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Cloth Diapers? - Smyrna,TN

I am considering cloth diapers as an alternative because regardless of the disposbales I use on my son or how often I change him his skin breaks. Where can I find cloth diapers that are AFFORDABLE? I would even use used ones after I wash them. Does anyone use cloth diapers? How exactly do you use them? Are they really cheaper in the long run. I have been doing alot of research on this topic and it seems an all around better alternative regardless of the inconvenience of washing them.

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WOW....I am overwhelmed by the amazing support out there for something that is no longer considered conventional. I found a stock of diapers and a high chair (which he needs anyways) for $100 and it should be enough to last until he's around 28-35 lbs. I'm excited to try this and my husband is very supportive. Fortunately there are a few AIOs in the bundle so he can handle diaper time as well. i confirmed with his Dr. that the chemicals put in diapers to make the gel stuff that holds in the wet (kinda like in sanitary napkins) was what is causing these horrible rashes. She strongly suggested CD as well. I'm sure this will be an amusing adventure if nothing else since he is at the wiggly stage. Thank you all for your support and responses. I really hope that there is a time when I can be as helpful to you sometime soon as well.

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My son could not wear disposables either, they all broke him out. There are tons of options for cloth these days. The thing that worked for me was to find diaper liners (I got mine at JC Penney's) - they are tissue thin and you can flush them, and it keeps from having to wash poop out of the diaper. Do a search online for cloth diapers and diaper covers, and you'll come up with exactly what you need.

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I use cloth diapers. I had a ton of people telling me that it was too much work, messy, that they leaked, that I was crazy to even consider it, etc, etc, blah, blah. I went ahead and did it. I am glad and so is my husband. It has been an enormous savings for us. It is initialing a bit expensive. I borrowed some really nice cloth diapers from a friend and used those for the first three months as I slowly gathered enough to do it on my own. If you really want to go cheap. Get 24 prefolds and 6 to 8 diaper covers. I even found used diapers and new ones for cheap on Ebay. I was able to get the expenzive Fuzzi Bunz, all in ones(AIO) for only $10 a peice on Ebay and the typically sell for $18 a piece. Bum Genius for AIO's are good priced and work well for a night time diaper, especially if you double it with a prefold inside. The washing part doesn't bother me because I just throw them in at night, dry them in the morning and then toss them into a basket, no need to fold them!
Good luck. You can also try cloth diapers for a month for only $10 at www.jilliansdrawers.com

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We used cloth diapers for two years with the second one and I am SO GLAD we did. I also am a SAHM, tho after doing it I don't think I could have if I worked. I couldn't get the older women in the church nursery who used CD on their own to change her, much less other care givers. No one seems to be able to conceive of using CD anymore....

I would HIGHLY recommend you NOT try the chinese prefolds from walmart/babies r us. They are NOT made for actual CD'ing. There are chinese prefolds out there that are if that's the way you want to go....

We used Bum Genius 2.0 & 3.0 pocket diapers and love every minute of it! They are almost EXACTLY the same concept as disposables in terms of shape/use. We started with the 2.0 bc that's what was out when we purchased. I actually started with a starter kits from one of the websites and bought some off ebay to compare - a BG all-in-one (AIO), mother eden?, happy heiny, homemade, and several others.....diff styles....cloth with rubber pants, AIO, pocket....we found the BG to be the best for us. They are one size fits all so you only have to buy one set instead of a new set every time baby grows. We invested about $400 in 24 dipes, detergent, liners, 2 pail liners, and 2 day bags all from cottonbabies.com. We will use the everything with the next baby.

My favorite thing about the BG's, besides the OSFA, the softness, and the convenience was their ONE YEAR GUARANTEE. Which we used, btw. The elastic on our 2.0's wore out as they recommended bleaching the dipes once a month. It ate the elastic. I no longer bleach dipes. But I returned the dipes according to their policy and procedures - all 24 of them - and they replaced them no questions asked with the new 3.0 which we like even better - all 24 of them!

It is recommended that you purchase 36. We did 24 bc thats all we had the $ for, but i did have to do laundry nearly every day too. Also, we got the pocket diapers bc I found the AIO didn't hold up as well AND they took WAYYYYY too long to dry. With the pockets, I would wash them all together, then actually took to hanging them out separately to dry on a sweater rack as I found it naturally bleached the dipes and left them smelling amazing, whereas the dryer left them smelling like a latrine....

BG's also come in hemp (thirties!), unbleached cotton/hemp, bamboo which is WAY thirstier than cotton! As far as detergent, I ordered Allen's Naturally from Amazon.com after trying several other things. We live in BFE KY and there is no where around here to buy anything natural. (we acutally have city regulations AGAINST green stuff - no gray water sys, no solar panels, no....well....nvrmd) We tried Bac Out but it didn't work AND gave my DD a HORRIBLE rash. Also, you'll want to strip your diapers in the wash with 2 TBS of original Dawn when they stop absorbing so well - typically that's about 1x2-3mos. We have the hardest water in the world (filtered through bedrocks of limestone) so we had to do it every 3-4 wks.

Also, I found that I hated the tissue liners. I'd rather wash the dipes out in the toilet. And they doo make a sprayer you can attach to your toilet for that purpose. But again, thats subjective. I'd recommend starting with a small pack of those instead of the sam's-size economy box.

Have you tried Diaperpin.com? Nikki's diapers? there are a HOST of CD sites out there. Diaperswappers is a board where you can buy/trade/sell CD. Diaperpin is awesome bc it has ALL the info on CD you could ever want, as well as detergents, accessories, etc. Better yet, it provides REVIEWS.

We spent $300/mo on the first child's dipes. I spent that on one set of dipes for the second and never bought more - imagine how much we saved ea mo! And water bill only went up by about $15/mo.

btw - you can't use diaper rash cream, etc with disposables - it ruins them. We never had a problem with that tho. the only time we needed to use diaper rash cream was when someone mistakenly put a disposable on her.

you will love CD if you try them!! well....we did..... :)

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I love cloth diapers.
I'm doing it old school (with the folding and pin method) but I also have a small stack of what are called "all in ones" that are EXACTLY like disposables... except that they are completely washable and reusable. (I just like the old school method better. I save the others for my Hubby to use since he's a fan of "sposies" aka disposables.)

There are a ton of moms out there selling their old stash on ebay, or that work from home making them... otherwise, there are also a lot of free patterns so you could sew your own.

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Cloth diapers doesn't have to be an 'all or nothing' proposition. It's just a 'trial and error' system of finding how they work best for you. For some, it's easier to use them only in the winter -- or in the summer. I think most moms use disposables on outings and trips.

I used them a little over half of the time with our 4 (now adults), and our daughter has used them at least 'some' with each of her 3. There are so many new and different types of diapers that it can be confusing, but I prefer flat ones that you need to fold. And use liners! They make the poopy diapers SO MUCH easier to deal with, and if the baby's only 'wet', just rinse and re-use the liners!

Oh~ and never use fabric softener -- liquid or dryer sheets - on diapers (or towels, either, for that matter). It forms a 'waxy' coating on the fibers and makes them non-absorbent.

Imagine how 'swollen' all those disposable diapers are in landfills if any water can get to them! And the cost is really 'out there' on disposables.

Somehow using cloth diapers, breastfeeding and staying home with the children just make you 'feel' more motherly (and that's not to insult anyone who works outside thehome, bottle feeds and/or uses disposables! It's just a personal observation from experience!)

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My son could not wear disposables either, they all broke him out. There are tons of options for cloth these days. The thing that worked for me was to find diaper liners (I got mine at JC Penney's) - they are tissue thin and you can flush them, and it keeps from having to wash poop out of the diaper. Do a search online for cloth diapers and diaper covers, and you'll come up with exactly what you need.

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We used cloth diapers with my first son for quite a while, and pretty much what we remember of the experience is how nasty it was. And, the diapers are awfully expensive, as you've found. I wanted to do it to save money, but I'm not sure that we did. You do have to factor in the cost of electricity (usually takes more than one washing to get the smell out) and detergent and water, especially if using hot water, and then gas or electricity with the dryer, unless you can hang them outside. It's a toss up which is better for the environment - diapers in the land fill, or thousands of gallons of water washing, then drying, and all those chemicals...

I actually bought a lot of the diapers used off ebay (I looked for all in ones), but the plastic on the outside sure didn't stay dry, so I still had to put "plastic pants" on over that. I also used the plain Gerber ones you can find at any store, that you fold and use pins with. I was always afraid of stabbing him with one of those giant pins. There are probably more expensive ones that really would work, but then what's the point in paying $20+ for one diaper if trying to save money, I decided. I finally went to using generic disposable, and didn't bother at all with cloth for my next son. And by the way, I've never found any name brand (huggies, loves, pampers, etc) to be any better at "stopping leaks" (like they all claim) than the store brands. When my boys had a blow out, there was nothing stopping it.

Don't let me discourage you if you want to do it, though. One thing that definitely saves money is potty training by age two, which can be done with the book Toilet Training in Less Than a Day, which I found when it was time to train my second son. That saved us a year's worth of diapers, compared to my first son, whom I had no idea how to train, and he was nearly 3 when I finally just did it. Also, the thing with disposable diapers is that they pull the "moisture" away from baby's skin, which in theory should keep the skin from getting a rash, but some say that the chemicals/materials in the diapers cause the rash. But, with cloth diapers, the moisture is right there, so to keep the bottom dry, you'd need to change the diapers constantly, so then you'd need truckloads of the cloth diapers...

If you do a lot of research and find specific reusable diapers that you want to try, you might look for them on ebay or craigslist. Also, there are people who don't use diapers at all (imagine that). They learn to listen to baby's grunts and such to know when they are about to go, and put a pot under them to go in. Sounds weird, but there are people who do that. You can find books on the subject on amazon (I forget what the "method" is called), and the reviews for the books are kind of funny - some are successful with it and some definitely aren't. Good luck.

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I have used the same set of Kushies-all-in-ones on both my boys and LOVE them. We keep a bucket with a lid in the bathroom and every few days wash the load and line dry them. I highly recommend using cloth, in whichever brand you buy! Please let me know if you have any questions.

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I use cloth diapers. I had a ton of people telling me that it was too much work, messy, that they leaked, that I was crazy to even consider it, etc, etc, blah, blah. I went ahead and did it. I am glad and so is my husband. It has been an enormous savings for us. It is initialing a bit expensive. I borrowed some really nice cloth diapers from a friend and used those for the first three months as I slowly gathered enough to do it on my own. If you really want to go cheap. Get 24 prefolds and 6 to 8 diaper covers. I even found used diapers and new ones for cheap on Ebay. I was able to get the expenzive Fuzzi Bunz, all in ones(AIO) for only $10 a peice on Ebay and the typically sell for $18 a piece. Bum Genius for AIO's are good priced and work well for a night time diaper, especially if you double it with a prefold inside. The washing part doesn't bother me because I just throw them in at night, dry them in the morning and then toss them into a basket, no need to fold them!
Good luck. You can also try cloth diapers for a month for only $10 at www.jilliansdrawers.com

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I switched to cloth when my older son was about 9 m/o, and I never regretted it. The cost savings is just huge. I had overestimated the mess and time involved in cloth (not much different from disposables), and underestimated how good and absorbent they really are. And I used the old-fashioned rectangular ones that you use real diaper pins with! (You can also use Snappis, but I never tried them.)

I got my diapers at clothdiaper.com -- a lot of times they have deals where you can get factory "seconds" for cheaper than the first-run new ones, which is what I did. But a word of warning about the plastic pants -- GET NYLON not vinyl!!!! I cannot emphasize this enough. The vinyl ones always tore within a couple of weeks, no matter how careful I was with them; but the nylon ones lasted for literally years no matter how I treated them. I think I threw away maybe 2-3 pairs of nylon pants, and that was because the interior waterproof lining on them had rubbed off and they were no longer waterproof. But that was after months and months of use with them. I got them at TLCare.com, but you may be able to find them elsewhere.

I chose as I did because it was the cheapest way for me at the time to do it. Plus, factoring in the cost of extra drying time with the super-thick cloth diapers and all-in-ones, that adds up to a much higher electric bill. If you don't have to be super-frugal, that might not worry you; but if you're wanting to save money, then it's a consideration.

My SIL had to use cloth on her youngest because he got an indescribably horrible rash from all disposables. Finally, after several months of using cloth at home and disposables on trips, she discovered that the Kroger brand did not break him out. Perhaps he outgrew his allergy enough because he was in cloth and only cloth for several months, but all other brands made him break out. I never had a problem with any of the brands; but I've known other people whose children could not tolerate one brand or another -- but always a different one, so it's not like I could say to stay away from one particular brand.

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