K.A. asks from Morris, AL on October 05, 2006
Breast Reduction Surgery - Morris,AL
I will be having breast reduction surgery on the 18th of this month. I was just wanting any advice from anyone that has had the surgery. I have never had a major surgery before and I think I am getting a little nervous. I have my husband, mother and mother-in-law to help with the kids, but my youngest is 11 months old and a momma's baby. I am a little worried about him, since I will not be able to pick him up for a while. Any advice or info would be very helpful. Thanks so much!
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So What Happened?™
Well, it has been a few days since the surgery and I am doing good. I am a little shocked on how much smaller they are and the cutting, but overall things are good. I have been getting alot of help with the kids which has been good. My husband has been awesome throughout the whole thing and I don't know what I could have done without him. I just can't wait until I am better and can go bra shopping. Thank you so much to everyone that responded with your experencies and info, it was all really helpful!!!
Does anyone remeber how long it took for the stiches to dissolve and the scars to fade? Just wanting to know from someone that has had it done before not just the doctor!
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S.E. answers from Norfolk on October 10, 2006
I personally have had the surgery and it was the best thing I ever did. Everyones pain tolerance level is different, but i truly only felt sore, not a whole lot of intense pain. I think you'll rebound faster than you think and will be able to do more also.
B.V. answers from Norfolk on October 06, 2006
You will be a little sore for a few weeks. I wasn't in much pain at all. I stopped using my pain meds 2 days after surgery! It'll be hard for your baby to understand, but it's temporary! It's the best thing you ever will do though! I totally don't regret having mine, and I was still able to breastfeed afterwards!!! Feel free to contact me if you have anymore questions. Do take with you to the hospital (for your ride home) a pillow to hold against you for bumps! Also, stock up on sports bras, ones that zip in the front are better for removing and adding gauze.
~B.
D.T. answers from Raleigh on October 06, 2006
I have but one question for you: IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR BOOBS MAY I HAVE THEM? :)
Seriously -- best of luck. I'm sure if you follow instructions and your family helps like they've promised, you'll get thru it in no time and be thrilled! :)
S.P. answers from Huntsville on October 06, 2006
Hi K.,
I quite a bit older than you (44), but I had reduction surgery years ago and am so glad I did. It is quite painful, I have to tell you that. No raising your arms over your head is harder than it sounds. Drying my hair was even a pain. You will get thru it and be happy in the end, but it was very uncomfortable. I slept in my recliner for weeks, so you might want to do that. It helped alot!! As for not picking up your little one, you're right, that's a no-no. My son was very small when I had my surgery and I just had him climb up to me. That will keep your closeness with your baby. I'll bet your 5 yr. old will be excited to help mommy too. If she or he is capable, let them help with your 11 month old. Can they carry your baby for you? just small distances maybe?
I wish you well!! I felt so much better after all the healing was done and you will too! Just hang in there!!! I'm here if you wanna chat.
S.
S. answers from Spartanburg on October 06, 2006
It will take about 2 weeks before the swelling will be reduced and you can really see what your new breasts will look like. I know people who have had breast enlargements and it was rather painful for about 3 weeks and then greatly diminished after that point. just listen to your doctor and follow his advise. you will be sore so make sure to talk to your children and let them know that mommy will be really sore and they have to be gentle with her, hopefully if you start now that will be ready for it when the 18th comes along. I wish you the best and pray your surgery goes well.
P.H. answers from Birmingham on October 06, 2006
I had this surgery six years ago and I don't regret a minute of it. When I had the surgery I had a 3 yr old daughter and my son had just turned 1 yrs old. I had been approved to have the surgery when I was 18 but was told to wait till I had kids.
It is a painful surgery and was worse than giving birth and I had two long labors. But it was worth every bit of the pain and soreness. After surgery in the room I could feel instant relief from my back.
I had to wear a bra contraption for two weeks and could not take a shower and had to take spit baths. My mom had to wash my hair over the kitchen sink since you can not get that area wet. You have to wear the bra wrap for two weeks without taking it off. After the two weeks I went back to the doctor and they took the stiches out and had to wear a special bra for two months.
You will be very sore and at first they will not be the size that they will eventual be. At first they will be really small and over time about a year they will come back. I loved it! I could go without a bra and no one noticed. Mine have stayed the same shape and size over the past five years.
Who is your doctor? I had two plastic surgeons. My main surgeon was Dr. Sharon Cowen at Montclair and the other surgeon was from St. Vincent's and I can't remember his name.
Let me know if you have any other questions! The surgeon is worth all of the pain and soreness. I can actual run now! Oh, my son was fine. We told him that I was hurt and that he could not sit with me. You will be in the hospital for a couple of days and then when you come home you will be in bed recovering. My mom was a huge help with the kids.
A.M. answers from Gadsden on October 09, 2006
Hey. I am a size 42ddd. I want to get the surgery done because i have 3 buldging disc and arthratic deteration of the lower joints in my back. I have a three year old little boy. Let me know how it goes and how you feel about it. I am only 22 but if i don't look into doing something about my back now, I may not have one left when I really need it.
A.
J.B. answers from Mobile on October 06, 2006
K. have you truely considered all the nerves that go to that area that will be damaged with a major surgery like this. I know that all the responses are positive and I do pray that you make a decision that you are comfortable with. But my husband is a Chiropractor and I see so many people that he has been able to help eleviate "back problems" without major surgery. Just something to consider. I send blessings your way.
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