March 17, 2007,
R.R. asks from Norman, OK on March 16, 2007
I just fond out that I am a bipoler parent and don't know if any body else out there has the same problems that I do I seem to be doing really well on my meds but I don't want a med that zones me out to where I am don't want to play with my kids during the day and that is what my meds seem to be doing was wondering if any body has any thing to recomend
W.Q. answers from Tulsa on March 17, 2007
I, too, am bipolar and was diagnosed 4 1/2 years ago. I just went through a depression cycle and had to have my meds readjusted.
My advice to you is contact your doctor and request a change in meds due to one side effect...your lethargic mood. And, I must ask you what type of doc you are seeing for treatment for Bi-polar. I found out after a years cycle with mostly depression and the wrong thing my family doc prescribed. I found a pyschiatrist who immediately changed my meds. I have tried numerous meds and one of them had a side effect similar to yours. Don't give up...it might take awhile but you will find the right meds that help you maintain a healthy outlook on life.
Good luck on your journey...
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M.J. answers from Rockford on March 17, 2007
I am a bi polar parent as well but my daughter is 18 but had problems with mood swings until about a year ago when my meds were switched to Geodone (a new med) and Effexor. I alos have anxiety issues so I am not sure which is for the bi polar..Also my daughter is bi-polar as well but non-medicated some say it is genetic not sure if it is or not
K.M. answers from St. Louis on March 17, 2007
I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder about 8 years ago and have been doing very well on medication. My biggest advice is to read up on the illness, you are your best ally in this struggle. Find a good doctor, it took me 6 psychiatrists to find a good one for me. I think the hardest part is the stereo-types people give you, don't let them get to you. Good luck to you!
J.T. answers from Topeka on March 16, 2007
I to am bi polar. I found that Paxil worked best for me. Good luck
T.H. answers from Bloomington on March 17, 2007
I was told I was bipolar... I was put on many meds.. One was topamax... and then they put me on another I forget it.. It really zoned me out... Topamex zonked me for a while I got reallllllllly dumb till about 3 or so months Heck I could not spell the word THE for 2 weeks...
THey cut it down and slowwwwwly took it up and that helped but Still It would make you forget many things... and affect me...
My son was on paxal for headaches we took him off cuz he was a jerk and hitting but I am sure for all people all meds are different...
anyway.. Listen... I am not bipolar.. get this....
I had been on the depo provera shot... It can realllly mess you up... anyway.... I sure did.... I got off it.. and Slowly I got happy!!! I can reallly mess with you that is for sure... I just wanted to see if you were maybe on that or soemthing...
Heck they had me seeing a shrink.. on the meds for over a year.. I told him I wanted a baby.. I got off the depo shot.. Took myself off the meds he put me on and WOW I found happy.. To this day.. I am good!!!! I have never been so good... AND I have lost 45 lbs!!!!!
Also you state the father is away... Maybe that is not bi polar.. Maybe you are just stressed out.. Maybe you just need some help about the house.... Everbody is so ready to jump on the You are sick take this....
I hope it is not the case!!!!
Sending a big hug!!!!
M.M. answers from Enid on March 17, 2007
If you are weary of drugs that only suppress the symptoms without actually treating the cause of the problem, I've read of great successes in psychological disorders such as bipolar, depression, and others, using EFT. Here is a detailed article you might find interesting: http://www.emofree.com/Articles2/karen-grisham-article.htm
Also, on the EFT site you can find a list of practitioners in your area. I've used and practiced EFT for 2 years now and have seen some amazing results.
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N.B. answers from Oklahoma City on March 16, 2007
my mom is bipolar ... My dr prescribed topamax and it will make me tired but not horribly tired. I dont know how extreme your bipolar is but thats what they use to determine the meds. There is ALOT of info available online.
E.Y. answers from Topeka on March 17, 2007
As a bipolar mom myself, I know how hard it is. But, I also had a chance to get used to being bipolar long before I became a mom. I've been on several different medications and I only liked one of them, which my doctor changed on me without consulting me first. How long have you been on your meds? Most of them take at least 6 weeks to start working and about twice that to have any really effects. It's hard, but you have to give it time.
I am not taking any medication now. But, I watch what I eat very very carefully and I use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Are you in therapy? It really helps, I highly suggest group therapy if you can find one. MAke sure you talk to your doctor. If the medication is really not working for you, make them change it. If that doctor won't, go see another one!
The best advice I can give you is to learn your rhythm. Do you cycle through your depressions and manias regularly? Every few months, more often? I knew a girl who cycled several times a day! Scary! I go through a 3-4 month cycle and I use my manic phases to my advantage and I do my best not to let my depresions get the best of me. Feel free to contact me if you have any other questions or just want someone to talk to or vent to. Good luck!