K.R. asks from San Diego, CA on February 19, 2009
Breast Milk Decreasing - Help!
My son is just 11mo and I am trying to breast feed until 12mo or longer. I work 3d/wk so pump at work. He gets 2 bottles or sippy cups while I'm at work, 6 oz each. I am now only able to pump about 5 oz total at work so there is a large deficit. I was pumping an extra 1-3 oz after each morning feeding when I'm not at work, but that decreased today to a tiny trickle of < 1/2oz in 15 minutes. We already switched yesterday to 1/2 breast and 1/2 whole milk for one feeding when he's with the babysitter, but I still can't keep up. I tried fenugreek with no real difference. Any other recommendations? He's on 3 feedings now and sleeps through the night. Should I try pumping before I go to bed to simulate a 4th feeding and get more milk out? Or should I just give him whole milk on babysitter days + whatever I can pump?
Thanks for your help!
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Thank you to everyone for the advice and the reassurance that this is normal. I am now pumping before bed and after the morning feeding on nonwork days. Our son actually loves milk and takes an easy 8 oz daily (my daughter only took 1-2oz when we transitioned so I thought it might be a struggle). Since he is now over 11mo, I'll continue to BF 3 times a day when home and give him whatever I pump plus whole milk at the babysitter's for at least a few more weeks. I appreciate the advice to not devote excessive time to pumping and feeding. It really can take over and detract from enjoying the kids! Good luck to everyone else in the same situation and do what seems right for you and your baby. And I'm jealous of anyone who has a whole day to devote to breast feeding in bed - I haven't had that for 3 years!! Though I would do that if in the same situation with a baby under 6mo. Thanks again!
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B.N. answers from Los Angeles on February 20, 2009
Drinks lots of water & miso soup helps increase breast milk production (a friend told me that she had 3 to 4 cups a day and it really helped - you can get the packets at the grocery store in the "asian foods" section). My doc told me that at 1 year they can start whole milk. I started my son when he was in his 11th month - mixing it with formula to keep his vitamin intake up. He went onto milk alone once he started to eat a good variety of solid foods.
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D.M. answers from Los Angeles on February 19, 2009
I would suggest calling a lactation consultant...they are easy to find at most hospitals. When my supply started to drop, I got in touch with one at Providence St. Joe's in Burbank where I delivered and she gave me consultation and suggestions that helped our situation.
For me it was pump every two hours, and be consistent. This kicked my production up a notch, but not a whole lot. Also, she suggested I get a water jug and finish it throughout the day. Keeping hydrated is important to supply and eating well-balanced meals.
I tried so many supplements and none helped me...good Luck!
Deanna
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on February 19, 2009
Ask your Pediatrician and a Lactation Consultant.
Also, ask your Pediatrician if it is "okay" that he is starting whole milk already.
Then, ask how many ounces he should be drinking, per day, of Breastmilk. Then ask about the whole milk and how many ounces of that, OR, if he should go onto Formula... in light of your decreased breastmilk output.
At this age, my son for example was drinking more than 6 ounces per sitting. That was for breastmilk. Then at about 1 year old he self-weaned and went to Formula.
So, your baby now gets 3 feedings a day, but he sleeps through the night. That may mean that he is fine with the current quantity he is getting. BUT, since your breastmilk output is decreasing... AND since a growth-spurt is coming up (typically at 12 months), you NEED to make sure, he will be getting adequate amounts, still. Because, at growth-spurts... their intake needs INCREASES and they feed more frequently.
Next, how does your son act at the breast? Frustrated? Pulling off? Not getting enough? Or just staying there as a pacifier? This may indicate to you, what HIS needs are....
Next, are you hydrated enough and drinking enough water, to keep milk production consistent? Do you eat well? Are you stressed? Or, it may simply mean that your body is decreasing milk production because your son is decreasing his time at the breast (direct breast nursing is the best way to increase milk production).
Keep trying to pump as well and more frequently. It cant' hurt and may help with your production.
Just some ideas and things you might want to consider.
All the best,
Susan
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N.F. answers from Los Angeles on February 19, 2009
My lactation consultant gave me this advice: Pick ONE entire day where you are able to stay in bed from morning to night (with husband or relative help) and pump every hour on the hour for 7 minutes. Stay in bed relaxing, watch movies, eat in bed, etc. She suggested doing this every 2-3 months to maintain your milk flow. I will be trying it as soon as I have a 'free' day at home. Good luck wish you the best.
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L.S. answers from San Diego on February 20, 2009
Crazy! I'm having this same problem. I don't think it is a supply issue for me because when I nurse my daughter she is always satisfied. I just can't pump as much as I used to. I'm also menstruating for the third time since delivery so I think part of it is hormones and timing (she's ten months now.)
Don't give formula, there is no point now. Ask your pediatrician about whole milk supplement. I have been adding in pumping sessions left and right. I used to pump three times a day and lately it's been five. At her 5pm nursing I pump on the left and feed on the right and then again at 9:30 before I go to bed.
I will also pump over the weekend to build up a small surplus.
I know it is frustrating though and I feel so frustrated with my body, like it is betraying me.
Best of Luck! Hope things start flowing.
A.N. answers from Las Vegas on February 20, 2009
Pumping isn't as efficient at getting milk out as a baby, so if you nurse extra (take a weekend and nurse every couple of hours), and try to get in an extra nursing session or two a day, your milk should start to increase. As someone else mentioned, eat and drink a lot. You can also cut back on solids when your son is around you so he takes in more breast milk while nursing. Once you get your milk supply strong again, pumping should go better. Check out this site for more tips: http://www.kellymom.com/bf/supply/low-supply.html#increase
D.C. answers from Grand Junction on February 20, 2009
There is a lot of good advise here, but as a full-time working mother who nursed for 8 months, let me put in my two cents. If you've tried for several weeks to keep up the milk production and your child is ok to eat some solids and drink milk, then please don't feel guilty about calling it quits after 11 good months. After I returned to work full time when my daughter was 3 months old things went well for about 3 more months, then my production begain to drop. With all the things I tried and the extra pumping I did, my life became all about producing milk and not about spending wonderful time with my daughter. I thought she may miss out if I stopped nursing, but I KNEW she'd miss out if her mom was busy pumping all the time and stressed just thinking about "keeping up production." Feeding time became relaxed like it used to be and I used more of my time to play with her. She's 2 now and suffered no ill effects from switching to formula at 8 months, then to milk at 12. Take in all the advice from these ladies, your pediatrician and even a lactation consultant, but in the end observe your child and listen to your own instincts as a mother.
D.C. answers from Los Angeles on February 19, 2009
Hi K.,
I had to travel for work right the week before my daughter turned one, and I wasn't able to pump as frequently as I could at home. I noticed a dramatic drop off in supply at that point (I had been able to pump 3-4 oz per session before, and I've never pumped more than 2 oz per session since). I think your body knows that it's been a year and they are ready for something else to take it's place. I had a stash of breastmilk in the freezer, so I was able to use that up to keep her on breastmilk until 11 1/2 months, and then I switched to giving her whatever I pumped + whole milk.
One doctor's opinion I read said he really thinks fenugreek is most effective only during the first six weeks after birth. I started it up again around 11 months, but I only noticed about a 1 oz increase, and even that wasn't consistent.
I read somewhere that their digestive systems mature at 9 months, so you don't have to worry about giving him whole milk. I think it depends on you - if you want to try adding an extra session at night to build up a stash, go for it. If you want to just give him whatever you pump + whole milk, that's fine too. Don't stress out about it, you've done a great job keeping him on breastmilk this far!
B.N. answers from Los Angeles on February 20, 2009
Drinks lots of water & miso soup helps increase breast milk production (a friend told me that she had 3 to 4 cups a day and it really helped - you can get the packets at the grocery store in the "asian foods" section). My doc told me that at 1 year they can start whole milk. I started my son when he was in his 11th month - mixing it with formula to keep his vitamin intake up. He went onto milk alone once he started to eat a good variety of solid foods.
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