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Baby Name Poll - Thousand Oaks,CA

We are having our second child this August, and decided not to find out the sex. We love our boy names, but we're having trouble coming up with girl names that we just love. We really want a name that is unique (and we live in Southern CA, so unique is well tolerated!), but not too weird. Here are the top choices and the problems associated with them. Comment on whichever you want, or all if you have the patience!!

1. Camelia--I think it's beautiful and unique, and the nickname Cami is cute, but is it too similar to Camille or Camila, both of which ARE popular right now? Our 2-year-old daughter's name ends with "a" as well--will this sound too similar?

2. Maisie, prounounced "Mazy"--we think this is cute and unique, but Macy is popular right now and we're not sure if it's too similar to that or will be pronounced like Macy. And what do you think of the name overall?

3. Fiore--it means flower in Italian, and she will be part Italian, but will people pronounce it "Fior" instead of "Fior-A"?

4. Mirabella, Mirabelle, Marabelle, Marabella--too fancy and frivolous? If not, which one?

5. Laney, Lainie, Lanie--I prefer the last spelling (Lanie), but people have said it will be pronounced Lonnie instead of Laney. I think this name is cute, but is it boring? My name is M.--is it too similar to that?

6. Calamia--a family name, and the nickname could be Callie or Mia. Does it sound too much like a last name, which it is? My mom said it would sometimes be pronounced "Cal-AM-ia" instead of "Cala-MEE-a"

7. Ravelle--the name of a famous composer (spelled Ravel, but would be mispronounced), and my mom's good friend from college who was smart, beautiful and talented. Do you like the name?

8. Calliope, pronounced "Call-I-opee"--nickname Callie. The transgender character in Middlesex, the book, was named this--do you think people will associate the name with this character? (we didn't get it from the book.)

9. Emory--too similar to Avery or Emerson or does it sound too trendy? Also, someone just pointed out that this sounds like an emery board you file your nails with...

10. Kalea or Kalaya--the "a" at the end is mainly the issue b/c our daughter's name ends in "a"

What can I do next?

So What Happened?™

We did end up having a girl, and we named her Ravelle after meeting her because she has dark hair and beautiful eyes and it just seemed to fit her best! We are happy with the name, and the nickname that stuck is Vellie. Thanks for all the input, everyone!

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Kalea is a really popular name here in Hawaii.
Calliope makes me think of the musical instrument.
I misread Cal-AM-ia when I saw Calamia and it makes me think of calamity.... maybe not such a great association.
I've always like the name Laynie.
Emory is trendy and does make me think of an emery board.
Maisie/Macy are both popular in the midwest.
Just some of my thoughts. :) Good luck and congrats!

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Love, love picking out names... here are my thoughts :)
1. Camelia - love it. the full name and nickname.
2. Maisie - Although Macy is becoming more common, I still think it is unique and love the name. I love names that you can shorten with an "ie" sound at the end.
3. Fiore - my immediate thought. Fiona from Shrek. sounds like too hard of an attempt to be unique.
4. Mirabella - don't like it at all. Like the Bella part, but that's it.
5. Laney - love it
6. Calamia - sorry, I'd pass on this also. few things came to mind... clammy and then the ever dreaded teases of STDs (I don't mean to sound mean-spirited, but I know kids can come up with the strangest nicknames and that is what I watch for also)
7. Ravel - don't like it. Too blah to me.
8. Calliope - although I love the nickname, I'm not fond of the names. At the end of the day, the first name is their name and they will be called out by 1st name until they have an opportunity to say call me "callie"
9. Emory - Love it. You can also call her Emi.
10. Kalea or Kalaya - No opinion. don't love it, but don't dislike it either. One of those names that will grow on you.

all the best for a beautiful, healthy baby :)

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DEFINITELY Camelia, nickname Cami. BEAUTIFUL! I love it. And, both of my daughters' names end in "a" but no one ever notices because they're so different. Besides, that's a common female ending. =) Best of luck!

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Kalea is a really popular name here in Hawaii.
Calliope makes me think of the musical instrument.
I misread Cal-AM-ia when I saw Calamia and it makes me think of calamity.... maybe not such a great association.
I've always like the name Laynie.
Emory is trendy and does make me think of an emery board.
Maisie/Macy are both popular in the midwest.
Just some of my thoughts. :) Good luck and congrats!

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To start with, one of my daughters is named Pier (last name Sircello). My mother spent the day she was born (July 4, 1963) pacing the floor and muttering "Pier, Pier, what kind of name is that?" Actually, in Italian, it's a male name but there was a movie star, Pier Angeli. Anyway, I think my daughter, now in her 40s, loves her name, so I wouldn't be afraid of unique. I think it should sound good with the last name, particularly since most women now keep their maiden name. That influences whether or not there is a vowel at the end.

Personally, I didn't like Maisie (used to be a cow's name back in my day -- and my mother was named Bessie, also a cow's name, and she hated it all her life). I also didn't like Mirabelle, Calamia (sounds like calamity), or Calliope, which is a sort of pipe organ from amusement parks. Emory sounds like a boy's name but also just sounds strange and trendy and certainly not pretty. Kalea could be nice, although I think you could spell it a million ways. I actually like Fiore, but I think it depends on how it sounds with your last name. She'll have to teach people how to say and spell it, but I think my daughter found that could actually be a sort of ice breaker. You also have to think about baby names and nick names. My daughter was "Pierli" when she was little, but has always just been "Pier" outside our home, and sometimes it's good not to have nick names -- they can be unkind as well as friendly or loving.

By the way, another thing you might think about is how the name will sound when she is an adult. If she grows up to be in public life or business, you don't want a name that sounds too frivolous. You want a name that can have a "pet" variation or nickname, but not sound like a nick name.

Oh, and I actually do like Ravelle, although I'm not sure why! It's unusual, but it's easy to pronounce.

To add another personal note in the "name" category, our three granddaughters are Lillian (nick-name "Lil") Arianna, and Sofia (nick-name "Sofi.") A fourth granddaughter is on the way but I haven't asked them if they have picked out names. The boys are Michael, Thomas, Andrew, Julian and Jackson. I like the fact that none of them are too trendy. I think they will wear well through adulthood.

Good luck with your names. In the end, they are your choices, but I had fun looking at them and giving you my grandmotherly opinion!

S. Toji

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Think Ravelle is fantastic. It is unique but not weird. Instantly pronounceable. Very feminine. And a little exotic. Reminds me of "ravishing" and I like that it relates to "ravel" meaning "to clarify," or "disentangle." But "ravel" can also mean it's opposite -- "to tangle," or "to complicate." That it does both is a powerful idea. The composer's music does both and is also ravishingly beautiful.

Powerful plus that it relates to a remarkable woman in your life. That means something to a child when you explain the name as they grow up.

My parents were both teachers. As we were choosing our daughter's name (Eleya) they pointed out that in 20 years of dealing with children, it was clear that no matter which name you pick, the other kids will find a way to mess with it, so, really, don't let that worry you too much.

As to having to correct people's pronunciation, also think that is no worry. When people say "ill' - ay - a" instead of "ee - lay' - a," Eleya, who is now 8, just flashes a smile and gives them the correct pronunciation. She actually loves the little bit of attention when new people try to read it and mess it up... We have always made sure she knows we love her and we love her name, and they go hand in hand, so she is happy to share it.

What a great list of possibilities!

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1. Camelia-- Very pretty, but very similar to Camila. I don't think it matters that both daughters' names end with the "a" sound as long as they don't rhyme or begin with the same sound.

2. Maisie, prounounced "Mazy"-- Yes, people will pronounce it "Macy." And if you correct them, they may not even notice the difference or think you're nitpicking.

3. Fiore-- I think people will pronounce it "Fior," but perhaps you could put an accent over the "e," exchange it with an "a," or just get used to correcting people.

4. Mirabella, Mirabelle, Marabelle, Marabella-- This would be up to you, a matter of preference.

5. Laney, Lainie, Lanie-- I don't think people would frequently mispronounce the the last spelling.

6. Calamia-- You'll probably have to correct people's pronunciation, but I think this is pretty and unique. Certainly you won't find many others who share the name. It doesn't sound like a last name to me.

7. Ravelle-- Not a fan. It strikes me as "ravel," like the verb. To ravel and to unravel.

8. Calliope, pronounced "Call-I-opee"-- I think this is a pretty name, but be careful. What if the book is read in high school, or a book club? How will your daughter feel? How will you handle this? Just be prepared, because kids can be cruel.

9. Emory-- Really pretty. I love this name.

10. Kalea or Kalaya-- Once again, I don't think it's a problem as long as your first daughter's name does not rhyme or begin with a K or C sound.

All your names are very interesting. Good luck! I hope you'll let us know what you pick!

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My favorite out of all would have to be Mirabelle!

I can't get Lazy Maisie, Emory Board, or Camelia lizard out my head since I read what others said these names reminded them of.....LOL

3. Fiore - My first thought was the face cleaner Biore.
8. Don't like Calliope...a friend has dogs named Calliope and Penelope.

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1. Beautiful name
2. I think of Maisie the Mouse
3. Reminds me of a Ferrari
4. Pretty, but I think of Fancy Nancy's doll
5. Cute, cute, cute
6. Calamine lotion anyone?
7. Different and cool
8. Myeh
9. Reminds me of an emory board
10. Beautiful and exotic name

Good luck!

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Ooh, fun question! Since you're in SoCal: have you been to see the camellia forest in Descanso Gardens, near Altadena? Wow, it is just spectacular when it's in bloom. That's my argument for naming the baby Camellia (with the extra L so it matches the flower)

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DEFINITELY Camelia, nickname Cami. BEAUTIFUL! I love it. And, both of my daughters' names end in "a" but no one ever notices because they're so different. Besides, that's a common female ending. =) Best of luck!

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