L.L. asks from Austin, MN on January 11, 2011
Baby Won't Eat ANY Meat Product!
My eight month old baby, who's been on solids since about 3 1/2 months, is a wonderful eater...with fruits, veggies, and grains, including finger food versions of these.
However, she will NOT eat any meat! It doesn't matter what meat, what form, what texture, what consistency, what temperature, or if I try to hide it in veggies...she just WILL not eat it! She will eat flaked tuna fish on toasts (in little bites, but up to a fourth of a sandwich!) but I can't give her lots of tuna!
Does anyone else have a self-proclaimed vegetarian baby? (Kind've scary...she's allergic to dairy, so she's almost a vegan...and we are a meat eating family!) Any suggestions? Do babies like tofu?
**EDIT** I should add that it's almost like she CAN'T eat it...it makes her gag, even if it's basically liquified. She's used to solids...she eats banana chunks, fruit/veggie puffs, pieces of toast and toast with tuna, baby mum mums, and rice cakes...so it isn't that she can't handle it...I don't know!!!!
**EDIT** Also, I am referring to baby food meats...not adult cuts of meat.
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J.P. answers from Denver on January 11, 2011
Hi--
This isn't unusual at all. In fact, I'm a little shocked that you are trying this on her at only 8 months old.
Babies don't need nearly as much protein as adults, and pretty much all of her nutrition should still be coming from formula or breast milk at this point in her development. Solid food is really just practice before the age of one. She can't eat enough solids to get all the nutrition her body needs because her stomach is so small--that is why her nutrition should be coming in liquid form still. Also, she doesn't have the teeth to chew meat yet, which is developmentally a way you can know when a child's body is ready for meat.
It's likely that she will eat meat as she gets older and actually needs the nutrition from solid foods. I wouldn't worry just yet. My children didn't start eating meat until well into their first year.
Oh, and yes she can eat tofu, but I wouldn't give her very much. Soy products have something called phyto-estrogens (chemicals that mimic the hormone estrogen in the body). Too much soy can really mess up the hormones of a young child. Phyto-estrogens are one of the reasons that so many girls are going through puberty so early these days. They are also found in parabens (a type of preservative) and in BPA (bisephonol-A--the stuff in plastic that everyone is worried about--this is why they are worried about it).
J.
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L.H. answers from Milwaukee on January 12, 2011
Have you tried he canned chicken that comes like canned tuna? They have ham like that too. You can try and see if she will eat it that way.
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B.J. answers from Rochester on January 12, 2011
My son was the same way. As he got older I would put just little meat on his plate, but he never had to eat it. I did not make a big deal out of it, nor did I hide the meat in anything. He is now 6 and loves meat! I think he was about 3 or 4 until he finaly tried some. It started out slow where he would take a bite or two and that was it and took off form there. She is only 8 months and I think meat is the hardest to digest. It could be that her tummy is just not ready yet!
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J.P. answers from Denver on January 11, 2011
Hi--
This isn't unusual at all. In fact, I'm a little shocked that you are trying this on her at only 8 months old.
Babies don't need nearly as much protein as adults, and pretty much all of her nutrition should still be coming from formula or breast milk at this point in her development. Solid food is really just practice before the age of one. She can't eat enough solids to get all the nutrition her body needs because her stomach is so small--that is why her nutrition should be coming in liquid form still. Also, she doesn't have the teeth to chew meat yet, which is developmentally a way you can know when a child's body is ready for meat.
It's likely that she will eat meat as she gets older and actually needs the nutrition from solid foods. I wouldn't worry just yet. My children didn't start eating meat until well into their first year.
Oh, and yes she can eat tofu, but I wouldn't give her very much. Soy products have something called phyto-estrogens (chemicals that mimic the hormone estrogen in the body). Too much soy can really mess up the hormones of a young child. Phyto-estrogens are one of the reasons that so many girls are going through puberty so early these days. They are also found in parabens (a type of preservative) and in BPA (bisephonol-A--the stuff in plastic that everyone is worried about--this is why they are worried about it).
J.
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L.C. answers from Minneapolis on January 11, 2011
My son REFUSED to eat the baby meats and really I didn't push it because I would never eat that stuff myself..... yuck!! It is not necessary for infants to eat meat, as they are getting thier main nutrition from breast milk or formula. 8 months is still very young and having solids is really just for practice at this point. Just enjoy your little one don't worry about her eating solids she has the rest of her life to eat!! Enjoy your baby!!
I just read some other posts regarding eggs and peanut butter- I think they recomend waiting until thier one for allergy reasons.
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V.W. answers from Jacksonville on January 11, 2011
My daughter pretty much refused all meats as a baby too. (who can blame them? Those baby food meats are GROSS).
Anyway, you would never know it now. She LOVES meat. Pretty much any meat except seafood/fish. She will eat ground beef in meatloaf, spaghetti, hamburgers, homemade meatballs, etc. She eats chicken fried steak, swiss steak and actual cuts of steak (sirloin or ribeye or whatever). She eats beef hotdogs, roast, ribs, chicken any way you can prepare it (fried, baked, grilled, rotisserie), pork chops, bacon, sausage (links or grilled and sliced), ham steak, deli ham, turkey, ....
Her hang up now (she is 9 years) is sauces and side dishes. She doesn't even eat ketchup. Her burgers are plain (Meat, cheese and bread, lol). Anything with a sauce on it she doesn't want. And she prefers fresh veggies and not many starches except for bread. no mashed potatoes, no baked potatoes, no mac n cheese. But she will eat green beans, broccoli, fresh red bell pepper, cucumbers, carrots, celery, black olives... Mostly uncooked... except for the beans and broccoli she likes steamed.
It'll be fine mom.
Who knows.. maybe there is just something about the baby food variety.
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J.E. answers from Los Angeles on January 11, 2011
my 21 y.o daughter was like this and still doesnt eat meat. She liked soy and tofu products, and there is a huge variety available, and they are tasty! My liitle one (10 m.o.) also didnt like meat but only baby food meats, she eats minced or tiny cubed chicken and pork, but only with a drop of gravy. If all else fails, look into vegan/ vegetarian cooking, its not hard to incorporate. As a family we didnt eat meat for a few years, after reading a book about the truths behind meat, the treatment of animals, fear, medications and chemicals, how its cured etc, I couldnt eat it. But you can eat most of what you regularly eat, just substituting soy in place of meat or even quinoa. easiet to make when starting out are shephards pie and chili or tacos, look for yves veggie ground round, its awesome.
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M.S. answers from Minneapolis on January 12, 2011
Even though I eat meat I was grossed out by the whole concept of baby food meat so I did not give her meat until she was older. When she was a little over a year old we gave her Trader Joe's chicken sausage (Bilinski's is similar--available at conventional food stores) cut up very small so she wouldn't choke and she loved it.
If your daughter is on a soy-based formula or soy milk you might not want to give a lot of tofu, because issues come when there is excessive soy.
Sunflower seed butter is a great allergen-free way to give lots of protein and good fats to build up that little brain. I have so many other good high-protein non-meat, non-dairy (my daughter can't tolerate milk, either) products that we use that I would be happy to share with you if you want to message me.
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M.L. answers from Minneapolis on January 12, 2011
I was the same way as a baby (Not the gag part though). As an adult I am a vegetarian (not a vegan). My family was and is a meat eating family so I wasn't raised by vegetarians. Growing up my Mom would make me try everything but I never liked the taste. Your baby might like tofu as my daughter did. She will be fine especially since she likes all fruits and veggies, she will just need to get her daily protein in different ways-lentils, chickpeas, beans and browns rice, quinoa, peanut butter, etc.
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E.B. answers from Duluth on January 12, 2011
We found that our boys had issues with the texture of meat. It was hard for them to chew, hard for them to swallow. They both preferred what we refer to in our house as "salty meat"--basically, processed meat. They would do hot dogs (cut up appropriately), summer sausage...but chicken, roasts, pork chops...any of that was not gonna fly. It took a couple years. My kids also had issue with lettuces.
I would suggest that you keep trying meats--see what all she'll try; they do say it takes what, 7? 11? tries of a food before a kid might like it--but also look for alternatives. Will she do beans? My babies loved beans (now as preschoolers, they won't touch them, but that's just them being picky). If you haven't tried processed meats, it's perhaps worth a shot; the texture is different than cuts of meat. Oh--I just read what you wrote again...I don't know whether you're saying baby food meats, like the ones in jars, or just that you're obviously not handing her a steak. We gave our boys what we were eating most of the time, within reason. To me, baby food meats just look gross--perhaps she would like "real" meat better? Cut up small, pureed, however she is used to eating?
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J.B. answers from New York on January 11, 2011
My son used to eat pureed chicken when he was 6 months up until he was 18 months, then all of the sudden, he stopped. He refuses to eat red meat or fish and only eats chicken in the form of a nugget. To make up for the iron, I give him polyvisol with iron from enfamil (as recommended by our pediatrician), and for a boost of protein, we give him eggs. He LOVES eggs. Eggs are full of protein, and he gobbles them up. He also loves cheese and I give him lots of nuts. Peanut butter is his favorite.
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