A.B. asks from Olathe, KS on February 25, 2009
Attention Christian mothers...I Need Creative Ideas!!
I know this probably isn't the place to post this kind of question, but you mamas are always so amazing with your advice. Here's my problem. I am a Christian and have been for the past 9 years. Before I was married, I had a great devotional life. Once I got married, I had an ok devotional life. Now that I'm a mom, I feel like my devotional life is pathetic...and I want it to change! I've never been a morning person, so waking up to spend quiet time before my son gets up is not a good option for me. So, I usually try to do something during my son's nap. (When my husband is home in the evenings, I have a hard time leaving him to have quiet time when I haven't seen him all day) I am a planner and would love to have a devotional plan from a mom's perspective. I don't know why it is so hard for me to have quality devotions now. When I make time, I feel like I'm distracted, rushed, or just not into it. I want to get motivated, and I would really like to have a creative plan (maybe a home-made structured journal...but what would that look like?). So...for those of you that have regular devotional times, what do they look like? What books do you like? Do you have any creative ideas for a devotional journal that will keep me on task? Thanks in advance for all the great ideas I know I'm going to get!
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I'm so thankful for mamasource!!! As I was reading the many responses I recieved, I truly felt the Holy Spirit speaking to me. Thank you for being so open. I am going to try and be more receptive all day and speak to God throughout the day-in front of my son. I'm still going to try to have some "us" time where I can really focus on God (even if its just 15 min), but at least I don't feel like such a failure for not having these amazing devotional times on a regular basis. Thank you mamas, you've helped me more than you could ever know!
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K.B. answers from Wichita on February 26, 2009
God Bless you A. for wanting to get back on board. Devotions are always hard to find time for in the normal sense. Children, homes, hubby's, errands etc..
With God anything & everything is possible.
There are several online Devotionals you can sign up for and have delivered to your inbox daily. One I like very much is http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/
There is one called Girlfriends In God.
Daily -Equipping women for their journey to the heart of God.
I find this so much more personal and inspiring. I used to read through the Bible in a year with a chart. Well I got stuck in a rut doing that. I bought devotional books for women. I have books galore. I have been involved in Friendship Bible Coffee studies weekly with other women.
I came to the Lord 38 yrs ago this Easter SONday. I have tried and done just about every type of Devotional, journaling you can think of.
If you sign up for the Crossroads women's devotional, read them when they come in. Open a word page and title it words of God to my heart. Each day Pray, Lord allow me to receive that which you have for me this day. Then make a note of what the devotional that day said to your heart and spirit.
It will bless you abundantly. You might even encourage a good friend to sign up and share your thoughts and feelings with them daily through email or how ever you like to visit.
I hope this has given you some idea's or inspired you to take a step forward by "faith we receive".
"The Lord is my Shepherd, and that's all I
need to know."
God Bless you
K. Nana of 5
"Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, To the only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, dominion and power,both now and ever". Amen.
Jude 1:24-25
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S.L. answers from Kansas City on February 25, 2009
A., I could have wrote this! I've tried just about everything to no avail. I feel like God is at the bottom of the pile when it comes to priorities and yet I pray every night about it and try and change that.
One thing I try and do is respond when I'm being woke up in the night. I figure if I am waking up extra to go to the bathroom or having odd dreams or the cats knock something over, God wants me to talk to him. So I go with that :)
Otherwise, I've been trying to give up more tv, keep the house cleaner etc. While cleaning house I've been downloading MP3 audio books and listening to Christian books like books on prayer or even Christian fiction. I figure anyway I can keep my mind and heart on him, he'll know that I WANT more.
S.
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S.M. answers from St. Louis on February 26, 2009
Hello A.. I see there are several ideas here. I just had one book to add. Shepherding a Childs Heart (Tedd Tripp) is an EXCELLENT book I have read. There is a "Parents Handbook" in addition to the book that is a devotional. I have not gone through the devotional yet as I am finishing up another book but I did order it. A trusted friend of mine highly reccomends it. I got it on eBay for like $10. Good luck and God bless you.
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S.H. answers from St. Louis on February 26, 2009
One of my friends recently asked me if I pray. It shocked me, because we've known each other for almost 20 years! That's how private I am when it comes to my relationship with God. My answer to her was: I don't think of it as prayer...I think of it as an ongoing conversation which never ends.
To help me focus, during naptime, sometimes I light a candle &/or grab a book (like the Purpose Driven Life or the Shack) & then just think thoughts. No tv, just soft music (which I use for naps anyway). I also receive daily devotionals thru several different Enewsletters. Hope this helps.
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J.S. answers from Springfield on February 26, 2009
Hi. I too struggled for a while, and being exhausted from lack of sleep makes morning devotionals hard for me too. I started soing two studies a day though. The first, is acctually a book...The Complete Guide to the Bible by Stephen M. Miller. It really has made the Bible come to life. Knowing the History and how it ties to today's world makes it make sense. (And I hate history and reading both). It is layed out in a very easy to read and understand format. It also has great illistrations. Cost at the book store was $19.97. The other study I do with my husband since he often works 12-16 hour days, and depending on the week sometimes 7 days a week. (Military life). It is called Daily Marriage Builders for Couples by Fred and Florence Littauer. We read it in bed before going to sleep. After being married for 7 1/2 years, we are getting a chance to know each other better every night. It is a great conclusion to our days. It takes less than 10 minutes to read, but discussions have lasted anywhere from 5 minutes to 2+ hours. It has been a great addition to our lives. In what ever you choose, keep praying together as a family and as a couple. Your son will see what is important in your life and will make it a priority in his life too. J.
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M.B. answers from St. Louis on February 25, 2009
Ha Ha! I know how you feel. I have felt this way before. I dont feel like a have a lack of the lord in my life, because I hold him close and he is always there, all day everyday.
BUT I do feel a strong need to take my children to church, there are quite a few things I still need to learn so I feel, how will I teach me kids if I dont know....thats where the church thing comes in for me. Plus there are so many great programs for the kids and getting to know your neighbors and good people you want to surround yourself with. This is why I feel I need to go, and have this guilty cloud over my head for not going....I WILL, WILL!!!
I know a lot of people have journals, but I think its just whatever works for you, if you feel like its a chore, its probably because it is. I dont have a journal, and call me crazy but I talk to God in my mind all day!! I dont have time to write that down!
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M.H. answers from Kansas City on February 26, 2009
Hi A.,
I too struggle sometimes like you. I am certainly not a morning person. But I try really hard to get up about 30 minutes before my kiddos get up and spend time with the Lord. I find that when I do spend time with Him in the morning my day goes so much smoother and I am the mom that I want and desire to be with my children. We go to Lakeland Community Church and we had a sermon a few weeks ago that really touched my heart. Our pastor simply said that we need to "Live in a God Bathed world" I am not perfect when it comes to having quiet time in the morning by any means... I slept in this morning :( but when I miss my time with God I try to pray a few minutes before I get the kids up. I also constantly listen to K Love (97.3) in the car and contemporary christian music on yahoo radiocast. I try to surround myself with Worship music and I find that it keeps my heart and mind on God. There have been mornings when I am doing my quiet time that my 4 1/2 year old comes down and asks what I am doing. So I involve her in my quiet time. She is learning what it is and what it means, how to pray to God, it is really incredible! Anyway, try try try to get up just 30 minutes earlier in the morning. You will feel so much better when you have even just 30 minutes with your Father in Heaven! Try to live in a God Bathed World! Your children will see God shine through you and others will too! Thank you so much A. for giving us all a chance to have some fellowship on mamasource!!!!
God Bless you!
M.
K.C. answers from Kansas City on February 26, 2009
A.,
I am a little different than you, that having kids has in some ways made my spiritual life stronger, as someone mentioned, it's much like an ongoing conversation, in the shower, while I'm driving and the kids are distracted, bits here and there. I don't have many ideas, but mostly what I wanted to say is that it's great to try and add, but remember this is the time in your life that the needs of your kiddo comes first, it really won't be very long until you have more time and energy to spend on this. I really think of my actions toward my kids (most of the time!) as my homage to God. Being a good mom is prayer! I don't mean to discourage you from finding more devotional time, I just mean to say you might not be as "dry" as you think.
K.
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