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Braces - What Age Is Right?

My daughter is 11 and thinks her teeth are just terrible and thinks she needs braces. If you compare her 5th grade picture with my 5th grade picture, our teeth are exactly the same. I will admit my teeth were pretty jacked up then but who's weren't. I never had braces and my teeth are completely straight. I told her that we would wait until the summer after her 6th grade year and then decide from there. (give it more time to straighten out by themselves).

Today, she had a regular checkup at the dentist (my husband took her) and the dentist proceeds to tell her that "she is an orthodontist's dream). He said she will need major work to get her teeth straight. WHAT???

I think that 11 years old is way too young. She still has a mouthful of baby teeth for christs sake. He even pulled two of her baby teeth to make room for her big teeth and said they may have to pull up to 4 more.

I just think this is way out of line. If I would have brought her I don't think I would have let them pull her teeth, I sometimes feel that they do this for $ and don't really need to.

Now she is even more adamant about getting them and I think its just nuts.

What are your thoughts.

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Wow... thanks for all the responses. I think I am going to take her to a couple orthodondists and see what they say. I will keep you posted!

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I loved the beauty of an expander and early orthodontics!! It was so much easier than when I had it all through high school. I felt I owed her the treatment that was easiest on us.

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My daughter was younger than that when she had her referral to the orthodontist. She had consultations for a couple years before she actually had her braces put on. They do braces younger now than when I was a kid. My daughter had to have a couple pulled and the last one finally came in about a 1 1/2 years into having braces.

She had them put on at 12 and taken off this spring at 14. Personally, younger is easier. They are more likely to wear the bands, brush them often, avoid the "bad" foods and wear headgear (fortunately she didn't). It was still cool because her classmates had them too. She was never teased.

I would go to a consultation or two (should be free until you actually put them on).

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My daughter is 12 and she has had her's on now for about 6 months. They can tell in the xrays how the adult teeth are going to come in and adjust things to make room for them so they come in correctly. This is what they are doing with my daughter. She had to get a few baby teeth pulled before they were put on as well. I am so glad she has hers on now, that way they will be off before she starts high school.

Get a second opinion but, if she needs them........the sooner the better!

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Shop for an orthodontist rather than getting angry at the dentist. And your daughter's input here does matter, doesn't it? She is at an age where she is going to be only more sensitive about her looks -- not less sensitive.

Many kids now get orthodontics way before 11. This is because by 11 or 12 their mouths and skulls are well on the way to being formed and "set," especially girls, who mature and stop growing younger than boys.

It is easier on the child to start the process in stages when the child is younger. If the roof of the mouth (palate) needs expanding, for instance, because it's too small, it is MUCH easier to insert a palate expander and stretch that palate earlier than later. I have known kids as young as second and third graders with palate expanders, then they moved into "phase one" braces as needed (often just for the top front teeth only), then had a year or even more "off" braces before a second phase of more extensive braces. This is done so that things can be fixed at the right times - instead of all at once, with greater pain for the kid. This was my daughter's pattern -- palate expander in third grade, stage one braces in third-fourth grade, currently no braces but they're coming back, possibly this school year (sixth).

If your daughter is 11 and still has a mouth full of baby teeth she may indeed need more pulled. My daughter is 11 and had two baby molars pulled two weeks ago. They were firm and going nowhere but the permanent teeth were entirely ready to descend and did so right away -- two weeks later the holes are nearly filled, because the permanent teeth were so ready to come in. It's important to get "stuck" baby teeth out of the way if needed so that adult teeth can descend. It's not at all unusual for these stuck teeth to get pulled.

I got braces at about 12 and it was painful. Starting earlier and going in stages -- instead of one massive, every-tooth, full-metal-jacket set of braces at an older age -- surely saves kids physical pain and spreads out your costs too, possibly.

Why the resistance? You're waiting for her teeth to "straighten out by themselves" but they aren't necessarily going to do that.

See an orthodontist, actually see several and compare what they say and what their treatment plans would be. Don't go just by what a dentist said; go to the experts. Some will be more aggressive about braces and pulling teeth, others less aggressive. Find one you can work with. But waiting and waiting won't gain you anything if she truly needs braces. I know kids who are 11 and 12 and 13 and their teeth are a mess and not on the road to "straightening themselves out," and when I see them I wonder why their folks haven't looked into orthodontics.

By the way, this is not all cosmetic or about her looks -- you get that, don't you? If there are issues with a bite problem, where her teeth and jaw don't align properly, she would have a lifetime of other dental issues if it's not fixed.

No, I'm not an orthodontist or married to one! But I do think it's worth doing when it's needed.

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nope not too young. Actually the older you are the more set your teeth can get and the harder it is to move them. You say your teeth are straight right now without braces? Consider yourself extremely lucky! That almost never, ever happens. I was a dental assistant and worked for an orthodontist before becoming a stay at home mom. So I'll tell you that we have lots of kids around that age in braces. And to be honest even if her teeth aren't that bad, what about her bite? Her jaw? These are things people don't even think about or know what to look for if you haven't been to dental school. If the dentist says she needs braces I'm sure she does. And the dentist won't get money for her braces the orthodontist does so I don't think he's trying to scam you. And if she wants braces that's great! She will take care of them, clean her teeth well and wear the right bands, head gear or whatever she many need to help her get in and out of braces fast. Do you daughter a favor!!! Get her the beautiful smile she deserves!!!!!

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This is going to vary for everyone.
Everyone's mouth is different.
I started braces in the 5th grade (my teeth were every where - I had a gap between my front teeth that I could fit my thumb through), had them through 11th grade and they had to pull 8 adult teeth (wisdom and bicuspids) to get everything to fit in my mouth.
When we took our son to the dentist when he was in 2nd grade and I saw his panoramic xray - his mouth looked like a traffic jam - all these teeth forming with no room for them to come down.
He was always on the early side with his teeth - first to get them, first to lose them.
His 12 yr old molars came out when he was 9.
In the 4th grade he started with an expander, then he had braces for 5th and 6th grade.
The expander gave him all the room he needed in his jaws and with that room it was fairly trivial to get everything to line up nice and straight.
I'm so glad his braces were over in 2 years compared to what I went through for 7 years.
He's finished with them before he's out of middle school!
When they are young and their pallet (roof of the mouth) is still soft (it hasn't calcified yet), the expander can shape the jaw bones as they are growing and it's fairly painless.
If you wait until the pallet is hardened - it's much more painful to move the teeth and you've missed the window of opportunity to shape the jaws.
If you get the teeth straight early - you set them up for dental health for the rest of their lives.
You don't want to skimp when it comes to taking care of something so important.
Take her to an orthodontist now.

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She wants them and your dentist is indicating she needs them. The next step is to take her to the orthodontist and see what she recommends. Although the "right" age varies, chances are pretty good that she'll need them now.

And, fwiw, I got mine on in 3rd grade and had them removed by 6th grade. That would be on at 8 or 9 years of age and off (done!) by 11 or 12yo. And I'm old, so this was a long time ago.

Get them done now (if that's your orthodontist's recommendation). Particularly if your daughter is really self conscious about her teeth.

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Ditto Jo W, and I will add that what your dentist said is probably true. I mean, what's in it for him to lie? It's not like he's going to make any money off of it.
Until your daughter sees an orthodontist you really have no idea what she needs. Get some referrals and get more than one opinion. She may need a spacer or expander first, and if you wait too long the problem could get worse and more expensive. My daughter needed an expander when she was ten because her teeth were spaced so close together that it was affecting the coming in of her adult teeth. This was NOT visible to the naked eye, she looked just fine. But because it was caught early on by my dentist she may now not need braces at all, and if she does they won't be on very long, no more than a year.
Don't do it because your daughter wants it, but for sure do it if it's necessary! There's nothing more unattractive than a mouth full of f'd up teeth :(

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I loved the beauty of an expander and early orthodontics!! It was so much easier than when I had it all through high school. I felt I owed her the treatment that was easiest on us.

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This article is a few years old, but it still gives good info about the specific issues that are best to treat earlier in age. (Basically, protruding teeth, or an underbite.) Other then that, you'll probably save yourself some money getting them a little older. Understand, it's not common at all for pretty crowded, overlapping and crooked teeth to correct themselves. Underbite and overbites simply don't correct themselves. If she has an underbite (or protruding), she probably should get started soon. I understand why she is so eager. I had terrible teeth growing up. I wanted braces so very badly. My parents never could afford it. Neither could I, until I was an adult. I got them off about 5 years ago. I can't tell you what my teeth being fixed has done for me. I REALLY think my high school years, I would have been happier and more confident, had my teeth been fixed. Just don't make her wait too long, mom.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/33434473/ns/health-childrens_...

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ETA: it is MUCH easier to expand mouths while they are still growing and it doesn't hurt as much as it would if you waited until she's a teenager. yeah - braces have come a long way - but still - my son's jaw was fixed while he was growing (it was short - so an expander was put in and helped push the jaw out WHILE he was growing).
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My son was 9 when he got his first set of braces on. His teeth were pretty messed up. He had them off when he was 10.5...yes. We know a second set is necessary. However - I can tell you that from the panoramic that was done BEFORE he had braces and the one that was just done in April from the dentist - it helped A LOT in the way his teeth are coming in!!!

I think it's wrong that the dentist said she was an "orthodontist's dream" in front of her. Not only does that make her MORE self-conscious of her teeth - it gives her credence for her desires.

I would go to two or three orthodontists that come highly recommended - use Angie's List if you have to - or talk to parents at your kids school who have had braces to see who they used....

Then make a decision after you weigh in all of the opinions from the ortho's. DO NOT tell them you have seen anyone else. Tell them you would like their opinion on her teeth.

My 10 year will be getting braces later this year. Our ortho wanted to wait until two more teeth came out.

GOOD LUCK!!!

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