M.Q. asks from Long Beach, CA on October 29, 2008
Birthday Party Ideas for a 5 Year Old Boy
My son's 5th birthday is coming up in December. I would love to have a party for him but I'm not sure what to do. I have a limited budget and a fairly large family! I live in a triplex so my space is limited as well. I have a small backyard and I'm expecting approximately 28 guests (14 childen/14 adults). If you have any suggestions for places to have a party, besides at home, that would be helpful too. Home party ideas are also welcomed! Actually, any suggestions or ideas would be great! Thank you :)
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S.F. answers from Reno on October 30, 2008
Hi M.,
Without a doubt, the best b'day party I threw for my son was at the local pizza parolor. I live in a small, one-horse town and this pizza parlor is the "hang out" spot. We ordered a bunch of pizzas, got a couple rolls of quarters for the video games and the kids (and parents) had a blast.
Good luck!
C.J. answers from Honolulu on October 30, 2008
I would go to Rumors, or Dave and Busters, Hard Rock, Planet Hollywood or Chuckey Cheese's. It ranges from $10-15 per person.
M.C. answers from Honolulu on October 30, 2008
5 year olds will be happy with so little, so don't try to make this too big of a deal. I usually have my parties at the park with a playground, bring some finger foods (have the party from 2-4 so you don't have to feed them a meal) and cupcakes and a pinata. Make an activity out of decorating paper bags to use for the pinata stuff. Another idea is to have it at McDonalds - my brother did this for his son. I think they had 8 kids and it cost them $50 or some other small amount. The kids all had a blast at the playplace tube-climby-thing. They got to eat their happy meals, play a few little McDonalds games and eat cake. No cleaning up, no preparing food, no decorating needed! Have a fun party!
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C.J. answers from Honolulu on October 30, 2008
I would go to Rumors, or Dave and Busters, Hard Rock, Planet Hollywood or Chuckey Cheese's. It ranges from $10-15 per person.
S.H. answers from Honolulu on October 29, 2008
Since you have a limited budget, which many of us do, even $200 can be a lot, and especially since your son's B-day is in December... when everyone will have budgets to consider in light of the Holidays.
For us, my daughter just had her B-day party at Chuck E Cheese... it's a good package deal. But, even for us, the costs were unaffordable.. and luckily, my daughter's Aunty "treated" her for the party and paid for it. She is a really nice and generous Aunty who has no kids of her own.. so this was her way of "helping" us with the expenses. Sometimes, Grandma will pitch in too.... mind you, we don't "ask" them to do this.. but they are just very generous.
Perhaps, have a party at a public park... and maybe make it a potluck?
Or, if one of your family members, who may have a bigger yard space... can "volunteer" for having the party at their place?
For party goodies... www.orientaltrading.com has LOTS of party things, for good prices, in bulk.
And for activities, have several balls... since kids end up always playing with balls in all kinds of ways... and then maybe have a fun "team" type games... or geared down for kids 'adult' type games... or egg on a spoon games running relay games etc. Relay games or any type of running games are always fun for kids AND adults.
Good luck!
Susan
L.L. answers from Los Angeles on October 31, 2008
You already have lots of great advice, so I have little to add. I too have a large family, limited space, and a tight budget. In December it is hard to try to have it outdoors. Maybe you could ask a friend or relative who owns a larger home to help you out. If not, maybe you could check out if your local park has a room you can rent for a small fee. (Some places it is as little as $50, partially refundable)
Entertainment - What does your son like to do for fun? What about pin the tail on the donkey? Play-dough? Painting? Car race? Basketball toss into a trash can or basket on the ground?
Good luck. I hope it all turns out well.
T.G. answers from Los Angeles on October 29, 2008
Not sure where you live; however, we just had a party for our 5 year old at "pump it up." It was great because all the adults were playing too. You can go to pumpitupparty.com and see if they have a place near you. The cost is about $350 but includes almost everything you need (you need to buy the cake). I think you can have up to 20 kids (adults were free). Another idea that is a little cheaper would be to check out Chuck E. Cheeses. My kids love going there to play the games and I know they have party packages. Finally you can always do a park party. If it is mostly family coming you can do a potluck for food, and the kids will have the playground to run around and play. You may want to bring a fun game, (twister?) or even some kites for extra fun. Hope this helps! Happy Birthday.
T.G. answers from Las Vegas on October 30, 2008
M.,
Hello! There are tons of ideas you can find on the internet, but the websites I use the most are: www.familyfun.com,birthdaypartyideas.com and coolkidparties.com. There are so many options and on the birthday party ideas they have tons of ideas listed with details given. Thank you,T.
L.M. answers from Los Angeles on October 30, 2008
M., you've received a lot of good ideas and I really don't have anything more to add. The park is always fun for the kids and they'll love it. The beach is an excellent idea too but both are kind of risky in December. 14 kids and 14 adults is a lot. Maybe one of the adults coming has a bigger space at their home. You should definitely ask one of your family members whom space is not so limited if you could do it at their place. Offer to come early and set up and of course to clean up. Just tell them that you're thinking your space may not be big enough for everyone. I'm sure someone will let you do it. If not then to the park or beach you go. The kids will have fun being outside. If it's mostly family coming to the party, tell them you'll supply hotdogs and hamburgers for the party and ask everyone to bring a side dish. For non-family members just ask them to come. Good luck and have fun.
L.S. answers from Los Angeles on October 30, 2008
You might check out your local gymnastics center. Many of them offer birthday party deals where they provide a couple of "instructors" who lead the kids through a warm up and many gynmastics activities. I did this for all my kids when they turned 5, it was a great "active" party, I didn't have to do a thing except provide cake and refreshments in the party room, and all the 5-year old guests were worn out when they went home! All the adult guests could watch and take photos, it worked out really well.
I don't remember what it costs, but when you add up all the supplies for games, time, and things you would have to put together for a park party, it might be worth the money to just be able to relax and enjoy your sons' birthday!
M.C. answers from Honolulu on October 30, 2008
5 year olds will be happy with so little, so don't try to make this too big of a deal. I usually have my parties at the park with a playground, bring some finger foods (have the party from 2-4 so you don't have to feed them a meal) and cupcakes and a pinata. Make an activity out of decorating paper bags to use for the pinata stuff. Another idea is to have it at McDonalds - my brother did this for his son. I think they had 8 kids and it cost them $50 or some other small amount. The kids all had a blast at the playplace tube-climby-thing. They got to eat their happy meals, play a few little McDonalds games and eat cake. No cleaning up, no preparing food, no decorating needed! Have a fun party!
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