Been there done that w/finding a good fitting church. I am a very traditional church goer - I love a good Bible pounding preacher and singing hymns...all of the verses! I am looking for a home church myself.
I grew up non denominational, joined a Bible, Baptist and "seeker sensitive" church after I got married and became very disillusioned by all 3. The Bible church was great w/Bible study "flip through your Bible the whole time" type of sermons, but terrible at their attempt to contemporary worship. The Baptist church was another Bible study sermon format but their worship was strange - they sang contemporary music but had orchestral instruments. Think Sanctus Real in flute and saxaphone - weird. The seeker sensitive church had a loose-barely-preach-from-the-Bible sermon format (I've written in about this before - the pastor has terrible ADD) but the contemporary worship was AWESOME - full band w/appropriate instruments. I had to stop going b/c the pastor kept chasing rabbits through his entire sermon and I could never keep up w/his tangents.
I heard of a Methodist church that had a traditional service so we visited one time and ended up going for the whole summer. The sermon was traditional and not just one verse like at the seeker sensitive church but full passages (but not any Bible flipping) and all we sang were hymns. The only instrument playing was the organ. It was beautiful. The congregation was full of young and old people and everyone sang their heart out. There was such a reverance and holiness while I worshipped there - alot of silence and candles lit everywhere. But it is too far and I really need to find a church like that closer to me for my son's sake.
Good luck on your search. I'll pray for you to find a church if you pray for me too!