Breastmilk vs Formula: Finances?

If you are looking strictly at it from a financial standpoint:
-no cost vs the crazy expensive cost of formula.
-always available anytime baby is hungry. you never have to stop and warm a bottle in the middle of the night or when baby is freaking out.
-can save on doctor visits as baby will stay healthier. Anytime one of my little ones would start to get a cold they would power nurse their way thru it and barely get the sniffles.
-you can buy a used pump at a cost savings as long as you purchase a new set up (the shields, tubing, etc.)

As far as having dad feed-there are so many ways dad can bond that has nothing to do with feeding. Bathtime, diaper change, burping, just holding baby against his chest,etc.

It's so funny to me how different folks can be on the same issue. I come from a family of formula feeders-me and my siblings were formula fed. I had no exposure to breastfeeding whatsoever but I KNEW I wouldn't formula feed. I HAD to breastfeed my kids, even my preemie son who I pumped milk for for 12 weeks while I was teaching him to nurse after he was hospitalized for 6 weeks and breastmilk was *the* only thing that didn't upset his little tummy.

If you commit to it for all of the reasons, not just financial, you might just be amazed at the results.

Best to you and baby!

Ok, I have to laugh-if you breastfed/pump you'll be doing it around the clock so go with formula. Um, do people think you don't have to feed a formula fed baby around the clock?

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I bought a $40 Avent hand pump and used it for two kids. I didn't go back to work, but I did pump twice a day to have milk stored up just in case (which my kids ended up drinking out of regular cups when they were older).

You will spend over $1500 on formula for a year, triple that if you use a specialty formula. You can buy a pump for under $200, you can rent one for a few $$ a month, or you can apply for insurance to pay for one since you are going back to work.

also, it doesn't ave to be all or nothing, start out nursing your baby... you won't be going back to work until after the first of the year? That is four solid months of nursing only, that will save you a bundle and you will really bond with your baby too, giving her the 'good stuff' and keeping her healthy through cold and flu season. When you go back to work give her formula during the day and nurse when you are together, still saving you tons of money, still keeping your baby nursing and getting the goods through cold and flu season.

The 'my husband wants to bond' is one of my pet peeves. Sorry, but it is. My husband never fed either of our children, yet both were securely bonded to him from the start. He didn't need to feed the baby to hold him, he didn't need to feed the baby to bond! He held them, played with them, bathed them, changed diapers, and we co slept. Again, your husband doesn't need to feed the baby to bond with hte baby. Unless he only plans to hold the baby when he's feeding her, trust me there will be plenty of other things he can do to bond, like simply holding the baby skin to skin, holding her often, changing her diaper, helping bathe her.

It comes down to what you want to do. I would encourage you to at least try breastfeeding. GIve it 4wks of nursing only before you make up your mind. youwill save money, but in the long run you will be helping your baby get the best start in life by breastfeeding her. ANd you will be helping yourself too, get back to a pre-baby weight (nursing burns 500+ calories a day!), lowering your risk of breast cancer, lowering your risk of reproductive cancers, and so many more. But go for it, breastfeed her from the start and go from there. WHen you go back to work, give her formula when you are at wrk and breastfeed when you are together.

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All of the nutrion and immune stuff aside... because as you said, that's not what this is about...

Warning: We had to spend over $20 per DAY on formula. That totaled out to over $600 per flippin' month.

You won't know until your baby is born what their appetite will be, nor any sensitivities that they have. So you could get "lucky" and have a baby who doesn't eat much, doesn't grow fast, and whose system can take cheap formula and not get sick off of it... or you could end up with a super healthy big eater who can't tolerate cheap formula (or worse, one with allergies so you have to go the nutramigen route) and be taking out loans just to keep your baby alive.

Your breasts are also as screwed as they're going to get. Pregnancy changes the interior architecture, and then the act of milk coming in stretches the skin. Which will happen regardless of whether or not you breastfeed. There's no "but I don't NEED milk" switch to flip... it comes in. Period. So aesthetically, it makes no difference.

My suggestion would be this: Try nursing for 2 months. The first week to month HURTS (take care of your nipples, and nipple shields are a gift from god), but as soon as you get in the swing it's as easy (and relaxing) as peeing.

I'm not knocking formula. It's lifesaving, and it's come a long way. But it IS expensive. Very, very expensive.

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I have a few tidbits for you- I also decided to formula feed both of my daughters because I felt that breastfeeding was not something that suited my personality. I am susceptible to post-partum depression and I didn't need to add any stressors that would make it worse.

I don't think that 'because me and my husband were formula fed' is really a deciding factor. I'm not understanding that one- I don't know how that plays into your decision.

As far as financial, if you feel that breastfeeding is not for you, do you qualify for WIC? You should look it up. With my first daughter, I didn't think I would qualify, we made decent money, but we actually did qualify. WIC covered all of her formula.

Keep in mind that breast-feeding IS healthier for your baby and for you, and it's free. You could buy a pump on craigslist- I hear medela pumps are the best- you could get a used one at 1/3 the cost.

You should consider your schedule- do you work? Do you work inside or outside the home? What is your work schedule? Do you value your independence, or will you feel that breastfeeding will take away from that? Do you take meds that could be passed in breast milk?

Since you're mostly concerned about the financial aspect, and assuming you don't qualify for WIC, it would be much cheaper to buy a pump and breast feed. But again, I formula fed, so I understand that decision.

I know it's a tough choice! Good luck! Take care! Congrats on your baby!

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Well....in my opinion, I'd go formula ways. While thinking of financial aspects, you also want to factor in time as well. If you breastfeed and pump, you'll be doing that round the clock. And if you want to work while doing it, you might end up having to supplement as well if you don't have enough. Anyhow, you could do WIC (that's what I'm doing) and if baby needs a little more formula, then you could buy the generics (they are just as good!) and it's all good.

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I formula fed both of my children since I was physically unable to breastfeed. I am really irritated with all the breastfeeding moms you assume because you formula feed your kid will be sick all the time. FYI- my son is 21 months and my daughter is 7 months and neither of them have EVER been sick and we go to play dates 3X per week. My friend who breast fed her daughter for 18 months had a sick child at least once a month. And an advantage is that someone can feed your baby while you are away- same friend her daughter refused a bottle and for 18 months she was the only one who could put her daughter to bed and for all naps. I am not against breast feeding at all- I truly wish I were able to. But please don't make it seem like breastfeeding is the greatest thing in the world with no drawbacks what so ever. My formula fed children are healthy, happy, and have still managed to bond with me. And yes, it is a lot more expensive to formula feed between the actual formula, bottles, ect. You will recover the cost of a pump in a couple of months.

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I love nursing. LOVE IT! I bought a used Medela Pump In Style for $75 and paid and extra $50 for new tubes and accessories. I used it for about 9 months, then loaned it out to my cousin. Best money I've EVER spent.
Breastfeeding is amazing. There are so many fabulous antibodies in Mom's milk. It has way more advantages than being "nutritional and whatnot." Formula companies are always trying to mimic breast milk. That right there should tell you how amazing it is for your child.
My husband very rarely fed our daughters. He bonded with them in other ways. He's always done bath time and bed time. My girls adore their Daddy. My nursing them didn't take away the bond.

If you're really looking for a recommendation, I suggest nursing. Start out breast feeding and see how it goes. It's rough the first few weeks, but once you get through that part, it's a breeze. There's no bottles to buy. No formula to mix. Less stuff to haul in the diaper bag. You'll never be caught unprepared if baby is hungry. I really recommend you speak to a lactation consultant and gather as much information on nursing as you can. Make an informed decision once you have all the information.

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Some ways I saved money on formula.. bought at places like Sam's club or Costco.. Sign up on line at manufactors web sites for money saving coupons.. buy powdered vrs. liquid formula... The doctors often have lots of sample cans that they give away if u ask..
Best of luck,
L.

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FYI - I was able to get a NEW Medela In Style for about $90 cheaper through ebay.

PS - Also primarily did the breastfeeding for the money but have stuck with it because it is just so personally satisfying. The bond is like nothing else.

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Hey -
Just a few points:
1. Formula is VERY expensive. You can buy a good used breastpump (just getting new tubing/attachments). You can probalby even borrow a breastpump from a friend.

2. Once, when my baby was sick, she was absolutely refusing to eat from a formula bottle. I gave her some breastmilk (in a bottle) and she GOBBLED it down.

3. Outside of finances, you will LOVE the bonding that breastfeeding can give you baby. Trust me on this.

4. Breastfeeding is EASY in terms of always having a supply of milk around. I breastfed my son for only 3 months because I didn't want to pump at work. But, I breastfed my daughter for close to a year and I was pleasantly surprised at how much more convenient it was when she was a little older and we were out running chores - I didn't have to pack bottles and worry about keeping them cool. It was great.

Good luck!
L.

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I bought a really expensive breast pump, but it has lasted me 25 months of use with my kids (10 with my son, 15 with my daughter) so I feel like it was worth every penny and it still works really well! Bust it is a huge expense at first. I also formula fed my son, and I couldn't believe how it always felt like we were out of formula and trying to scrape together the money to buy more. We spent approximately $50 a week on formula, so for us the pump had paid for itself in less than a month. I am a big believer in breastfeeding, and mostly because of the ease of it and how inexpensive it is! I know you can also rent pumps, and I know some moms who have had good luck with cheaper pumps as well. You might qualify for state assistance for formula? I say try it as long as you can, and then you can supplement or switch to formula when you need/want to. You will have at least saved yourself that much money!

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I breastfed and bottlefed my son until he was 6 months old, and then exclusively formula fed him. We spent about $50 a week on formula for six months.

I have exclusively breastfed my daughter (she wouldn't take a bottle, ever!) and to date, have spent $35 on formula to use with rice cereal and oatmeal, which she loves. That's the grand total. In one year.

If you buy a great breastpump you'll spend $300. You could probably get by with 6 bottles and then use breastmilk bags -- they are the most cost effective route for breastmilk storage.

So, if you're looking at it from a strictly financial aspect -- you can't beat breastmilk route.

You might be surprised how fast it grows on you. I really loved the bonding time it gave me with my children!

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Breastfeeding:
It saves money.
It is healthy.
It is a bonding experience too..
Yes, hubby can feed from a bottle, with pumped milk... but IF your baby takes a bottle. Not all babies will take a bottle.

Next: I used the Avent "Isis" Manual Breast Pump. That is the only pump, that I liked and used and work well for me. It is easy. I tried the Medela electric also. I didn't like it. It did not work for me.
The Avent, is not expensive.

all the best,
Susan

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Congrats on your new little one.
I haven't read all your responses causing me to write what I thought when I read your question. Until your little one arrives you have no idea whether you or he/she will take to breastfeeding. Due to that don't buy a pump before he/she comes. Once little one arrives the lactation consultants can really help you and that's when you should really decide what way to go. Whether you go back to work or SAH you need an electric breastpump if you decide to go with breastfeeding. Everyone seems to buy Medela, but they are expensive and there are other good ones. I went with Ameda and spent under $200 for a new machine. I used it for 10 mos bw my kiddos and for sure got my money's worth. Very easy to use and they give you a bag that's very discrete. When it comes to formula Target I know makes a product that has the same if not a bit more of the nutrients as brand name (there is a FDA guideline for formula). Check the labels to see for yourself. Remember also you CAN flip bw formula and breastmilk if your kiddo allows. That means if you go with breastfeeding you could introduce a formula bottle when you want too. Gist is don't feel you MUST go one way. I thought that myself and got all caught up with breastfeeding. I became happier when I realized I could bring in formula sometimes and my kiddo is just as good.

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Well, I've used plenty of formula and did not enjoy breastfeeding for very long, but you'll spend far more on formula over a year than ANY breast pump costs -even the absolutely most expensive one! If you use formula, use the store brands because they have to be the exact same nutritionally as name brands -it's a federal law. I saved SO much money doing that with my second baby!

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breastfeeding is sooo much cheaper! If you qualify for WIC they will let you borrow a hospital-grade electric pump for free. :) Formula is soo expensive... it's also hard to budget when feeding with formula... when baby hits growth spurts she will cluster feed... my roommate's baby was going through a can every couple of days when she was hitting hers!! Those weeks will be 2x as expensive as normal ones... I originally chose to breastfeed because of the cost, then when I researched it the health benefits clinched it.

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I did not read all of your responses so my apology if I repeat advice.
I am a NICU nurse but I will keep this only on the financial part. It is so much cheaper to Breastfeed . Formula is expensive. And yes you will need a good pump for when you go back to work and when you to have your husband to give the baby a bottle the pump will cost so much less than what formula will cost. If you qualify for WIC they will supply a very nice pump to you for free. Or you can buy the tubing kit and get a used pump much cheaper than new. You can also ask at the hospital when you have your baby and they will give you a pump kit. (our hospital does). Now on to why it is cheaper for other reasons less copays to your pediatrician breast feed babys get less ear infections and other illnesses so less days off of work and copays for yourself.
/3 Can Formula-Powdered (Daily) $4.67
2 1/3 Cans Formula-Powdered (Weekly) $32.62
121 Cans Formula-Powdered (First Year) $1694.00
Additional Supplies (Bottles, Nipples, Etc) $300.00
Tax (7.375%) $147.00

Total Cost of Formula Subtotal $2141.00
Breastfeeding nursing supplies and additional food for mom -$350.00

Breastfeeding vs. Formula for the First Year
Total Savings $1791.00

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I paid $350 for my pump. It's lasted 7 years and three kids so far. I still use it in the a.m. to pump milk for rice cereal and nurse the rest of the day. For my first child, I pumped twice a day at work.

Is it worth it? For me it is. Is it a hassle? Sometimes, if I have somewhere to go. Have I ever regreted it? NO!

Financially, it is so worth it. It's like cloth diapers. It seems so expensive to spend 300 bucks on cloth diapers, but three kids later, I am amazed at the money I have saved!

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It really all depends on what is "super-expensive" for you. I bought an Ameda pump that worked HARD and did a great job. I have a friend who bought two single Medela Swing pumps because it gave her flexibility to have a pump at home and one at work...but could also use them together. Both options, ready to go, were around $200 or less.

I don't know the going rate for a can of formula but, from what I can remember, it can pay for itself pretty quickly. Also, some women do just fine with a manual pump for occasional expression.

I loved breastfeeding, didn't have many of the problems which seem to plague some moms, and definitely needed to do it from a financial perspective--I had to work full-time AND travel.

Know what I hated? PUMPING. I stopped pumping at a year, but continued to nurse until my daughter was 18 months.

Pumping, like breastfeeding, doesn't always work. Pumping, is very often, less successful than breastfeeding. Many women in my La Leche League could successfully breastfeed, but could get very little from a pump. It is estimated that, under the best circumstance, you should only expect a pump to clear 60% of what is acutally available.

I 100% believe that breastfeeding is absolutely the best thing, but if you're plan is for your husband to give an occasional bottle...use formula for that bottle. If it is something you'll do frequently, you just have to be prepared for it to negatively effect your supply.

Good luck!

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If you bought a $300 breastpump, you're talking about 10 weeks worth of formula - your baby would need to eat formula for a year. That's about $1500 provided your baby doesn't need a more expensive, specialty formula . That $300 breastpump can feed your baby for a year, and can be used again if you have another baby. BTW, I had such a good supply and good letdown for the pump that I pumped for f/t work with an Avent Isis manual pump which was about $60.

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Breast feeding is not just way cheaper, but way easier. Who wants to get up in the middle of a night and prepare a bottle when you are working and sleep deprived? I am a single mother of twins (dad and I split during my pregnancy) and I not only wanted- but needed to do what was cheapest and easiest. I had my infants in their bassinets next to my bed. Whenever one of them woke for her middle of the night feeding I would just reach over and lay her in the bed next to me and fall back asleep. I would typically wake-up a short while later and place her back in the bassinet.

Obviously I had to work, but I continued to nurse my girls until they were 18 months old. I did not use formula to bottle feed them. The only time I used formula was to mix with their baby cereal. I really did not have to buy much formula at all. I used all of the samples that they sent home with me from the hospital.

I got both of my pumps from WIC at no charge. I first got a small battery pump 3 weeks after they were born, then when I returned to working full time at 8 weeks WIC provided me with a Medela double pump. I don't know what I would have done without WIC.

Another huge bonus is that you never have to worry about your baby being allergic to your milk.

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My numbers may be off, it's been awhile since I priced this stuff...but if you spend your money on a good pump it should cost about 300.00 - if my numbers are still right. You can also go on Craigslist and find one used and then just buy all new plastic accessories. To formula feed it will cost around 1000.00 for the first year. Good luck on making your decision...it's an intensely personal one and a hard one to make.

Breast feeding for at least 6 weeks give the baby a lot of immunities that formula will not have. Your husband can feed the baby later when you fo to a bottle. Alos, he can bond by holding, changing diapers, reading to the baby, etc. Moms who breast feed for 20 months or more do not feel their husbands miss out on anything. They help nurture by just being a dad. Your body also benefits from nursing as the uterus goes back to position and size while nursing, etc. The benefits far outweigh the idea of not nursing.

My daughter is 4 1/2 months old and we bought a $300 pump before she was born. I was lucky in that my co-workers all chipped in and gave me a gift card which I used to purchase it. But even if I had purchased it outright, I've figured that it paid for itself after just 2 months. And since I'm going to try to breastfeed for a whole year, it's well worth it to me. I can't imagine having to pay for all that formula. My husband got laid off when my daughter was just two months old and one of my first thoughts was thank goodness I'm not having to buy formula!

Congrats! I breast fed 6 of my kids. I pumped 32oz of my milk when I was in the Army per day plus I breastfed my son before and after work too. I didn't buy any of the expensive pumps. My last one was a Medela electric/battery operated pump that you can use by holding with one hand or on a table. It worked great, was easy to carry and be discreet with and cost less than a $100. Best wishes and God bless!

From a financial aspect, I think breastfeeding is still less expensive, even if you're buying an expensive breast pump. A can of formula is around $25 (depending on what you buy), so you can only get 12 cans of formula to your $300 breastpump...and 12 cans won't last you a year (until you can use cows milk). However, pumping does take a lot of time, so you have to weigh that in to your decision too. How much is your time worth to you? Good luck in your decision!

Dori W. couldn't have said it better. I wanted to add that you don't need to spend a lot of money on a pump, almost like saying you have to get the most expensive pregnancy test to get accurate results, it just isn't true. I breastfed 2 out of my 3 babies and the only thing I ever regretted was not breastfeeding my second child more, I put him on formula around 5 weeks and almost instantly regretted it. We were switching formulas night and day to see which one would he tolerate better now or which one he wouldn't have a reaction to. With breastfeeding you won't have to worry about if it's not right for your baby, it will be exactly what baby needs.

So anyhow, I ended up using the manual pumps the hospital gives you and never had to pay a dime for a pump. I breastfed and pumped each of my B/F babies for almost 2 yrs. Invest in some lanolin, it will help with any pain during the first few weeks and lots of nursing pads. That's about all you should need when it comes to B/F. Save your money since you're already on a tight budget and ask your hospital for a pump. Good luck and congrats to you!

Definitely breastfeed and buy a pump, it will be cheaper then buying formula. Your right good pumps are expensive I have the Medela that is $280 which is in the middle price range. I come across coupons everyone once in awhile for like 20% off like at Babies-r-us and Target. Or you can find used ones on Craig's list or Ebay. Also research the price of different formulas and ask around about how much you would be using. I've heard you'd be spending $60-100 per week. I won't get into the nutritional value but breastfeeding is easier on your babies tummy reduces colic and reflux, plus formula smells awful and you need a gas mask to change those poopie diapers. Lol.

Even flo has a pump that is like 60 bucks. It worked great I used it for 2 children. Then with my 4th it died. I was able to find a medela pump at an amazing price so that is what I replaced it with. Oh my! What a difference! It was silent! Suction wise I think it was probably about the same but that medela really made me feel a whole lot less like a dairy cow hooked up to a machine. You will spend way more money on formula. Somewhere around 60 bucks every 2 weeks. I know you said immune stuff aside, but from my personal experiences, my strictly formula feed baby has been my healthiest child. My middle 2 we did both. With my last I strictly based on finances I exclusively breastfed and it was by far cheaper. Trust your gut on this one and you will end up making the best decision for your family.

Oh and I am talking about a double electric. I wouldn't wast time or money on a single or hand pump.

Formula is so expensive and you need to use it the first 12 months so you figure a medela pump is about 280 now I exclusively bf so I don't know the exact amount of formula you'd use but if you figure a minimum of 6 cans a month at over $20 a can that's $120 a month for a rough total of $1400 or more for the year. Simple math says bf is a lot cheaper even cheaper if you can get a pump from your insurance (some will cover them) among its other benefits.

The only pump that agreed with me was a manual one I got for like 30-40 bucks, the electric ones didn't work for me. regulating it my self worked much better.
breastfeeding is DEFINITELY cheaper no matter how you look at it,

We were lucky enough to have a hospital that rented a pump for about $40/mo in our area. So price of the pump wasn't thar bad. When our son was about 3 mos due to illnesses on both our parts we hAd to switch to formula-then he started having all kinds of tummy issues. So we had to put him on a super sensitive formula that costs about $25 a can. So now that he is 8 mos old and drinks so much we spend roughly $200-$250 a month on formula...that $40/month sounds a lot better to me. So while at the beginning breastfeeding itself was kind of tough. I wish we still were-for many reasons.

I exclusively breastfed both of my kiddos. With my first, bought an expensive pump, it broke :-( Then I bough a cheap pump, no good. So, I started hand expressing into a cup and then pouring it in a bag and I was able to get 4+oz at a time, which is the most I got; I could never get that with the pumps. With my second, I strictly hand expressed and was able to get 6+ oz (I guess I got better with time!) So, my expense was only the bags to freeze the excess in (I used the Lansinoh ones from Target). That seems like the cheapest option to me!

For me I have to get 10-12 cans of formula a month so that is $168 a month. A good pump is what $300? So 2 months worth of pumping would be cheaper than two months of formula (if your not on WIC) You can rent a pump. I don't know how much it is there to, but It could be cheaper. You can find out from the hospital. I totally second the ebay route. I got mine there for about $30 (It wasn't the super nice ones, but the kind that normally is $150)

I just wanted to add my two cents in on our subject. I have only read a few of your responses, but forgive me if I repeat! I know that breastfeeding is not to everyone. Some people are unable to breastfeed that want to, and others it just isn't for them. I knew I wanted to and I was bound and determined to do it. I had to feed my daughter formula for 1 week when she was a month old because of medication I had to go on after having complications with my gall bladder surgery. That week was the worst week of my daughter's first year. When I went to buy the formula I thought I was going to die. My husband and I were on a TIGHT budget and could not believe how much it costs. Breastfeeding was free and that helped out budget out tremendously! Not to mention the diapers were HORRIBLE that week and she had a slight problem wth constipation which she never did with the breast. And yes, it was MUCH easier. I didn't have to fix that bottle in the middle of the night with the breast like I did that one week. She slept in my room in her pack-in-play and when she would cry, all I had to do was get her and feed her and then back to sleep. (yes there were several nights that we would both fall asleep while nursing, but when you are sleep deprived, you can't help it!) I did buy a pump from Wal-Mart, Advent I think, and it was less than $100 and worked great when I needed to use it. I am able to be a stay at home mom, so I didn't have to pump at work, but another friend of mine got the same pump and had to use it all during work and it worked great for her too. Buying formula for one month or so will pay for your pump which of course means it will be cheaper in the long run. I will also add that with breastfeeding, you will lose your weight faster. After a few weeks of breastfeeding, I was back to my pre-pregnancy weight and within a few months, I was LESS than my pre-pregnancy weight! My sister was not a breastfeeder, she tried it and was not for her and her kiddos are healthly. She can't understand how passisionate I was about it, and I couldn't understand why she wasn't. But have since figured out that it just isn't for everyone. But if it is finances that are pulling you one way or the other, then def breastfeeding is the way to go!! Good luck to you!!

It might be worth it to try breastfeeding I tried it with both of my boys and TRULY hated it both times so at 12 weeks and 10 weeks stopped. Formula is expensive, you're talking around $15 a can for store brands and $22 a can for national brands (they tell you they make about 27 8oz bottles). You can see how that adds up. My oldest son topped out at around 6oz per bottle and youngest around 5oz per bottle so a can generally lasted us a full week. As far as the breast pump, our insurance covered the breast pump, I bought it and they reimbursed us for it so you might want to check into that.

I haven't read all of the responses. I wanted to say that I loved the experience of sitting and bonding with both my boys. Formula is fine, as some people can't or just don't want to BF. I WAS one of those people. Didn't really want to BF, but my mom said, why not try it to give yourself options? Well good thing I did, turns out my son was alergic to milk protein. The ONLY formula he could handle was 23.00 for a can about the size of large green beans! I needed up BFing for 12 months. I got got my breast pump at Target. Spent slighly more to get the dual pump but I used it for 12 monthss, but it allowed my husband to be invovled and gave me milk to send to daycare. Do ask for it on your gift registry. Congrats on your new arrival.

A good breast pump is worth the money. I was given a Medela Pump in Style when I was pregnant with my first child. He is now 11 years old, and I still have and use that pump. Maybe you could put that on your wishlist, and if people ask what you need you could ask them to contribute funds toward a pump.

oh wow, there are a lot of responses... I don't know if it's possible but your insurance might cover the cost of a hospital-grade pump. I think that would be the best solution. It's more possible nowadays... check into it.

Breastfeeding is so much cheaper then formula. I purchased a medela pump and style it was $250. Yes, it was expensive but it is a great investment. You will be able to use it now and in the future for the next baby or babies. I pumped so that my husband and daycare provider could feed my son when I was at work. I breastfeed my son until he was 20 months old and never used formula. I am not uire how much formula even costs but I can bet that a years worth is way more then $250 dollars. Good luck in your decision.

I think you could do both for awhile and then switch over to just formula once you go back to work. The baby may show a preference for breast milk and reject the formula, in which case at that time you can decide to invest in the pump.

I used the avent isis breast pump which was only about $30 and worked fine, but actually I barely needed to use it, I just breast fed exclusively up until I went back to work when my son was 4 months old, then he had a bottle at daycre and I breast fed again when I got home, he was and is fine.
I fed him like this up unitl 10 months when he went on the bottle full time.

M.,

I really encourage you to try breastfeeding. The bonding experience is priceless, and I saved tons of money. It honestly was some of the most treasured times I've had with my babies.

Some insurance companies will cover a really good breastpump, but I used an inexpensive electric medella pump I bought at babies r us. It was "adequate", but could have been better. I could pump about 4 oz at a time so I'd pump at work a couple of times and before and after work. At around 7 months or so I found that it was easier to supplement with formula than to pump so often.

You can start breastfeeding and make a pump decision later when you know breatfeeding is established. If your supply is good, you can even occasionally supplement with formula, although don't overdo it since less nursing means you make less milk. Or if breastfeeding is difficult for you, you can always switch to formula. But I woudl not buy a pump before delivery.

That said, a pump is a nice thing to have because it encourages the mil to come in and you can always create bottles. I think it really is FAR LESS expensive than formula. My top of the line working-mother pump was around $300 but the formula I bought was over $20 for a big container and they don't last too long. When you do find you want a pump, I think you can buy one for $100 or less.

Breastfeeding is cheaper as you see below. I used bottles that could be used for storage (even freezer safe) and cloth breast pads rather than disposable (they've lasted through two kids, minus a few that got lost in the wash). I have to say my pump wasn't one of the expensive ones, but it did last for about 19 months (over two kids). I also used cloth diapers, bought thrift shop clothes or swapped clothes with friends, and made baby food when that time came.

I breastfed both of my kids until they self weaned at around 10 months old. Then, I had to switch to formula. It was costing me at least $45 per month in formula and that was for a 10 month old that was eating solid food and not exclusively on milk. A good breast pump is around $250. My guess is that it would be at least $65-$70 per month in formula for an infant, so you could pay for the breast pump in 4 months or so. In my opinion, it's worth it to try. You could also rent a breast pump instead of buying one until you're sure about which route you want to take. That way, you don't spend a ton of money on something you may or may not use.

I will tell you that I had a tough time getting through the first couple of months breastfeeding (although it was totally smooth sailing after that) and I am not sure I would have made it if I was at all wishy washy about what I wanted for my kids. I was determined to make it work, so it was worth the hard times, but if you're not sure, you may be more inclined to give up when it gets tough. My advice would be to talk to a lactation consultant or take a breastfeeding class beforehand so that you have some baseline info going into it. I strongly encourage at least giving it a try and using a good lactation consultant to help you through the tough first few weeks because if you can make it through that, it gets so much easier! Anyway, I just wanted to give it to you straight and let you make your own decisions, but it really is a great thing both nutritionally and from a bonding perspective and I think if you give it a try, you'll find you won't regret it. Good luck with whatever you decide to do and congrats on your new addition!

Breastfeeding doesn't always equal free or mostly free like some people think. I spent close to a $1000.00 trying to breastfeed, and was advised to stop by my doctor and my daughters ped. I spent about $1500 - $2000 on formula over the first year because I wasn't able to breastfeed.
If you are able to then of course it would be cheaper in the long run, but you also have to go with what you feel comfortable with.
There are a billion ways you can save on pumps, WIC, rent one through the hospital, get the hand held ones, buy a used one off of ebay.
There are a billion ways you can save on formula, WIC, sign up on the websites for coupons, get free samples from your ped (and the hosp), opt for the cheaper brands (if it agrees with your baby's tummy), or make your own.
In the end it's up to you, go with what you feel is best for your budget, and go with what you feel comfortable with. Look for ways to save on everything, breastfeeding or formula feeding. Good Luck!
LOL - a previous response said you can save money on dr's visits because b/f babies are healthier....my formula fed baby has never been sick with a cold or a flu, and she's 18 months. =)

You can rent safe, sterilized breast pumps for under $80 a month which will be cheaper than formula in the medium/long run. You also save money in the amount of bottles if you are pumping for hubby and not for all time.
You will save TONS of time while out and no need to carry craps tons of insulated bags, etc.
Also, the money you will save in medical visits as breast fed babies are healthier, should definitely be taken in to account. We had a daughter die at 17 days from an Necrotizing Enterocolitis which is more likely to occur in formula fed babies. I cannot produce due to cancer treatment, but we made certain that our next daughter got donor milk and we are certain it saved her life. She was eventually put on a special dietary formula that cost $44 a can ($750 a month) because we couldn't control what the donor mothers were eating. However, if your child has any "special" dietary concerns, you can either have a HUGE formula bill or those concerns could be addressed through your eating habits for free. :-)
Good Luck!

i know you have gotten a lot of responses. but i just wanted to say that if you decide to breast feed you really need your husbands support. It can be difficult. though some women have no problem with it and it's as easy as breathing for them. In my experience the lactation consultants at the hospital can be a HUGE resource!!!!! don't be scared to ask for help it can make all the difference.

I'm probably not going to say anything that hasn't been said but for us, breastfeeding has been SO much cheaper. Now that we are paying a metric tons worth of money for daycare, I really can't stop!
We lucked out and were given a great Medela Pump in Style by a friend who stayed home and really didn't need it. I second all the other recommendations to look for a good used one- Medela all the way. All you have to do after that is by your own pieces (tubing, phalanges, etc) that at are REALLY cheap on ebay. One cost not really mentioned are storage containers- you can go very inexpensive and freeze your milk in an ice cube tray and then drop the cubes in a resealable baggy or you can by the bags specifically made for milk storage, which are a bit more expensive.

We had great lactation consultants at the hospital who made the beginning of the process feel like less of a struggle. I'm so glad because we are now saving between $40 and $60 per week.

HI M., You should try the whole breastfeeding thing 1st before committing to buying an expensive pump. Even If it is just for the 1st 6 weeks use a inexpensive hand pump until you decide so your husband can feed her. It is way cheaper to breast feed. I would recommend trying it out for at least 6 weeks because it takes awhile to figure how these boobs are really suppose to work :) If you are pumping on occasion and the baby is use to a bottle it will make the transition easier if you decide to go the formula route. If you do decide to breastfeed make sure you meet with the lactation consultant when you are in the hospital. She can make your life a lot easier as you get started. I wasn't sold on bf either, but once I got the hang of it it seemed natural. Once I switched to formula I regretted it, he had allergy issues and we ended up spending a fortune trying to figure out which one agreed with him, of course it was the most expensive so we added about $60 a week to our expenses. Good Luck and Congrats!!!

The lactation consultants at Medical center of Arlington did a cost comparison about 15 years ago. At that time the cost of breastfeeding was about $200 a year where formula was about $1200 a year. The cost for breastfeeding is bottles, bottle liners (if you use the drop in kind) and pump. I would go to the grocery store and price it, plan on 1 to 2 cans a week. Also what my husband and I did for all 3 of my kids is he would get up and get the baby and change the diaper and bring baby to me to feed. Remember that anytime you are not nursing, you need to be pumping. It sounds harder, but you don't have to worry about temp or if the baby is getting what is needed. Breastmilk is best, and the babys saliva tells your body what it needs and your body "makes" it for them. I used to be against breastfeeding, but it truly is more convienent. Good luck. I have also heard that if you breastfeed your baby, it cuts down the chances of breast cancer. Especially if your baby is a girl. For every generation of girls that is breastfed the chances are less. I think I was told this by the lactation consultants about 5 years ago, so I am not 100% sure.

I had a really expensive top of line electric Medela pump that was a gift, it probably cost about 300 or so..but it wasn't very effective for me. I had much better luck with a non-electric Avent hand-pump that cost 45 dollars and it was small enough to put into my purse. I think that formula would cost more in the long run in comparison to even an expensive pump though, and the pump has a resale value.(you replace the tubing and attachments of course) Good luck!

Dear M.:

It was a loooong time ago for me, but it was cheaper to breastfeed, and, frankly, more convenient than mixing up formula. Formula is VERY expensive.

Have you checked the prices to rent a pump? You buy the tubing and rent the actual pump. I ended up renting a pump for a while, but I'm afraid I can't remember the prices. I also bought a small pump that I kept in my briefcase when I was at work and got too engorged. Quick relief!

L. F., mom of a 14-year-old daughter

M.,
I did both. I only breast feed for about 4 weeks with each my kids. This first child i only breast feed for 4 weeks because the boss i had was really NOT a nice person, i new he would make me "clock out" every time i had to pump, therefore i choose to formula fee. The second child i had i just didnt produce enough milk, so i went to formula. As for the pumps, not all good pumps are expensive. I bought an Avent Manual pump, which i preferred for about $55.00. You can pump on a regular bases and buy breast milk freezer cups and freeze your milk, so that you are able to build your supply (while you do that you would need to supplement a little formula). By doing that you and your husband can both take turns feeding the baby. It is cheaper to breast feed considering the outrageous prices that they charge for the formula. (One key note: If you decide to go ahead with the formula feedings, make sure you call the 800 number on the back of the can and get on a mailing list for coupons, if they have that option. That will also help with the financial part of having to buy formula)

I breastfed my twins for 15 months, and trust me, we saved a TON of money. The cost of a pump is expensive, but if you do the math, it will still save money. A good pump is about $300. Freezer bags will run about $20 a month. Breast pads for your bra will be about $10 a month. Formula will cost anywhere from $150-$250 a month. So, if you plan to breastfeed beyond the first month, it is definitely worth it. And, it's worth giving it a try. If it doesn't work out, you always have plan B. But, I've always thought it's a little sad when a mom produces the BEST nutrition that's free, and doesn't at least give it a try. It's not for everyone, but you might enjoy it. You never know until you try.

Good luck to you!

I would suggest breastfeeding initially. Don't buy the pump. You can also give a bottle of formula if your milk supply is low, or if you need to be away for hours and your husband or sitter is keeping the baby, and then you can switch to formula when you go back to work. I always had a low milk supply. I would breastfeed and then supplement with formula. That would also save you the most $$. -- You could buy a really cheap hand pump, and mix some breastmilk with formula so the baby can get used to both tastes and both the breast and bottle. -- Also, since the breast milk is healthier, you could save $$ in the long run on runs to the pediatrician.

Hi!
I worked part time after my little one was born. My neighbor gave me a nice pump- but it was used. And that kind of grossed me out. So, I used a hand pump. it cost about $30. I actually wore the first one out and got a second hand pump. It worked perfectly. I breast fed fed for about 11 months. I stopped because my doctor wanted me to get a mammogram. That last month of buying formula drove me crazy- I could not believe how expensive it it. The pump I used is the Medela Harmony Breastpump. I did not like the bottle nipples that come with it, so I got the Gerber nuk bottle nipples. It was so worth it- plus the baby weight just flew right off :) Good luck with your decision!

I bought a good pump for about $100-$150.... that is WAY cheaper than you will spend on formula! Trust me! I have breastfed (by way of pumping) and have formula fed my kids .... BUT let me warn you, pumping all the time and breastfeeding is HARD work!! You really have to be committed!

I rented a pump very cheaply, I also always had good luck with a hand-pump. In the long run, you will save a ton of money breastfeeding.

To me there is no real debate here. Breastmilk costs nothing. Formula a lot. If you are able, get on WIC. They have breastpumps there for women who want to pump and it is free of charge or low cost. You also receive vouchers for food for your baby and you. You may find you really enjoy breastfeeding and nutritionally it is better for your baby as there are things you have like antibodies that formula does not. Good luck with your decision!

I have not read all of your responses but just in case someone has not mentioned this I wanted to let you know, if you are within a certain income bracket, which I was during my pregnancies because I had a mandatory maternity leave and my husband did not make very much money, you and your children can qualify for either a free breast pump or free formula from WIC (Women Infants and Children) I choose the breast pump because I wanted to breast feed, overall it was the easier and least expensive choice for me. WIC will also help you with immunizations and some groceries if you need them, just call your local WIC office and they can help you out, they are a great source of help for new Moms. ps the free pump worked great with all three of my kids and then I gave it to my SIL and she used it for all three of hers... it was an excellent pump with all the bells and whistles, not a cheap hand pump, I think it was valued around $150 and it certialnly worked as well as all the expensive ones that some of my working Mom friends had invested $250 in. best of luck, you can PM me if you have any questions but definitely check with WIC to see if you qualify.

Medela Pump in Style is the best...go on Craig's List and you can buy one.
Both my daughters bought their pump on CL. You can find some really good deals. The pump in style retails for around $300 and you can get them for around $100.

Hmmm... interesting perspective! I only breastfeed so I'm not sure of the exact cost but from what I heard, sometimes the formula can be pretty pricey especially if you by the higher quality ones. Even if you aren't considering spending a lot on formula, your baby might not be able to handle the cheaper formula. So, it would seem that a pump would be cheaper. Try pricing the formulas. How much is a pump anyway? I got a nice one for very inexpensive when I was having surgery while nursing. I only used it once so I didn't want to spend a lot and it worked awesome!

While I could go on about the health benefits for you and baby, as well as the bonding aspect, I won't. From a purely financial perspective, I still believe that breastmilk will be cheaper than formula in the long run. Good breastpumps are expensive, and even renting one can be costly. But friends of mine who stopped breastfeeding, or never did breastfeed, say they spent up to $100 per month on formula for the first 6 months. That would pay for 2 pumps in that time frame. Not to mention that the baby will need supplemental milk (be it breast or formula) up to a year of age. So I think that you would definitely get your money's worth in purchasing a pump. I know they say never borrow a pump, but I'll tell you what I did. I purchased my own kit (tubing, materials, etc.) which cost around $40 and I bought a used pump on Craigslist. It was much more affordable, and since I had all the parts new (with the exception of the pump motor) I was not concerned about germs or contamination. Besides, it really is more convenient early on to not mess with bottles, but if your baby did not take to the breast you would have the pump and bottle as a back up option, or for those times someone else wants to feed the baby.

From a purely financial aspect you should also consider this: What happens if your milk drys up? Everyone will tell you that it is a supply issue, the more you express, either by pumping or breastfeeding, the more you make. But that is not always the case. I choose to breastfeed, had no plans to do formula at all, bought a good pump. But I could never get enough by pumping, and turned out that my son was not getting enough either. So we had to switch to formula.

Good luck!

I didn't read all the responses so this may be duplicated. But I'm also 36 weeks and finished a breastfeeding class a few weeks ago where I learned that there is a new type of pump on the market that is guaranteed not to allow (what I think they referred to as) backflow into the pump. This is where there is supposed to be no chance that your breastmilk could backflow into the wrong parts of the pump.

The pumps you can rent at the hospitals are this same type of pump but the lactation nurse said to buy this type of pump was in the $2000-$3000 range. Which, in my pocketbook at least, means I would be using formula.

However, apparently this new pump on the market is sold at places like Babies R Us and is somewhere in the $350-$500 range. The good thing about this is, yes, you are making an investment BUT since it is guaranteed not to backflow so you can then re-sell it a LOT easier when you are finished with it to recoup some of your investment.

This might also influence your decision because I do know that formula is very very expensive. Especially if you end up having to have some sort of special type.

I was in your exact same thinking regarding formula as my first daughter is also adopted and she was formula fed. So now that I've miraculously become pregnant I thought I would at least look at breastfeeding to save that $$. After taking the class, I've decided to try it. I still think it's going to be cheaper than the formula.

Good Luck Mama!!

In the end, do what works best for your family. As a mom who breastfed for a year and pumped at work. It is totally worth it...breastmilk is best for baby, and after the initial trouble with breastfeeding it is wonderful...those are my opinions. And I have a really nice pump, which is great since we are expecting #2 and will be able to use it again.

I was pretty young for my first child and not really what I would have considered maternal, so I thought it would be wierd and I would not like breastfeeding but I decided to give it a try.
Everything completely changed when I actually had my daughter. It was so completely natural and not at all like I expected. However I did wait too long to introduce a bottle and start pumping so she would not take milk any other way.
Now I am very close to having my second and will be breast feeding without a doubt. However I am very excited to also be able to pump and use a bottle. I got a used pump off of craigslist for 50 dollars. It was originally a 300.00 one. It was very clean and well taken care of, from a very clean person. I boiled or replaced many of the small pieces for little to no cost. So everything that touches the milk is beyond safe.
I would suggest at least trying to see if you can handle breastfeeding. The way you feel about your child is so different after they are born it is something that is just uncomprehendable until you are actually there. If it works out then get a pump and look for bargains(post a want to buy on craigslist as well). Also I have read the best time to start to introduce the bottle is at 1-2 weeks, just a bit at a time at first.
If it does not work then look into WIC it will help big time and you might be surprised that you qualify. Just go to walmart early in the morning or late at night if you feel awkward using it :)
Good Luck!

I think it is better to breastfeed. You can always buy a used pump. I did, my pump would have been over 300, i bought it used for 100! I sterilized everything and havnt had a problem, and Ive had it for 5 yrs, and am currently using it for the second time. You can also rent a pump, although I have no idea how much they are. I dont know your financial situation, but have you tried WIC? They will give you formula, or if you breastfeed they will give you milk, juice, cheese, and some other stuff and they can provide a breast pump for you. You could also do a little of both, breast feed while you are with the baby and have formula on hand for when your not. You can buy a very inexpensive, manual pump to express some milk when your at work to just relieve the pressure a little bit(save it though!) and after a few weeks your body will get the hint that at certain times of the day your not demanding milk from yourself so it will stop producing it. If you do breastfeed though those pumps do seem like alot of money but they really do hold up. If you take care of it well it will last you a few kids! Plus you can always buy replacement shields and stuff at most stores that sell baby stuff or from a lactation consultant. Good luck and let us all know how it goes for you!

M.,

I see that you have gotten many answers already, however, I will chime in here. Definitely BREASTFEED!!! There are SO many reasons to do this for YOU and for YOUR baby. The bonding experience for a mom and baby is paramount with breastfeeding. Having a baby latched to your breast is one of the most wonderfully fullfilling moments of a woman's life! It is worth your time and effort to breastfeed.

And to top it all off you are giving your baby "liquid gold" colostrum. It has 16 times the protein of formula. Helps protect your baby in a way formula never will. The antibodies in colostrum will help protect your baby from disease for months to come.

As far as a pump, you may spend $300 on a good pump, but you will spend a $1,000 on formula in a year!!! Daddys still can help burp a baby and give an occasional bottle to the baby. It is best to wait until the baby is well established at the breast before giving a bottle. Using a bottle with a broad base will be best for the breast fed baby.

If you need any assistance with your birth or your breastfeeding, please give me a call. I am a breastfeeding educator and I can help you find someone in Lubbock to help you. ###-###-####.

K. Voigtsberger
www.wholeheartbirth.com

I would definitely recommend to try breastfeeding for the first few weeks. I wouldn't buy a pump until you know you are committed to breastfeeding. The experts really don't recommend giving a nursing baby a bottle for atleast a few weeks. That gives you time to decide if breastfeeding will work for you. Then you will know what direction to go. If you return to work. you will need definitely need a good quality pump. Good luck with your decision.

Hi,
I'd like to add about mom sleeping through the night while dad gives a bottle. If you usually BF at that time during the night, and one night you and dad decide he will give a bottle to give you a break, you will need to pump or else you will be so engorged that your boobs will wake you up! It would totally defeat your purpose of giving the bottle. If a night bottle will be in the plans you might think about giving a bottle in the middle of the night all the time so that it will be consistent production for your boobs. Also, I recently heard that you produce the most milk between 1-5 am. Run this by an LC and see what they think. Great question, thanks for asking!

I always wanted to breast feed but was unable to with my first. So I know just how expensive that is. With my second i wanted to try again, no matter what. I bought a Medela pump around the $200's. It was a double and one I could use at work or just at overflow times so my husband could feed from a bottle. I got bottles that recreated feeding from a breast. It worked out and i am so glad. I saved so much money for my voracious eater. Also at 9 month s I had to stop due to medical issues. We found out he couldn't handle normal formula and could only do the expensive soy. In the end We saved the money of the pump and then some. So purely from a financial stand point, a double pump is worth the payout in the long run. The savings following that helps out with the ability to buy diapers.

The Just Between Friends Sale is this weekend in FW and coming up in Denton and Weatherford, then Grapevine soon too. I sold my $300 breastpump there for $75 and there were quite a few others. It IS definitely worth the financial savings even if you got a $300 Medela brand new. Formula is very expensive and if you use a GOOD formula, it's even more. I REALLY REALLY REALLY recommend you taking a breastfeeding class at the hospital or wherever. This will ensure a good start and help your breastfeeding be a success. Since you are only doing it for financial reasons, it is worth it for you to really learn more about it so you truly would understand what a special gift you'd be giving to your baby AND to yourself. Good luck with everything!

Breastfeeding is so much cheaper than formula. It is totally worth buying a pump. Formula is so expensive and you will go through a lot! I breastfed for 9 months mainly pumping with my Medela and I feel like it was the best decision. I was just like you and did it for financial reasons, but I'm really glad it had health and nutritional benefits too. My son is now 5 years old and, besides annual checkups, he has only been to the doctor once for and illness. I really believe that breastfeeding had something to do with that. You might also check into renting a hospital grade pump, I did that for the first two months and it really helped my milk production. Good luck and congratulations!

I honestly think breastmilk is easier. I breastfed my two natural children and have done foster care where you have to do formula. The formula isn't always ready. Breastmilk is cheaper. Breast milk is already warm. You can't bottle prop a breastfed baby which means you have to spend time holding them and bonding with them.

Formula is messy. You must always plan for contingencies of what if we are out too long. It takes time to wash those bottles, lots of time. Formula that's been sitting around smells.

You hit a very hot topic and your non chalance caused my spine to prickle a little and I'm not the biggest pro-this or that advocate for any cause. Here's my two cents and ignore if you want...I have two precious girls, I breast fed #1 for 6 months and #2 for 5 weeks, had to give up due to a bad epidural that caused severe spinal issues and I was put on a lot of pain killers. All that said, dgtr #1 has zero issues with respiratory ailments and suffers only mild seasonal allergies. Dgtr #2 is on asthma meds (as needed, not constant) and has multiple ear infections and seems to catch every dang virus that goes around. She can't be around cats, smoke and can't eat bananas or avocados. These could be things that would have happened regardless of how she was fed as an infant, but it has given me a reason to believe the nursing is the best thing for all babies.

I'm leaving my soap box now, best of luck to you with your new baby. Please remember you are adding to your family, not dragging down your budget.

I didn't read all the responses but I scrolled through so hopefully I'm not repeating everything but, first yes, bf is SO much cheaper than formula even with a pump. That being said, if you decide to bf, please consider this - commit to doing it for 3 weeks. The first week you and the baby are getting used to it, the 2nd week your nipples are sore, but by the 3rd week you should be established. I actually nursed my 2nd for a little over a year because it was so easy (I gave up after a few days with my first b/c I didn't realize and I didn't have a great lactation consultant - don't be afraid to ask for another if you don't like yours). Whatever you decide good luck and congrats!

Will your insurance cover any of the cost of a pump? Mine paid for 90% of my pump. Also, you can try to find a used one at a consignment sale (check JBFsale.com) or on Craig's list. You can buy new breastshields, etc at Babies R Us for about the cost of a cheap hand pump.

As others have mentioned if you splurge on the expensive pump there is always the chance that it won't work and you will have to use formula anyway, so I wouldn't do that if it is going to be a financial strain.

I breastfed both mine (one I pumped exclusively) and found that one way it saved me money was by boosting their immune system. We spent less $ on missed days at work, doctors, & medicines. Just something else to think about.

Good luck!

From a financial point, breastmilk is free. I think it's great that you're doing research on breast pumps, however, you may not even need one. The reason I say that is because with all good intentions, sometimes breast feeding just doesn't work out.

I also think you should consider the following...

you want hubby to be able to feed the baby. Why is this so important? There are other things hubby can do to bond with the baby. He can also help and support you with breastfeeding by making sure your comfortable, you always have a full water bottle close by.

You have the option of bf for a few months, and then can switch to formula once you go back to work.

If you start breastfeeding and decide to stop for whatever reason, there's no problem (except in rare circumstances). If you start on formula and want to go to breast milk, it's too late.

Good luck with your decision.

So I dont really have an answer but what it sounds like you need to do is price out the formula and find out how much you would use for 1st year of life, then match that to cost of pump (and remeber that you can sell your pump after you are done and make some back), you will also need bags for storing breast milk for freezing so add those to costs. I breast fed my daughter so I dont know how much formula costs or how many cans you go through per month to way out costs, personally I think from a strick financial aspect BF is most likely the cheaper of the two but am not positive. Hope this helps atleast to gove you a way to figure out. ((HUGS))

M., I saw your post after your "what happened", and just want to say that I appreciate EVERY word you said. I haven't read the posts you refer to, but I have seen so many rude ones dissing mothers who want to wean early or don't nurse, and it really irritates me. A while back, one of the women on this site even said that formula was poison. What a witchy thing to say.

I wanted to share this with you regarding my breastfeeding experience. I knew that I would have to go back to work after both of my babies were born, so I needed to make sure my babies would take a bottle. Still, I wanted to nurse. Regardless of the many comments I got on not confusing my babies with nipples and pacifiers, I offered both breast and bottle nipples, and a pacifier so that I wouldn't have thumbsuckers. (I sucked my thumb until I was 2, and I didn't want my children to have that habit.) I feel very lucky that both of my babies would take breast and bottle. They didn't care whether they got breastmilk or formula, either. And I did this well before I went back to work at 6 weeks with the first, and 8 weeks with the second. It was a godsend for my first baby, because I got so sick when he was a month old, that I couldn't nurse him. The doctor told me not to, and we would have been in trouble if he couldn't take a bottle or formula then.

That being said, I wanted to pump so that I wouldn't have to pay for formula. (Formula and diapers cost a ton, especially together!) But pumping was a disaster for me. Tears would run down my cheeks, and so very little would come out. All that money was down the drain. Several years after I had children, a friend of mine mentioned her miracle pump. I asked her where she got it, and she told me she rented it from the hospital. I asked her why, and she said that she didn't want to buy one and find out that it didn't work on her. She said she was told that the hospital types were gentler on the breasts and worked better anyway, so she was going that route. I WISH I had known about that. I could have pumped at work and sent breast milk bottles to daycare, if only pumping would have worked for me.

I'll never know if that hospital type would have fit the bill, but I wanted to mention it to you. Good luck with the feeding issue, and enjoy your new baby!

D.

Breast feeding is so much cheaper! A pump will pay for itself very quickly, and if you have a second child it will be MUCH more economical. Like the other moms said, breastfeeding (if it goes well) is so much more than just nutrition, it is a wonderful experience! You might surprise yourself once you start. Good luck and congrats!