It is not too hard if you stop to think about, what to give as a gifts. What do you need all the time, to keep a household running? Towels, washcloths (in her bath theme), bathroom items (toilet paper, pads, tampons, toothbrushes, toothpaste, shampoo/conditioner, soap, lotion, etc) in a wicker basket.Laundry items in a laundry basket; laundry soap, fabric softener, bleach alternative, etc. (Maybe even a clothes line with clothes pins, to the laundry items.) A basket of cleaning supplies; mops/brooms/dustpans, floor care cleaner, dust cloths, dusting spray, all purpose cleaner, etc. Kitchen items that are use all the time can be done in a similar manor (like dishsoap, dishwasher fluid, kitchen counter anti-bacterial, towels/dishcloths/potholders/hotpads in her kitchen theme, etc.). There is also the canning jar filled with a mix (like cookies/brownies/cake)with a bow. A basket filled with a meal idea (like spaghetti noodles, jar of sauce, cheese, bread, and a bottle of wine). Longere/teddies/etc. will defenitely be needed, it is one thing that never grows old. House plants is something else she could use, with like a theme may their lives together be long and green. (Besides house plants replace the oxygen to our homes, giving us healthier surroundngs.) Another idea is gift certificates, so she can buy what she wants. Basically, think of things that are needed on a continuous basis.