A.H. asks from Omaha, NE on March 13, 2009
Birth Control Options - Omaha,NE
Hi Moms,
After doing some unsuccessful fertility treatments, My husband and I had our first child when I was 36 and he was 40. We started trying again when our son was 6 months old and were very surprised we were pregnant again with baby #2 within a couple months! While we are pretty much done trying for more kids and I have basically been pregnant for two years straight, I don't want either of us to get fixed just in case God plans to bless us with more children down the road. My doctor told me that I could do a birth control pill, an iud like Mirena, or a shot. I would like to take a break for at least a year or so and then decide if we want to try for a third baby. I will be in my early 40's and my husband in mid 40's by then, so that is another factor to consider. Please let me know if you are currently taking some kind of birth control and what you would recommend. Thanks!
A.
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J.J. answers from Omaha on March 14, 2009
Hi A.,
Have you ever considered learning natural family planning? My husband and I have used it for almost 15 years and it's been great for me physically and great for our marriage. It is NOT the rythmn method, like so many people confuse it with. I don't think anyone teaches that anymore. There are a few different methods of NFP to learn and choose from. It is great because you empower yourself by knowing your body so well.
Our bodies are meant to ovulate each month and not be intruded by unnatural means of preventing that from happening.
If you're interested then I would gladly give you the resources, web sites and phones numbers for you to check it out for yourself.
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L.G. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2009
I don't like taking drugs whatsoever, so I use the fertility awareness method. I also don't really care if I get pregnant, but the FAM isn't at all like the "rhythm method" (which doesn't work). You can most likely find the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, MPH at your local library. It's long, but it reads easily. That way, you can have another drug-free option. You may be able to combine it with the breastfeeding method mentioned earlier. :)
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L.A. answers from Minneapolis on March 13, 2009
I agree with the Mirena IUD. I have had it for 2 yrs now. I like it since you don't even know its there and I was never good at remembering to take the pills. I have a 5 yr one. I would really recommend using this for birth control.
L.S. answers from Madison on March 14, 2009
Hi A.,
I use 3 methods... just to be safe! I am still nursing my son on demand, he's 9 months now so not feeding as frequently as he used to. I also take the mini pill, but since my son's sleep schedule is erratic, I can't always take it at the same time every day. I just started taking my basal body temp before I get out of bed so I can switch to natural family planning method and get rid of the pill.
One note of caution, if you plan on using natural family planning, please be sure you completely understand it before using it for birth control. It can be a little tricky because the time of the month in which you are most fertile, happens to be the time of the month you feel like sleeping with your husband! I use fertilityfinder.com as a great way to track your temps, and it even tells you when to use caution! Good luck and congrats on the two children!
D.K. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2009
I am a 44 year old mother of 2 boys. After my post-pardum depression my doctors recommened that I not have another child so birth ccontrol was very important. After using many different types of bc I am using the Mirena and love it!
M.S. answers from Omaha on March 14, 2009
HI
We have 2 girls and I used different pills before and between them. I had Mirena put in just after #2. I have had it for 4 months and feeling better than the when on the pill. I was off and on the pill for 12 years. If you do not find the right dosage it can be very frustrating. I think that I went though 10 different pills and after our first was born, all of the ones that I had used before made me sick. I was even given that new one called YAZ and ended up feeling pregnant. Mirena can be pulled out at any time. With the pill you have to take one every day and if you miss one you take 2 the next day. Taking 2 in one day can make you feel sick.
Mirena lasts for 5 years. After you pull it out you can become pregnant with in 2 or 3 months. With our first I stopped taking the pill and it took a year and 2 months to get pregnant. With our second it took 8 months.
I guess that what I am trying to say is that you have less to deal with if you get Mirena vs the pill.
E.O. answers from Appleton on March 13, 2009
Hi A.,
I just started the Mirena IUD. Our true intentions are not to have anymore children, but the thought of having something permanently done is out of the question. Why? I don't know.
I just had the Mirena put in back in January. It has been great. I forget its there and that is the part I love the most. I would definitely recommend it!!!
Good luck!
E.
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