R.S. asks from Plymouth, WI on November 09, 2006
Can I Use a Cousins Name?
Some of you may have saw my request for baby names, and if so, thank you!! Today my daughter told us that if it is a girl she would like to name it Regan Rae. I have ALWAYS loved this name ( had a good friend in high school name Reagan). BUT my second counsin whom I see once a year, if that, just named her little girl Regan Elizabeth. Can I still use the name?
My daughter by the way, did not know my cousin named her little girl so she truly did not get it from there.
I would love to add it to the list of possibilties.
So What Happened?™
Thanks everyone!! I AM putting it on our list. I won't know the name we pick until we see the baby. I like the idea that my daughter has possibly picked the name for her little sister (if its a girl). It goes with the trend of the initals and has a special appeal because Cara named her. Thanks again!! :)
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C.L. answers from Duluth on November 15, 2006
I have a friend Sara, who has a sister Kate, who have first cousins named Sarah & Katie. Same friend Sara has a first cousin Rachel and she named her daughter Rachel.
Use what ever name you like!
C.
A.P. answers from Madison on November 10, 2006
My cousin and I both have the same name and we see each other fairly often. It has never been a big deal at all. When I was younger people used to refer to her as "big A." and me as "little A.". Not because she was "bigger" than me, but because she was older and I was younger. Anyway, it's just not a big deal when it comes to cousins.
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T.S. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2006
I think, if you don't see them very often it's Ok to name your baby Regan. I think Regan Ray has a pretty sound to it. And it's not like your taking the whole name (first and middle).
C.L. answers from Duluth on November 15, 2006
I have a friend Sara, who has a sister Kate, who have first cousins named Sarah & Katie. Same friend Sara has a first cousin Rachel and she named her daughter Rachel.
Use what ever name you like!
C.
J.F. answers from Rochester on November 10, 2006
Absolutely. If you really love a name, use it. It's your baby. I think it would be an honor if one of my cousins liked my name and chose it for their child.
S. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2006
Hi R.,
We named our son and found out that one of his cousin's named there son the same. We see these people once a year, so no biggy. I say if you like it and your not really close go for it.
S.
M.C. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2006
I would say no even though you should name your baby whatever you want to. I would say yes as long as it wouldn't bother you or offend the family.
I considered using the name of my second cousin who I see once a year. I even e-mailed them asking them if that would bother them even if I spelled it differently and I didn't get a response back. I didn't take the no response as a no answer but after thinking about it I thought it would be too weird and worried that the family would talk about it behind my back. It's like you would be a copy cat and with so many other names out there I would consider searching for something else unless, like I said, you are okay with it and any reactions to using Regan. Can you do Rae Regan? I'd use it as a middle name just not a first name.
A.P. answers from Madison on November 10, 2006
My cousin and I both have the same name and we see each other fairly often. It has never been a big deal at all. When I was younger people used to refer to her as "big A." and me as "little A.". Not because she was "bigger" than me, but because she was older and I was younger. Anyway, it's just not a big deal when it comes to cousins.
S.H. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2006
Go for it! We named our son the same as a friend's son, and we see them several times a year. Big Ethan loves the bond he has with Little Ethan since they share a name. You've found a great name that you like, why not use it?
C.M. answers from Sheboygan on November 15, 2006
Dear R.,
I think you can safly use the name, especially because it's a second cousin whom you dont see very often. My daughter, Tabitha has a cousin spelled Tabatha. At the time, I was living out of state and hadnt spoken to my big brother in almost a year, not on pupose, just cuz of our busy lives. When I came back home for a visit with my two month old Tabitha, he, his wife and I all had a big laugh and realized that we needed to make a better effort to keep in touch! Cute, cause I'm looking at the photograph on the wall right now of my brother and I poseing, holding the two Tabitha's (Tabatha) who are a month apart. Luckily there has never been any confusion because we never call my daughter Tabitha anyway, her middle name is Sunshine so we actually have Tabatha and Sunny.
C. M.
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