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Breastfeeding Problems with Teething Baby

My daughter has been fussy lately with feeding. Until about a month ago, she always needed to nurse for at least 30-40 minutes at a time (at about 3-hour intervals), and she still feeds for that long sometimes, usually for the first and last feedings of the day.

The problem: For most feedings lately, she'll eat for 3-5 minutes, stop to burp, and then fuss and push away from me if I try to put her back to the breast. Sometimes she'll eat for a few minutes on the other breast and then do the same thing. I think she needs to eat more because she has always nursed for a lot longer in the past. And my breasts are not emptied after 3-5 minutes. But I can't force her to eat. I try burping her again or changing her diaper if needed and then offering her the breast again, but she still fusses and pushes away.

Could she be distracted and ready to play (even though we're in a quiet room)? Could her gums be hurting? Is she just impatient? Do I need to be concerned about my milk supply possibly decreasing, and whether or not she'll continue to get enough to eat?

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So What Happened?™

Thanks for all the responses; they were encouraging and reassuring. She's still often distracted or fussy, but I don't stress about it. Yes, she does eat solids but I'm going to be careful and slow about increasing the amount because she has just now doubled her birth weight (is developing well and Dr. is not concerned, she has just gained more slowly than most babies her age) and I want to make sure she gets the nourishment she needs from the breastmilk. Overall, she's happy and playful. Thanks again for the responses.

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If this is just recent. Is she running a fever or favoring one side? Could be her ears. As for her teeth try some Oragel right before feeding to numb her gums also a wonderful thing to use is a tablet called Teething Tablets made by Hyland's its homeopathic you can get it at the drug store possibly others I've only found it at Rite Aide so far. It has worked great with all 3 of my boys. Good luck and don't worry things will get better.

T. Just relax girl she is starting to ween herself from you. Have you started to Introduce her to solids yet. I breasst fed both of my children and my youngest one seemed to ween herself or not need my breast milk near as long as my oldest did . I started tyo slowly introduce solids around Six Months old .
I think you just Need to relax ok. I dont think you have anything to worry about.I think if soft solids arent being introduced then you may need to start thinking about it but othere then that girl just relax

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It is normal that she is going to eat less at her age and teething does cause some problems. I nursed my daughter 11 months and my son 14 (he did not want to give it up). I highly recommend Gentle Naturals Teething drops. You can get them at Target, Meijer or Babies R Us. They have a picture of Pooh Bear chewing on Eyeore's Ear. You put some under their tongue and it is a miracle worker. I hope you can find these and try them out. They worked much better for me than things you put on the gums - the additional saliva from teething seemed to just wash them away. Good luck and hang in there.

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It sounds like you are dealing with a nursing strike. I've never experienced this, but I can say that you might pump or manually express your breasts past the second let-down reflex, so that you do not lose your supply before this phase passes. There are La Leche League leaders in many towns who will know far more than I do.

My baby cut 4 teeth at age 3 months. Sounds like your little one is facing a lot at 7 months. She is teething and possible experiencing a world so facinating she can not concentrate on eating. This is also known as a hunger strike. This is NORMAL, and when she gets hungry enough or adjusted to her new world, she will settle back in. It is harder on you than on her in many ways.

Be patient, keep loving her and enjoy her enjoying her new world. She is also getting ready for other foods to be introduced. You did not indicate if she has started solids yet, but she sounds ready to me. The most important thing is to use your God-given instincts and listen to your heart.

Also, your milk supply will adjust both down and up when she returns to more nursing, if she does. My daughter nursed for 4 years along with eating everything under the sun. She had pneumonia 4 or 5 times and needed the nursing for fluids and comfort. I took a lot of good natured ribbing about her still nursing, but she eventually stopped on her own. She was the most healthy kid ever during childhood, so I guess that was good.

Enjoy your baby, These are cherished moments, and the both of you will do just fine if you relax and let her call the shots for right now. She will not starve herself. Good luck....

If this is just recent. Is she running a fever or favoring one side? Could be her ears. As for her teeth try some Oragel right before feeding to numb her gums also a wonderful thing to use is a tablet called Teething Tablets made by Hyland's its homeopathic you can get it at the drug store possibly others I've only found it at Rite Aide so far. It has worked great with all 3 of my boys. Good luck and don't worry things will get better.

T. Just relax girl she is starting to ween herself from you. Have you started to Introduce her to solids yet. I breasst fed both of my children and my youngest one seemed to ween herself or not need my breast milk near as long as my oldest did . I started tyo slowly introduce solids around Six Months old .
I think you just Need to relax ok. I dont think you have anything to worry about.I think if soft solids arent being introduced then you may need to start thinking about it but othere then that girl just relax

Your baby is fussy because of gas. Gripe water is good for gassy babies or try giving her mylicon drops before she nurses.

Fear not! I nursed my son until he was just over a year - so he definitely had teeth & was teething. Your daughter's gums could be sore - but more likely, she is ready to change her schedule & she is ready to get down and play (especially if she is crawling). Go with her clues. At 7 months, she really only needs to nurse about 20 minutes total (5-10 mins on each side). If she only gets 15 minutes total, that is fine. Since she is probably on baby food by now, a lot of her nutrition is coming from there. Also, it is good to nurse every 4 hours or when she signals that she is ready. Takes a little time to understand her cues, but you will know.
If you still feel full after she nurses 15-20 minutes total - then pump. Save the milk for a rainy (or busy or travel) day. Or mix it with cereal.
Hope this helps. I applaud you for nursing. I think that is one of the best gifts we can give to our children and to ourselves.

Hi. It seems you have gotten good advice, but I was just wondering if you are feeding her solids before nursing or the other way around. Up until 1 year, the main nutrition they need is the milk. I always nursed my son first and waited about 45 minutes for it to digest, then gave him breakfast, lunch or dinner. It could also be that she has learned how to get her fill in the shorter amount of time. As they grow, they get faster at nursing and the time shortens. You also could pump the remaining milk after the feeding and freeze it for later if you'd like. This will keep your milk supply coming in at the same amount.

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