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Cancer

Most recently I have been under some serious stress due to a big change in my living situation and cancer treatments. My husband and I are young, really young. I was 16 when we met in high school. By my next birthday I was DX with Cancer and we have been dealing with the out come of it ever since. I have been lucky enough to have concived a healthy 8lb 2oz beautiful perfect baby boy. He's the greatest thing thats ever happened to us. The thing is that not only are we both faced with being new young parents but now were being held responsible for over $50,000 a year in medical bills. Thats a good year! My medication alone cost over $3,000 dollars a month for a 28 day supply. I just dont know how to take care of the cost. I have gone through insurance companies and medicaid wants to drop my coverage. I have also gone through moffitt because they have some excellent programs, but they can only cover so much of the expenses. I just dont know how we will ever be able to make a life for ourselves and for our son. One day I want to own my own home and give him the life I can only dream of... what do I do? Is there anything that I can do. The stress of it all is hurting my marriage and making me loose my mind. HELP?!!

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Thanks for all of the love ladies! The first thing I plan on doing is calling a lawyer for the medicaid. I have tried applying for disability but my doctor was unsupportive of that because of my age and also that I have CML rather then some other type of leukemia which requires more vigorous cemo. I have become immune to the Gleevec and am taking the super Gleevec/Spyrcel. I dont know what this is costing me now kind of afraid to ask the pharmisist. Hopefully I can get a good legal opinion that can shead some light on this crappy situation. Thanks so much for all the support and advice!

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I'm sorry to ehar about your cancer - I will keep you in my thoughts & pray for remission.

As for assistance I know of a site called CancerCare.org They have support, information & finacial grants available to patients & thier families. I hope you find it useful.
Congrats on the birth of your son. I think it is a wonderful testiment to you & your husband, being young and sticking through the lean times. Believe me, those times will be fond memories when you've made it through. Good luck & please do keep us updated!

Good Morning T. , I hope you are doing well . Cancer hit very much home for me , My mother had a malignant Melanoma ( deadliest of the skin cancer ) She passed on 2 1/2/ years ago . I can only imagine how stressful you are with your marriage & child !!!! I know is easier said than done , but don't stress so much there is always a solution to things. try " la liga contra el Cancer "( coralway & 12 I think ) it helped my mom with her meds , her chemo meds ran $25,000 per month it was covered by them , try to apply for medicaid tell( take them all your paper work regarding your dx) them your situation , I did for my mom and she got it. There are many Cancer organizations that can help you Google cancer treatments ,etc. I can't remember one now sorry . I want you to see the glass half full , You will make a great life for you and your family , You will own your home and you will give your child the life you always dreamed of for your child . You are so blessed to have your Baby Boy , you most think about him and you are going to do well , don't loose your mind please , Think of all the great things you have in this life your child & husband ,( that is your motivation to fight for) let me know how you are doing my email is ____@____.com

Best Wishes Always,

~ A.

Although I don't have any information to help you out, i just wanted to say that I am very sorry that you are having to go thru this. You and your family are in my prayers. Try not to stress too much, and take care of yourself. Good luck.

J.

First i know that when we have a big proof that you have.We has somebody that they feel the same.But that one is Jesus.He is the number one in our life.Second the cancer that you has He can take an away.I work with a company that the ownwer names is Myron Wents,He founded the company for the reason that he loose his father at the same way,one day he start to think;To live in a world with out pain.So he found the company;USANA HEALTH SCIENCES.First you has to star clean your body and your blood,second you need to give life to your cellular.If want more information take a look at my web site.https://www.anna2.usana.com
I go to pray for you;Jesus make miracles and aldo HE NEVER FORGET HIS DAUGHTER..God bless you;send me your name,I goin to put you in his hand

I'm sorry I don't have any advice to offer. But I just want to wish you good luck. My prayers are with you and your family.

T.,

I am so sorry for the difficulties you are facing. I wish I had something to offer, other than this observation. You need to find a way to deal with the stress of the situation so it does not harm your health further. I have no personal experience, but I would suggest finding a support group or counselor of some type. You need someone to talk to, perhaps a minister if you are religious, but it really sounds to me like you (understandibly so) need an outlet.

I wish you the best of luck.

B.

That is a lot for anyone to go through. You are going to have to fight for your medicaid. There are laws to protect disability and cronic illness but you need a lawyer type person or good advocate to find out how to use them sometimes and for what qualifies. Good luck to you and I will pray for you. What type of Leukemia do you have.cronic m? If so you might qualify for continued medicaid and or SSI, disability.

Hey T.,

Sounds like you've got a lot on your plate for such a young woman. You're very blessed to have the gift of your son.

I am a pharmacist and I specialize in helping people get well through natural means. I would be more than happy to work with you and help educate you on ways to heal and send your leukemia into remission. You also need to educate yourself for the sake of your son.

Our bodies are amazing creations and have an amazing ability to heal themselves if they're given the right resources. However, in this day in age with the incredibly unhealthy eating habits of most, many adults and children are being diagnosed with diseases traditionally only found in the older generation.

Let me know if you'd like me to help. I am in the Gainesville, Fl. area, but can mail you info and refer you to some informative websites!

God bless you and your family,
L. W Rowe, Rph

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