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Baby's Growth Rate

Hi All,
I just got back from my sons doctors appointment (regular 4 mo check up) and I am worried that my son is not developing at an appropriate rate. My doctor is not concerned as he believes each child is an individual and doesn't agree with growth charts as long as a child is gaining in length/weight appropriately. I agree with that line of thinking, but my son is above average in length, slightly below average in weight, and way below average in head circumference. The last one is what worries me. He is in the 5th percentile for head circumference. I have not noticed any kind of developmental delay but he is only 4 months old. Hubby is not concerned. Has any one else had this experience? Did your child grow out of it? Any advice?

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Thank you to all of the responses! It has really calmed my worries. I am relived to see that this is fairly common and usually has turned out to be a matter of catching up with the rest of the body and not resulting in any cognitive impairment. I will continue to monitor his head circumference at monthly appointments and will consult further with my pediatrician should his head growth not maintain a "normal" range per the growth charts as I also realize that it could be a sign of something more serious. Thank you for all of your support and compassion in sharing your stories, experiences, and good thoughts. J. E

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I wouldn't be concerned at all. My son has been in the 50-90 percentile for weight and height at various times and has always been in the 5th percentile for head circumference. My ped said as long as he's following his own projectile and it isn't falling or growing dramatically, there's no cause for concern. She also asked if there were any small heads in the family (I've got a big one) and both my husband and mother have smaller heads. Also, my son is right on target for walking, talking (maybe even a little early), etc. So don't sweat it!

Hi J.,

It sounds like we're sharing the same son, except mine is 10 months old. My son has always been fairly average in length and weight (perhaps a bit under in weight) and 5th percentile for his little head. The bottom line is that he looks proportional and that's all you should worry about. Do either of you have a small head? I know that I have a tiny head - hats have always been too big on me.

I don't think you should worry about it one iota.

Do not worry! He's on the charts so that means he is in within range. I was always way OFF the charts (below) in weight when I was a kid and I am fine(after two kids I could definitely afford to lose a few pounds now). I was probably on the small side as far as head size too since today I have a small head (I have to buy kids glasses). I got high scores on the ACT and SAT and graduated from University with a good degree- head size does not determine brain power! Continue to monitor his growth and milestones but don't stress. There is a huge range for early development and kids learn at their own pace- in part due to personality(some kids want to move from day one, others are content to sit back and take it all in. )

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I wouldn't worry at all. Your son sounds just like my daughter, who is almost 13 months. She has always been really long & skinny, with a small head. She eats like there's no tomorrow (this kid can pack it away! LOL!), but she's got the fast metabolism like her mom & dad.

Like your doc, mine isn't worried either. He said he would be worried if she wasn't so consistent each month. But she gains weight, she grows taller and her head size stays equal to that (which is also in the 5th percentile). At first we were worried, now we know it's just her.

Look at it this way, your son will look like a little doll because his head is proportioned to his body! :-)

C.

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I know it's a Mommy's job to worry but, I think from your response I would endeavor to say you've got nothing to worry about. If you, hubby and doctor have not noticed any significant development delays then you have nothing to worry about. If by chance your child is missing the mark on certain things, then you may want to ask your Pedi to refer you for a second opinion.

My son was preemie, and we were told he was going to be delayed on ALL kinds of things. He actually caught up a whole year earlier than the Pedi thought he would. Long story short, don't let the little voice in the back of your head rule your world. Keep an eye on him and make a journal, so you know when he hits milestones and be prepared to answer and ask the Pedi ALL questions that come to mind (journal is handy for this). Even make another appointment to sit down and chat for a few moments to get your questions answered.

Don't worry until you have to!

Good Luck.

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My son had the same thing! He was average weight at birth! His 4 month check was the same, his head circumference was a ton smaller than average! He grew out of it and has a normal size head and is very advanced as far development! Every kid does grow differently! Don't worry to much!

Same thing here. I have a long thin baby with a small head. That's how he was when he was born, and while his head circumference percent has increased somewhat (started at 25% and last check up was up to 27%) I would actually feel MORE concerned if his head suddenly shot up in size beyond regular growth. I think that would more likely signal a problem. BTW - at his last (4 month) check up, his height was 95% and his weight was 80%.

I think you also need to look at your son's genetics. My husband and I both have (relatively) small heads. I always have adjustable baseball caps cinched as tight as they can go. My husband usually adjusts them to about their middle range, but he's 6'7" so should theoretically be setting them to a Large setting.

As long as the growth is keeping pace, I really wouldn't worry about it. My son is, if anything, ahead of the curve developmentally. I really never think of his head size other than to be mildly amused by it.

both of my children had small heads compared to their height/weight. My daughter was in 90th and 70th in height & weight while her head would be in the 25th. My son was more dramatic, height in 90th, weight in 50th and head in 20th I think eve the 15th at one check-up. But by the time my daughter was 2 her head was 50th, and my son is 14mos and at his 1yr his head was up to the 35th, so it evens itself out. Just think...your kid doesn't have the giant head many babies have! As long as the head IS GROWING, you are fine!

Hi J.,

I had similar concerns when my daughter was your son's age. At her 2 month, her head circumference was in the 25%. At her 4 momth, 10th percentile. Definitely was thinking that was the direction we didn't want to go! Thought about it often and worried and stressed as we mothers do...(and of course, googled all about small head circumference!) However, at her 6 month, head circumference now in the 45%. Like everything else, it will be monitored- My ped was also unconcerned, but it did relieve some anxiety when it came back up. If you can, don't worry too much until your next check-up. See where he is at then...

At his first checkup, my son was in the 50th% for height and weight, but only the 25th% for head circumference. That concerned me too, but my pedi didn't seem worried.

At four months, he was in the 75th% for height and weight and still only in the 25th% for head circumference.

He's 8 months now and at his last checkup, he was in the 50%th for height, weight, and head circumference.

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

It sounds like you've gotten some good advice. My son had the opposite problem. He's almost 3 and his head size is big, off the charts and always has been. They did a CT to be sure there weren't any problems. He's a bright and very normal child.

My point is, don't fixate on the chart. Observe your child and if you think there are issues persue them, but don't base it soley on his head size.

M.

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