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Backpack or Messenger Bag for 4Th Grader?

Sorry if this question sounds petty...but backpack or messenger bag (over the shoulder)? We've always bought my daughter the traditional backpack for school. She's going into 4th grade and is now considering changing to a messenger bag. Her school requires them to carry a large binder home every day. I always felt that carrying the backpack allows their backs to carry the weight. But, does it really matter?

Also, any ideas for where we could find cute girly backpacks or bags?

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Thanks everyone for sharing your stories and advice! Thanks too for giving me ideas of where to shop! I'm going to go with my gut and get the backpack as I originally thought I should do.

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Definitely the backpack with both straps worn is the best bet for her back. Messenger bags are stylish but with the weight these kids have to carry now, the backpack is going to be much better and easier for her to carry.

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Backpack. In 4th grade she probably won't have a ton of books, but in 7th my SD had a messenger bag and carried everything in it. After 2 months and $1000 of chiropractic care for a frozen shoulder, she now has a backpack and wears it with both straps.

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Definitely the backpack with both straps worn is the best bet for her back. Messenger bags are stylish but with the weight these kids have to carry now, the backpack is going to be much better and easier for her to carry.

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If those are your options, I say the back pack will definitely be better for her back. I have seen the kids at our bus stop dragging those messenger bags behind them, because they are just to heavy to carry correctly. My daughter will also be going into the 4th grade and has the binder home every day situation too. Her back pack was so heavy last year on the days she had to bring home a subject book along with the binder, plus the lunch box, I worried for her back. This year we went with a back pack that has wheels. So it can be worn as a back pack or if it's heavy she can roll it behind her.

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I would wait until she's older for the messenger bag (if she still wants one then). My 14 year old carries a messenger bag, and it works fine for him because his textbooks are online, so he doesn't need to carry much.

My 8 year old uses a backpack, and that works much better for him.

Target has their backpacks on sale now, but I'm not sure about the quality. Land's End does have great quality backpacks.

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backpack, with the big binder it gets really heavy for just a shoulder bag.
My daughter was in 4th grade last year and she had a messanger bag for part of the year and it was very heavy.

We are getting backpacks from LL Bean this year.

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Backpack. Definitely. Lands End has good quality ones that you can customize with initials or other embroidered patches.

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My forth grader wanted a messenger bag this year too. I got her one at childrens place. Purple with peace signs for $12 bucks. HTH

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I asked my son if he wanted a messenger bag for 4th and he said "uncool!"
Maybe cool for girls. Try pottery barn kids.

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Backpack will be better for her back

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