R.L. asks from Patchogue, NY on October 19, 2007
Birthday Party at Home for 9 Year Old?
I have never hosted a "kid" party. I am considering hosting a (BBQ or pizza) party at my home but am not sure about entertainment, games and I am nervous about having so many children in my back yard.(about 25 - 30) Should I hire entertainment? What kind of games are best? Should we open gifts at the party? Perhaps I should just go with the Chuckie Cheese or Boomers party, the kids seem to love that. Any advice?? Thank you
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D.K. answers from New York on October 21, 2007
I have had 2 parties where I rented a large moonwalk for the kids. That is all the entertainment you need. The kids love it. But I only invited about 8 boys - more than 8 the kids would have to rotate out of the moonwalk. If you have a huge backyard you can get 2 different types of moonwalk.
However 25 -30 kids is a bit much and for that many kids I might prefer going to a Sports/Games or ChuckECHeese place.
D.
H.S. answers from Rochester on October 20, 2007
I have a 12 & 13 year old. Over the years of throwing home parties I have discovered:
"Kids just want to be together"
Parties can be pretty nonstressful with this in mind. Free playtime first...games....cake & ice cream, gifts...free playtime (they will automatically incorporate the gifts into the playtime)...it's easy, it's fun, it's inexpensive!
:)
H.
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D.B. answers from Albany on October 21, 2007
Have a Young at ART party! Tie die Tshirts and have the kids decorate them. Have fabric paints and gems and markers all that set out...when they are done hang the shirts on a cloths line to dry...
The party can be Pizza and Punch easy. Games can include the theme of ART have a game of pictionary or some kind of art game-
Hope that helps...
D.S. answers from New York on October 20, 2007
my dd is only 2... but i did host her party here. although, it was only 3 other toddlers and about 10 other adults. we borrowed a bouncy house and i had activities planned, but with that age they weren't that interested. it was mostly just free play, eat cake/snacks, free play, gifts, free play.
i do remember reading somewhere that a parent had the limit of only the same amount of kids arriving as the child's age. Is it so big because you're inviting his whole class?
i definitely 2nd the idea of hiring a clown. they had a clown at a cousin's wedding for the kids and they seemed to love it!
and also i 2nd the idea of including your son in the planning.
maybe a pirate theme complete with dressing up? and then you could pin the tail on the "ship" or something else pirate related?
good luck! let us know how it goes..
E.F. answers from New York on October 19, 2007
Hello R.,
my daughter is now 7 years old, and I have always had her birthday parties at my house. I find that holding the party at my hosue cuts down on the stress and the cleanup/preperation time. The other benefit is that people are free to stay as long as they want. I suggest you ask people if htey could bring food (family members, close friends; things like potatoe salad, macaroni salad, cut veggies, etc) to help cut down the cost. I usually do some sort of home craft, like making masks, or puppets, or whatever, and then allow the kids to run around and have fun. Pinatas are always good, kids always like those. Also, I was jsut at a party at my aunt's house for my second cousin, and my aunt had tied strings to a clothesline, adn tied apples at the other end of hte string, had everyone kneel on the ground, with their hands behind their backs, and she swung the clothesline, making the strings swing as well. The object was to catch the apple in your mouth (like bobbing for apples, without water), and the winner got some sort of prize. Also, if the child is into sports, why not do a sports game? Football, baseball, soccer, whatever? Split hte kids and adults into teams, have them pick numbers inorder to have nobody get picked "last", and see who wins? the winning team can get some sort of small prize or whatever. You can also make cupcakes, and have the kids decorate them themselves, or ice cream sundae's. Scavenger hunts are always fun. It is october, so some sort of halloween cosutme party would be cool too, or maybe get some small pumpkins, and have hte kids decorate them. Sharades is always a fun game, or perhaps do your own version of who's line is it anyway, where you can write scenerios and put them in a bag or hat, and have people pick from the bag, whatever htey get they have to act out, and they can choose other people to help with their scene, the rest of the group has to try and guess what it is they are acting out.
If I think of anything else I will repost. I hope this helps.
A.C. answers from New York on October 22, 2007
I have thrown birthday parties for about seven years back to back. There are serial things you can do, if you do not want to clean up afterward throw it in Chuckie Cheese or one those places. But you want something in the house hire entertainment, face painting, balloons.
As far as games: musical chairs, and if the party is theme play something that has to do with the theme.
Example: For your 2 years girl, Dora party -hide something in the yard and have clues so they can explore and look for the item. For your 8 year boy, Transformer – buy legos and let them made things.
Hope it works out, Good luck
M.C. answers from New York on October 20, 2007
I am not sure about 9 year olds-but I just had a birthday party for my daughter.
Seriously if I did it again, I would do it at Chuckie Cheese (very early in the day).
We just went to the one in Paramus and it was very clean and not very many kids.
By the time I was done with her party, I would of spent the same amount of money.
But this way, someone else serves food, decorates, cleans up and you can buy little thank you gift bags to send home if you wanted~This way you can spend more time visiting.
Have you considered a small sleep over?
I have a birthday book:
Birthday Parties by Vicki Lansky- $6.95
(but it only goes up to age 8)
It talks about: how to pick activities, themes, games to play and how to coordinate with 10-20 people.
Hope this helps~Good Luck
S.S. answers from Glens Falls on October 20, 2007
For at-home parties, you can often find local magicians or pony rides to come to your home for a pretty reasonable fee! Also, the old stand-by games usually go over well if you feel like organizing that much!
D.K. answers from New York on October 21, 2007
I have had 2 parties where I rented a large moonwalk for the kids. That is all the entertainment you need. The kids love it. But I only invited about 8 boys - more than 8 the kids would have to rotate out of the moonwalk. If you have a huge backyard you can get 2 different types of moonwalk.
However 25 -30 kids is a bit much and for that many kids I might prefer going to a Sports/Games or ChuckECHeese place.
D.
T.D. answers from Buffalo on October 20, 2007
Hi R.!
There is a place on Niagara Falls Boulevard near Ellicott Creek Road called ABC rentals. They have bounce houses, dunk tanks, football games, etc for rent. You may want to try giving them a call. Also, depending on where you live, you may want to call the local fire department and see if they host birthday parties. When we lived in Orlando, Fl the local fire department did and it cost $50 for 8 kids and included everything right down to the paper plates and drinks (yes, cake too). Birthday parties are just so expensive to have anywhere, I know, I have 3 kids and have done them at Discovery Zone, and other places as well. Another place you may want to consider is Cyber Jocks on Sheridan Drive in Amherst. Here in Kenmore there is a floor hockey place on Military Road near Sheridan and I hear the Pepsi Center also hosts parties. Good luck
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