H.M. asks from Lawton, OK on August 02, 2007
Boy or Girl? (How to Tell ... Myths)
Okay, some of you will probably think I'm silly but that's okay. I'm 11 weeks pregnant and of course, I don't know if I'm having a boy or a girl. It will be probably be a couple months before I find out from the doctor. But I know there are myths on how you can tell. I don't know how accurate any of them are but would like to try them just for fun. I tried that Chinese calendar thing and it said a girl. But I was using a book on how to conceive a boy or girl with my last one, was trying for a girl and got a girl. This time we were trying for a boy. Okay now this is really going to sound silly. I purchased a bird a couple years ago and asked the lady if it was a girl or boy. She put a pencil on a piece of string in front of the bird and it started to move a certain direction and she told me it was a girl. How about myths about twins? I've only gained 3 pounds but I feel huge, maybe it is just because it is the 3rd pregnancy. Anyway.... I would love to hear any myths anyone has heard. Thanks, H. ^_^
So What Happened?™
Well, It's a boy! I did the pencil on a string test and it said boy. The ultrasound last month confirmed it. I didn't have any morning sickness with my girls but got sick twice this time. The heartbeat was slower at the doctors office and he kicks a lot more than my girls did. Plus I felt him kick several weeks before I was supposed to. I feel like I'm carrying lower as well. I read that japanese thing that tells you what your baby will be. Well, it was wrong! Anyway, that is about it. Thank you all for your input.
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C.K. answers from Tulsa on August 02, 2007
I have been told morning sickness is a good sign. None to very little with a boy and extreme with a girl. I know I had a boy and very little. My friend had a girl and was sick the whole time almost.
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V.B. answers from Oklahoma City on August 03, 2007
The string thing does work, but let me tell you a little something about it. First you will want to tie a paperclip, needle etc to the end of the string. You need to find the yes and no in the string. Ask it is my name (Blank) now whatever way it circles is your yes, then ask it a yes or no question that you know the answer is no. You should have a yes and a no for the string, the ask it if you are having a girl and see what way it turns, then ask the same about a boy. The question must always be yes or no though. You should have one yes and one no, then you will know what gender your baby is. I actually use this method for alot of things and the it has always worked, but i have an actual penduleum. Give it a try then write the answer down, do it with mulitple things in your life and see if the answers come true, and then let us know.
S.F. answers from Tulsa on August 02, 2007
Hi H.!
I have heard some myths you may want to try. Hold a pendant necklace above your belly while you are lying down.....if it makes circles, then you will have a girl. If it goes back and forth you will have a boy. However, this is DEFINITELY just a fun myth because my friend tried it and she thought she was having a girl....well it turned out she has a beautiful boy. Either way, I am sure you are excited about becoming a mom again. Best wishes and have fun!!!
A.W. answers from Oklahoma City on August 03, 2007
Chocolate! If you can't get enough you are haveing a girl. I'm talking middle of the night you have to have a Hershey bar kinda thing. My best friend told me about this when she found my stash of kisses in my work bag and told me I was haveing a girl and it turned out to be true. Also my sister had called me and asked me about her unusual craveing for chocolate while she was pregnant (she is the kinda person who eats a candy bar once a year maby) and I told her it had to be a girl and was the only one in the family who had it right (everyone else used some of the other myths like how she carried, the pendant thing and heart rate)
Let us know which ones turned out to be true.
S.H. answers from Topeka on August 03, 2007
Sorry I don't have any others than what are listed here. I do know that the heart rate does NOT matter. They did a study on it and there was only a difference of about 1 or 2 beats per minute. Also you can't really depend on the morning sickness thing because I have a boy and a girl and didn't have morning sickness with either one of them. Well have fun with the other methods. God bless!
R.P. answers from Wichita on August 03, 2007
hey H., i know you probably already know this but you can tell by the heart rate as well. if the heart rate is i think 156 and below its a boy and if it between 156 and 170s its a girl. so the higher the heart rate a girl the lower a boy. god bless and good luck. R.
A.Z. answers from Oklahoma City on August 03, 2007
The only one I know of is the needle and thread one that's been mentioned already a couple of times. For the most part it is correct. Two examples: My friend did it to me and what i was told was correct and Her mom did it to a friend of hers and was correct as well. The twist: Her mom found out about a baby that she never knew of in the process. Yeah, her friend had lost the baby during birth and had never told anyone about it. I can't guarantee it's a 100% correct but you can always give it a shot. Goodluck and Congratulations.
C.K. answers from Tulsa on August 02, 2007
I have been told morning sickness is a good sign. None to very little with a boy and extreme with a girl. I know I had a boy and very little. My friend had a girl and was sick the whole time almost.
S.G. answers from Oklahoma City on August 07, 2007
I read somewhere that if you trip during your pregnancy, you are having a boy. I didn't read it until after I had our son. I did trip in the first trimester, before I even knew I was pregnant. I was just walking to my car at work & hit the ground for no apparent reason... :-)
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