did the same thing you're thinking about -- we used disposables for a short time when our daughter was a newborn - we waited until the meconium was gone because it can really stain cloth diapers. As you probably know, there are some disposables made with no chlorine or harsh chemicals, if you are concerned about that. I believe that Seventh Generation makes some, as well as a Tushies brand.
Congratulations on your newest arrival!
-K.
M.E. answers from Lexington on May 13, 2008
if added laundry is concern, you could look into a diaper service...at least at the beginning. they bring you plenty of clean/ sanitized diapers, and pick them up and launder them and deliver them back to you. and think they are still cheaper then disposables.
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