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"BodyWorld" Inappropriate for 3.5 Year Old?

So my husband wants to take our kids (3.5 and 2) to BodyWorld at the California Science Center. For those of you not familiar with the exhibit, it is a travelling collection of real cadavers that have been "plasticized", or preserved, to demonstrate the various muscles/bones/organs in detail. There are a lot of displays of people with their skin removed posing in different activities: playing chess, throwing a frisbee, riding a horse. They also have displays with organs protruding (intestines, liver, etc). I know adults who have been disturbed by the displays. I went to the exhibit when it was in town three years ago (without the kid). I feel my daughter is too young to view such graphic displays. I acknowledge that it is very educational and fascinating, but the eyes bugging out... it's the stuff that 3-year-olds' nightmares are made of. My daughter already asks questions like "What's under my skin?" and "What do muscles look like?". She eats a chicken drumstick and is fascinated. Should I take her to BodyWorld to answer her questions in a graphic nature, or am I setting myself up for middle-of-the-night screaming and horrifying flashbacks?

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Thank you all for your input. I am going to the library tomorrow to see if I can find some books that may be a good intro for my daughter. I'll try to study her reaction and judge whether BodyWorld will be appropriate. My instinct still says no... but hey, three-year-olds surprise us all the time, don't they?

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Maybe you could borrow a copy of Grey's Anatomy (not the tv show!) from the library or one of the other anatomy books that have clear plastic overlays of muscles and bones, etc, and judge by her response. My daughter is only 4 months old, but if she was 3 or 4 years old, I would not hesitate to take her. I think your reaction will direct your child's response. If you say wow,how cool, she'll probably be fascinated. Have fun! I'll be interested to see other mom's opinions.

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my high school daughter just went and stated that this is not an exhibit for small kids. she saw several field trips of elementary school kids whom she felt were not mature enough to view this exhibit. my daughter is 17 and will be starting her pre med studies in sept.

Yes, I think it will be VERY disturbing to a young child-even to some adults. As a healthcare professional I had two anatomy dissection courses and I really think NO CHILD NO MATTER HOW CURIOUS (or how "gifted" her parents think she is) should see this exhibit.In fact, I really can't think of anything more inappropriate than this exhibit. How about getting some books at one of the children's bookstores to explain what is under her skin (Children's Book World on Pico or Storyopolis in Studio City). There are books like "How Things Work". The people behind the desk at children's book world are very helpful.

Don't take your small children. We're going to go to the exhibition (I've been putting it off as long as possible) and we're not taking our son. Go with your gut feeling, you know what is best.
Best wishes,
C.

ABSOLUTELY NOT OK FOR KIDS THAT AGE. I've seen the show a number of times and it's quite remarkable and distrubing at the same time. There are all sorts of exibits at the museum that are age appropriate, but unless you want to guarantee that your child has endless nightmares avoid this show until they 10 or so.

I am definitely not an expert but the one thing I would consider is that this information might only be scary or disturbing because of the meaning that we assign to it. For a child that has no context of pain and horror it could really be interesting and informative. Why not try checking out a book from the library about human anatomy, look at some pictures together, talk about them and see how she reacts ....

I saw the exhibit a few years ago in Los Angeles, and my husband saw it last week in Las Vegas. We both found it fascinating. I think that it's OK to take the child, esp. if you describe it to the child beforehand and the child expresses interest in seeing it. If you act calm about the experience, it's likely that your child will, too.

Regards,
L. E

To tell you the truth I really believe that this may be a little to much for children to handle. My daughter is facinated by the human body and I have even bought her anatomy books that she herself picked up. I am very open with my daughter about death due to her father being in Iraq even with all that I think my daughter is to young for that exibit let alone at your kids age they are very inpresional at that age you may just get screaming nightmares. Especially when they do not understand death and life.

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