K.C. asks from Cleveland, OH on June 10, 2009
Body Odor at 8 Years Old??!!
Help! My daughter is 8 1/2 and her one armpit has started smelling with definite BO.
I didn't hit puberty until late, 13-14. Is it possible she has begun or can you have stinky pits without the rest of development happening for years?
Obviously we are washing with soap everyday now. She started showering by herself 6 months ago so she may have been missing spots I didn't realize.
I don't know if we should start on deodorant, it seems way too soon. She hasn't started developing in other ways but with me it all happened together so I'm not sure.
Thanks for any help/advice you can offer I am the oldest and all my friends kids are younger so this is new territory for me.
So What Happened?™
Thank you to everyone, we got her deodorant that is aluminum and paraben free. I just had this thought that puberty had begun and appreciate all the comments!
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S.F. answers from Fort Wayne on June 11, 2009
Everyone develops at different rates. My step-daughter developed the need for deordorant anti-perspirant at the same age. I think it is completely appropriate for her to use it. This doesn't have anything to do with age. This is a hormonal change. Some of my friends didn't begin their periods and develop breasts until late middle school. The girls in my family received their menstration around age 11. I wore a size C cup at 11 years old. I was an average size child and considered thin. Everyone is different.
C.F. answers from Columbus on June 11, 2009
Both of my children started using deodorant at 8 years old. They didn't have any other early signs of puberty (they are 12 and 16 now). I buy them unscented deodorant.
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L.G. answers from Terre Haute on June 11, 2009
More than likely she just doesn't wash as well as you washed her. My daughter is six and since I went back to work recently has begun bathing herself on the nights that I don't get home before bathtime since my husband isn't comfortable bathing her. If I work two or three nights in a row I can definitely smell the difference. I would suggest getting her some scented body wash and a pouf of her own since she's more likely to actually wash all her parts with the pouf and smelly good stuff.
If it is early puberty, which has been known to happen to some kids due to either genetics or environmental factors, you should also be noticing other signs such as breast development and the beginnings of patchy body hair. I wouldn't start with deodorant until she has underarm hair in any case.
If more attention to detail with washing doesn't solve the problem I would make an appointment with her pediatrician to have her hormone levels and things checked out, it might be a sign of some kind of chemical imbalance.
T.P. answers from Indianapolis on June 11, 2009
Hi K.,
I had stinky pitts at 8 and started wearing deorderant. She needs to wear deorderant. I'm at work and took a survey to see how old everyone was and the range was from 6 to 10 so she's right on. You were late fortunately. :) You don't want her to be embarrassed or teased for having stinky pitts so deorderant is in order. Your little girl is growing up.
P.R. answers from Indianapolis on June 11, 2009
It is time for anti-perspirants or deordorants. My daughter was in bras by the middle of third grade. Had the odor problem for 5 months before she began getting her arm pit hair. My cousin's daughter had the odor problem for a year before she started other signs of developement and my 11 year old grandson started using deordorant a year and a half ago and just started getting arm pit hair about two months ago.
Natural course of aging.
B.S. answers from Cincinnati on June 11, 2009
My daughters had to start using deodorant at 9-- that shocked me.... I was surprised. (makes you feel old, doesn't it? -- to have a child on deodorant-- Just wait till your son starts shaving!)
C.F. answers from Columbus on June 11, 2009
Both of my children started using deodorant at 8 years old. They didn't have any other early signs of puberty (they are 12 and 16 now). I buy them unscented deodorant.
L.M. answers from Cleveland on June 11, 2009
I would definitely get her a natural deodorant and have her use it daily.
M.M. answers from Cincinnati on June 11, 2009
Both of my children started using deodorant by 7 or 8 years old. I buy the natural deo without aluminum products in it since it is suspected that they are bad for us. It is sometimes a trial to get them to remember it, but it is better than them being made fun of for smelling bad. If you are concerned, call your doctor, but I think I did and was told it was not an abnormal thing (sorry, it has been a while and I can't remember exactly what was said, but it comes down to it being within the parameters of normal).
S.W. answers from Columbus on June 10, 2009
I noticed a similar phenomenon with my stepdaughter when she was about 7-8. When she first came to live with us full-time, she had already been told to start using deoderant. I thought that was silly for a child so young to use deoderant, but when she stopped, there was a definite increase in the smelliness! At this point, we have her using a very light-smelling (made for teens) deoderant, and I think it has made a world of difference.
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