K.A. asks from Medford, OR on January 31, 2007
Baby Shower Gift Ideas
I have a friend that is having a baby shower and am looking for some ideas from everyone... I would like to know some ideas from everyone about the best, most useful or unique gift that you received before, or after the baby was born. I have two children of my own, and I am drawing a blank on something for her. Everyone always gets clothes, blankets, diapers, toys... I want to do something else for her that will mean something special. Please give me all the ideas that you can... what did you get, or what is something that you wish you had with a new baby... anything you can come up with would be great!
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Thank you all for your help. I think that I am going to get her a gift certificate for pictures. She is a massage therapist and her and her partner "swap" massages or else I would have gone with that idea, and she already has a housekeeper.... Thank you all again!
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J.S. answers from Seattle on February 02, 2007
I would suggest going in on a postpartum doula. (I'm not just tooting my own horn.) This is a truly priceless gift. What else can prevent postpartum depression, relieve sleep deprivation, increase marital satisfaction, keep the house clean, address lactation difficulties, and increase family bonding all at once? Its a really meaningful and practical gift.
The other thing I would suggest is organizing a supper circle, where friends and family sign up to deliver hot meals to the new family.
N.K. answers from Los Angeles on February 01, 2007
I don't know if you are a crafty person, but you could try and make a diaper "cake". I made one for my sister in laws co worker who had been having a difficult pregnancy as a little pick me up. She loved it. I used diapers tied with ribbon for the cake layers and then decorated the cake with useful items, like desitin, a rubber ducky, a thermometer, wash cloths, hair brush, nail clippers,etc. It cost me a little more but the fact that it made her so happy was worth every penny.
P.S. If you know the gender of the baby or if she has a theme you can use the as decorations on the cake.
A.W. answers from Stockton on February 01, 2007
I always buy a diaper bag and fill it full of goodies for mom and baby. Like a travel wipee container, baby shampoo, bottles, blanket, books, toy, outfit and thermometer for baby,
and pepsi(if mom's not breastfeeding!), an orange julius gift card, a favorite novel, offers for baby sitting, etc.for mom.
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T.S. answers from San Francisco on July 20, 2007
I started a business of my own after I fell in love with a gift I had gotten for a relative. So now all my friends and relatives get gifts from my biz, and love them.
I give custom Birth Annoucement Photo Afghans. The photo is knit right into the blanket, along with the birth stats. That makes them machine washable and dryable. I also give Hand drawn portraits. Both are unique, and will be treasured forever.
I gave my Husband and his brother a hand drawn portrait of their Dad the Christmas after he passed in an auto accident. I had never seen my Brother in law cry except for the funeral and the day I gave him the portrait.
Scrapbooking stuff makes great gifts too. My kids are 6 and 9 and I wish I had been introduced to scrapbooking sooner.
Good luck!
L.P. answers from Los Angeles on January 31, 2007
A never fail gift is Diapees & Wipees. It holds a few diapers and a travel pack of wipes. We sell those like there is no tomorrow!! =) I think because they are handy not only for organizing your diaper bag, but great for quick trips, or dads that may not want a bag-people really seem to love them. Hope that helps!
L.G. answers from Los Angeles on January 31, 2007
My husband is a manager of a picture people studio so I am biased, but that would make a great gift.
I also watched this show (for mothers) and they have a baby shower gift that was gorgeous. They call it a "diaper cake." You place an opened package of diapers around baby supplies and wrap it up with bows and flowers so that it is shaped like a layer cake, thus the name diaper cake. And there are so many ways to make a diaper cake. Check out: http://www.babycakesinc.com/
J.A. answers from Eugene on January 31, 2007
The thing that I got for my baby shower that I absolutely loved was a certificate for a pregnancy massage. It was great! I was 8 months pregnant and after the massage I felt the best that I had felt through my whole pregnancy!
K.B. answers from Reno on August 22, 2008
A Kiddie Kangaroo for car seats/infant carriers makes a wonderful shower gift...When installed on the infant carrier, this soft saddlebag storage system allows Mom to carry her wallet, keys, phone, baby's bottle, diaper change, and wipes on the infant carrier while running errands thus leaving purse and diaper bag in car or home...Later the Kiddie Kangaroo transfers to the toddler car seat and they can stash and use their own sippy cups, toys, snacks and more thus eliminating mom trying to reach back while driving to retrieve items from the seat or floor for their child. Increased safety, independence and quiet makes this a great gift. Check it out on the web www.kiddiekangaroo.com for stores and websites to purchase.
M.M. answers from Cincinnati on January 31, 2007
K.,
The single most wonderful thing someone could have given me as a baby shower gift would have been a gift certificate for one household cleaning session. There are TONS of services out there and most of them will do quotes over the phone. The average cleaning (depending on the size of the house) is about three hours. Some places charge a flat rate and some go by the work that is done.
Its more expensive than a package of diapers but, believe me, its more appreciated too!
When I was home on maternity leave with our daughter I was amazed at how busy I was even though I wasn't working and didn't have ANYTHING schedule for over two months! My mother came up about two week after Aurelia's birth and just spent the weekend cleaning when me and the baby were napping. It was the most thoughtful, relieving thing I think anyone really DID surrounding the birth of my daughter.
Don't get me wrong. There are material gifts that were given that were (and still are) marvelous but the gift of housecleaning, whether it be done by you or a hired service, is so much off a new mother's mind.
R.C. answers from Portland on February 01, 2007
If you want a gift for mom, I would suggest a pre-labor massage as the worst thing is back labor and that helps the back labor part to not be so bad.
If you want a gift for baby, I would recommend the fisher price aquarium swing. I had 2 (1 for me & 1 for grandma) and that thing made us through every difficult night. It worked when he was cholic, teething, crabby, sick. It honestly worked better for me than the car rides that everyone tells you to take the baby on. I cannot tell you how many nights that my son spent hours sleeping in that swing! That gift was by far the most useful in the long run that I received at my shower!
L.C. answers from Los Angeles on February 01, 2007
MY FRIEND SELLS THESE GREAT SLINGS THAT SHE MAKE AND THEY LAST ALL THE WAY INTO TODDLER YEARS,THEY ALSO COME IN THESE BEAUTIFUL HAND MADE BAGS.SHE HAS A WEBSITE SO CHECK IT OUT
http://www.laboroflove.zoomshare.com/
THEN MAKE SURE TO CLICK ON HER PHOTOS OPTION AT THE TOP.LET HER KNOW L. REFERED YOU. THEY ARE ABSOLUTLY BEAUTIFUL
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