R.W. asks from Anaheim, CA on September 06, 2010
Birth Control Options - Anaheim,CA
Hello Mamas out there!
I was hoping to get some feedback from all of you about your experiences with birth control. I had my 2nd child July 3rd and my husband and I are 95% sure we don't want another child, but we also don't want to completely eliminate that possibility (i.e. vasectomy). I have been debating over what type of birth control would be best for me. I am nursing my son and therefore my options are more limited. I am scheduled to have the mirena inserted on Friday, but the more research I started doing I am reading women's horror stories about feeling anxious, racing hearts, depression and weight gain. All of those symptoms scare me, of course, but I especially don't want to gain weight. I am still struggling to lose the pregnancy pounds and dread the idea of gaining 10-25 lbs. because of mirena, which is the range I heard reported from different women.
Can you please share your experiences with Mirena, both positive and negative. Also, what forms of birth control have worked well for you, with minimal side effects? I realize we are all different and will react to birth control differently, but I just want to get a feel for what others experiences have been.
Thank you!
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P.C. answers from Los Angeles on September 07, 2010
you have a couple of options. The problem with birth control is that all make you gain weight down the line some way or another. The depo shot is good , but I suggest you use it only for 2 years . Because it is known to cause Osteoporosis. Birthcontrol pills are better, you will gain weigh like all birthcontrol but they have less side affects. I dont know much about IUD's so cant help you there. Just remember the longer you are on birthcontrol the longer it will take you to become pregnent agian.I hope this helps alittle..
K.C. answers from Las Vegas on September 07, 2010
I never tried Mirena since I've had such horrible side effects on other progesterone-only forms of BC (Depo Provera and mini-pills), but have had great luck with Paragard, the hormone-free IUD. While it does make my period slightly heavier, I don't have the huge array of side effects that can come from progesterone, and it also lasts up to 10 years instead of 5. I'm on my second one now - I had one in for 7 years before I decided to try to conceive (no problems there, and I now have a fabulous son), then I tried other things for a couple years after my son was born since my OB wasn't thrilled with me having an IUD due to my c-section, but now I'm back with my Paragard and much happier.
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M.M. answers from Milwaukee on September 06, 2010
Copper IUD all the way.. have had mine now for over a year and LOVE it.. Just a little bit harder period (more bleeding, but cramping isn't a big deal anymore was a little rough the first few months) I might spot a little during ovulation but otherwise I would never know it was there.. No side effects with mood or weight gain or normal hormonal side effects..
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D.K. answers from Sioux City on September 06, 2010
Naprotechnology is what we use. It has absolutely no side effects and is more effective than the any pill or condoms. I have used it for over 14 years and would recommend it to anyone.
E.H. answers from Kokomo on September 06, 2010
I had the mirena in for over four years. I think it did contribute to some weight gain however so do all other birthcontrol pills and lots of medications in general. I get bad side effects from every other medication I have ever tried. So with the mirena that was the only one I had, but I had lots of other contributing factors as well to the weight gain. I was able to lose some of the weight easily once I changed some of those other factors while still having it in.
I got it put in while I was still breast feeding and did not have a period, or any period symptoms for about 3 3/4 years. Then after that time I started getting some cramping, a bit of pain during sex, and irregular spotting. So after it got worse over a few months time I went to the Dr. and it had started to move up and over so we had it taken out and that was the end of it, no damage, no continuing pain. Which it was also ok to take out because we decided it was time to have another child. It took about 3 months for my period to become regular enough to track when I was ovulating and then I was immediatly pregnant on the first try.
I am due in a few weeks and am planning on getting it again. Even with the complications at the end it was still easy, painless, and seemed to not have any real side effects for years. I think real problems, even mine moving is pretty rare and does not mean it will happen again.
I recommend it to everyone!
G.V. answers from Los Angeles on September 08, 2010
Mirena caused me bad pelvic inflammatory disease, it will be subtle at first and then when you actually get diagnosed, it is a full blown PID. I use Depo and has been on it for 3 years with my older son, then, when I decided to get pregnant again, it took me, 6 months after I got off it. It may cause a little bit of weight gain, but nothing nursing, good diet and exercise can't fix. Hope this helps.
P.C. answers from Los Angeles on September 07, 2010
you have a couple of options. The problem with birth control is that all make you gain weight down the line some way or another. The depo shot is good , but I suggest you use it only for 2 years . Because it is known to cause Osteoporosis. Birthcontrol pills are better, you will gain weigh like all birthcontrol but they have less side affects. I dont know much about IUD's so cant help you there. Just remember the longer you are on birthcontrol the longer it will take you to become pregnent agian.I hope this helps alittle..
G.M. answers from Los Angeles on September 08, 2010
I love the 10 year, NO HORMONE, copper IUD!!! Hormones from birth control make me fat and crazy! No exaggeration on either.
It was a perfectly effective means of birth control for me and when I took it out to get pregnant with my third child, it happened IMMEDIATELY. No hormone hangover (so to speak). Look into it. The worst thing I've heard is if it gets out of place, you get pregnant. So go to your check ups! I never had a problem.
K.C. answers from Las Vegas on September 07, 2010
I never tried Mirena since I've had such horrible side effects on other progesterone-only forms of BC (Depo Provera and mini-pills), but have had great luck with Paragard, the hormone-free IUD. While it does make my period slightly heavier, I don't have the huge array of side effects that can come from progesterone, and it also lasts up to 10 years instead of 5. I'm on my second one now - I had one in for 7 years before I decided to try to conceive (no problems there, and I now have a fabulous son), then I tried other things for a couple years after my son was born since my OB wasn't thrilled with me having an IUD due to my c-section, but now I'm back with my Paragard and much happier.
M.M. answers from Los Angeles on September 07, 2010
If I could do all over agian, I would do the copper IUD. I had the mirena and had it removed after a year because of the side effects. I was breaking out all over my face and was so moody/upset at times during the month. I did not have weight gain just very emotional and angry.
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