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Auto Finance--Do We Have ANY Rights??

Hi Everyone!

I need help. First, I'm not sure what's wrong with me, I've been feeling yucky (stomach) and I'm SO emotional right now. (hope I'm not pregnant!)

But anyway, I had a HORRIBLE conversation with my auto finance company today. I am 14 days delinquenton my account. Now I have not been very good about paying on my loan. I KNOW that! I just paid almost $1,000 to get my account current plus late fees.

Well, Now it's up to January and I"m 14 days past due on my January payment. She also said I owe $100 + dollars in late fees. Anyway she was very rude! Telling me it MUST be paid by the 31st! I asked her what would happen if I didn't pay it and she said that she could tell me what would happen. So I told her I would send in my payment or pay online but I didn't want to do it over the phone with her because I felt she was bullying me! I asked to speak to a manager and she told me they were unavailable and it was collections NOT customer service and she didn't have to be nice and didn't have to "babysit" me. She was SO rude and unprofessional! She made it sound like they were going to come get me or something if I didn't pay.

Now, I'm a recruiter and I know that in that position they get commission every time the collect money. Could she have just been aggressive about her commission? Can they really get me? Do I have any rights in this situation? I mean can they just call me and yell at me like that? Who can I talk to and what can I say? I feel so trapped!!!

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So What Happened?™

Thanks to everyone who offered advice and even those who scolded me on being such a horrible consumer. :)

I did call and state my case. They weren't OVERLY apologetic, but the call was a lot more pleasant. We got it all worked out and everything is going to be fine.

I appreciate the financial advice everyone gave. We have a class at our church that we are thinking of attending. I think it will help. Contrary to what most of you are thinking....we have absolute 0 credit card debt. Neither one of us have ever had credit cards so that is not our issue. It's just that we had the baby last year which cut me down to 60% of my pay on short term disability, then I had to get another job and took a pay cut (in the midst of trying to catch up). So we just got more and more behind. I have since got a new job that pays so much more money and my husband was promoted which is how we were able to pay $1000 to catch up on the payment and pay late fees etc. It just so happens that around the time that I had to pay my car payment, I had $700 in car repair and had to chose whether to pay for the car or be able to drive it. Once I get paid again, we will be able to make it all up to date and brand new again.

To those on the collectors side.....I know it's their job and they don't have to be nice, but at the end of the day we're all human and there has to be a shred of respect for that.

To Danna W.....I explained above "why I just didn't pay my car payment on time" And it's not a matter of "remembering". Trust me I think about it all the time.

And to Ruth B. ....I know someone who was perfect as I'm sure you are when it comes to paying bills and having good credit. Of course, I would be angry if someone agreed to pay me for something and they didn't. But the fact of the matter is...I did not make an agreement with that girl on the phone, I made an agreement with the company she works for. So no, I was not in the wrong, she was.

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You can report her for being rude and ask that they stop calling. They do get commission for collecting and it really is a shame that things work that way. I went through a lot a few years ago with a similar situation. When the agent started yelling at me, I stated that I wasn't going to take abusive behavior and that I was going to disconnect. I then hung up. Good luck to you and remember that "this will pass". Peace.

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J.,
You can call a man named Dave Ramsey. He has sound financial advice and advice how to talk to collectors and has helped many out of debt. Look him up on the internet or read some of his material from the local libraries.
L. T
Fort Worth, TX

Well im sorry that you went threw that. No one should have to go threw that at all. If you can next time get her i.d. # and her name be for you start the conversation. Just cause you owe them money does not mean they can be rude with you. And if they get rude with you gEt rude right back and see if they like it. Good luck

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You can report her for being rude and ask that they stop calling. They do get commission for collecting and it really is a shame that things work that way. I went through a lot a few years ago with a similar situation. When the agent started yelling at me, I stated that I wasn't going to take abusive behavior and that I was going to disconnect. I then hung up. Good luck to you and remember that "this will pass". Peace.

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Here's an idea... pay your car payment on time and you will NEVER have to talk to her again!

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Check out Daveramsey.com. He has a radio show, I think it is on 950am in the houston area on XM he's on 165 I believe beginning at 2:00. He helps people get out of debt and will give you advice on dealing with the creditors.
You don't have to deal with these people being so rude, politely explain if they are going to continue to speak to you like this then you will hang up and follow through with it. If they can have an adult conversation then you will speak with them. They cannot come and get you, so don't worry. And they won't take back your vehicle for being 14 days late--they would lose more money that way.
Good luck

Go online to consumersrights.com. They can not bully you if you are at work. In addition, if you have credit cards you may want to use them to help make the car payments if the company will allow. Call the finance company and not the credit company that is trying to collect. The credit card companies are not going to take your card and if you can make the minimum payments it might help until you get on your feet. But by all means try and keep up your credit. It is very important. Regarding what the company can do to you, they can give you bad credit and come take your car but that is all!Hope this helps, but you are too young to mess up your credit!!!!!:)

You probably should pull out the contract you signed and read all the fine print. You are correct that there is no reason for them to be so rude, but as you note those folks don't get paid for being nice, they get paid for getting $s from you. My experience with these collection folks is that they are some of the rudest people around. I had them calling me for a delinquent account for someone that had my same name and they were even challenged that I was lying. I've had them call my phone number because someone either wrote theirs down wrong or outright lied and again was challenged that I was lying to them about that person living in my house. At some point in the delinquency they can come and repossess your car, but it doesn't sound like you're close to that yet.

I am with Ruth and Dana and good for them for speaking up! While it is nice that everyone is so supportive and giving advise some suggestions are part of why we have such a messed up society!!!

Take responsibility!!! You are in the worng, You did not pay your bill - While it may have hurt your feelings that the debt collector was rude to you... Did you ever think that it might have hurt their business that you did not pay on time like you agreed when you got the loan??

Getting a lawyer is the most riduculous suggestion on the post. Are you going to get a lawyer when your child does not turn in a homework assignment in school and gets a poor grade for it????? Think about the example you are setting for your children.

J., First, I would pay the bill on time from here on out so you don't have to deal with them, They don't have to be nice. However, You should read your contract to see what the fee's are, They could be over charging you for your late fees. The finance companies are some of the rudest people, they are knew for this and I can tell you that their supervisors would not care along as they get their money. The only way not to deal with them is to set up a online payment each month so you don't have to pay more the your original balance. Second, I would go to the Doctors to see what's going on with you feeling yucky. good Luck. Check out www.reliv.com I was tired all the time and now with Reliv I feel and look better. I can't say enough about it. For anyone!!!!!
G. Hudson

I would say yes you do have rights, you need a full print out of you account and make them show you where you are behind. I would call back and talk to a manager and tell them how rude she was and request more information. Be sure you keep all of your receipts and records from there people so you have a leg to stand on.

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