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Can My 2Yr Old Be Outgrowing Her Naps?

My 2.5 year old daughter has never been the greatest sleeper. She sleeps pretty well at night but has always faught her naps. Her daycare provider told me recently that most days she does not nap at all, she just lies there while the others sleep. She is sometimes cranky when this happens and sometimes she is fine. We try to get her to bed earlier on these days but it usually doesn't happen and she just ends up falling asleep quickly after her nightly routine, which is great. On the weekends when she is home with us the only way we can get her to nap is in the car. We've tried laying down with her, books, tv, etc. but she never falls asleep. We always make sure she's good and tired by doing intense activities in the morning and feeding her a good lunch. Now she knows that we're taking her to the car for a nap and she will scream her head off for at least 30 minutes before. It's horrible! She even tells me she hates her nap. But when she does nap for us on the weekends it's around a 2 hour nap and she is such a better toddler to be around. What do I do? Should I continue to force it in the car or should I quit and let her be? I would like to quit but on nights that we go out I have a hard time enjoying myself when I might have a cranky, tired toddler on my hands.

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My kids were never great nappers but they slept all night from the time they were infants.
I just never tried to force the sleeping thing, but I made them lay down at the same time each day.
There are times when it would be better if they actually slept, but you really can't force a little kid to go to sleep for a nap.
Some days, rest time is all you can ask for and if they are in the habit of it and do it, that's a great thing.
My kids didn't sleep but they would lay still and quietly and in that regard they did at least get some quiet rest time.
Sometimes they would konk out, but rarely.
And I never resorted to the car thing. I know it works for some people but the more you focus on the nap thing, the more they fight it, in my opinion.
I told my kids they didn't have to sleep, but they had to lay down. They did so pretty willingly because I never used the "n" word...nap.

Try using a different tactic and if she doesn't actually fall asleep, don't worry so much about it. As long as she lays down.

Best wishes.

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My kids were never great nappers but they slept all night from the time they were infants.
I just never tried to force the sleeping thing, but I made them lay down at the same time each day.
There are times when it would be better if they actually slept, but you really can't force a little kid to go to sleep for a nap.
Some days, rest time is all you can ask for and if they are in the habit of it and do it, that's a great thing.
My kids didn't sleep but they would lay still and quietly and in that regard they did at least get some quiet rest time.
Sometimes they would konk out, but rarely.
And I never resorted to the car thing. I know it works for some people but the more you focus on the nap thing, the more they fight it, in my opinion.
I told my kids they didn't have to sleep, but they had to lay down. They did so pretty willingly because I never used the "n" word...nap.

Try using a different tactic and if she doesn't actually fall asleep, don't worry so much about it. As long as she lays down.

Best wishes.

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My son was always afraid he'd miss something fun if he took a nap, but he really needed them. So me and Dad would lay down with him on our big bed till he fell asleep. 9 times out of 10 we'd all end up taking a nap together.

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All 3 of my kids were done napping right around 2.

I have no great advice for you other than to make sure she gets a healthy afternoon snack on days when she doesn't nap, that might help with the crankyness......at least she is quiet during nap time at daycare!?

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My older 2 girls were totally done with naps by the time they were 2 years old.

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Could you maybe get her to nap just one weekend day?

My son is 2 1/2 and he doesn't nap every day, but still naps probably 4 out of 7 days.

If he naps every day, bedtime is a nightmare - he's been up talking to himself as late as 10:30!!

On the days that she doesn't nap, could you do "quiet time." Maybe leave her in her room with some books (honestly, that works for 30 mins max for me). Or plop her in front of a movie or something so you still have a bit of quiet time.

Good luck!

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It is absolutely possible and most likely probable. Our older one outgrew her naps by 26 months. You want to talk about hair-pulling times? Yep, that was me :) I'm so sorry :(

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Ah yes my son stopped napping at 2 and it was hard to accept. We eventually moved his bedtime an hour earlier and started having quiet time (gate him in his room with toys/books for 1/2 to 1 hour ) at that point. There were a few times that we wanted to plan something in the afternoon and figured since he did not actually sleep we could skip it but boy were we wrong. Turned out he really needed the downtime.

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Everyone goes through this adjustment period. You will either have to alter your evening routine (i.e. earlier nights out or fewer nights out or get a sitter!) or fight with her to sleep during the day. I did quiet time with my first one through this stage, but then had to put away ALL of her toys that she took out while sequestered in her room. With my second, I just gave up and did not force the issue. It was actually a relief to not have to structure my day around a nap schedule, especially since I had another child to pick up at school, take to dance class, etc.

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