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At What Age Did Your Chld Start Going to the Movie Theater?

My daughter is 2.5 and she loves to watch movies and is hooked on Toy Story right now. I'm debating taking her to see the new one but I'm not sure if the excitement of the theater would be too much for her to remain seated and quiet. At what age did you take your child to the theater for the first time? And do you have any suggestions/tips for making it a fun and successful day?

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she is pretty young, but there are kids who can do it. it's an individual call. i agree with the advice to wait until it's at the dollar theater so you don't waste money if she gets wiggly and has to leave.
and blessings upon the heads of all mothers who DO take their wigglies out of the theater and let the rest of us enjoy the show!
khairete
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We took my daughter to see Ice Age 3 when she was about 3 1/2. She had been watching the first 2 movies on TV, so she was already familiar with the characters & we knew she liked it. She loved seeing it at the theater! She was glued to the screen! After it was over she said "I wanna watch it again!" haha

She's 4 now & we took her to see Toy Story 3 the other day. Again, loved it & glued to the screen! lol

We did try to take her to see a non-animated movie once (G-Force I think it was called? With the hamsters?) Did NOT go well... she wouldn't sit still & watch it. Just wasn't interested. So we only take her to see animated movies now.

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My 3 year old went to see it yesterday and LOVED it. A aunt took her as a special treat. She ate popcorn and some cereal from home I sent in a ziploc and drank from her sippy of water. She did have to go potty twice...but told her aunt she wanted to go to the movies again.

We warned her it would be loud and dark...so she was prepared.

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I think it totally depends on the individual child and what they can handle. My advice would be to try it BUT- if your daughter gets at all upset, cries, screams, is scared, etc. GO HOME. You just absolutely have to understand that you are TRYING this out, but be prepared to just bite the bullet and leave. Too many parents with kids too young or immature to be at a theater make the rest of the audience suffer along with them just so they don't have to wait for the DVD!

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A lot depends on the child. My son would just fall asleep sitting up if he got bored in the movie. He is a normal active boy, but was very well trained about sitting still in church at a young age. He loves popcorn. So... a little popcorn, a kids flick, and if he got bored he would go into a daze and then maybe asleep. He started going on very RARE occasions around age 4. My daughter is also a VERY well behaved young lady, also very accustomed to sitting still in church for long periods (no children's church, IN the service with everyone else) and also loves popcorn and movies. She started going with us to family movies around age 3. She often would end up in my lap before it was over, but never created a disruption for anyone else around us (no talking, playing, walking around, etc). But she WOULD get bored if the content was not a quick moving loud wise-cracking comedy kids' film. ANY slower parts, she started tuning out at that age.

I realized that it IS a children's movie... but keep in mind that that includes (what probably seems to you anyway, lol) older children as well, like my 8 and 11 yr old. We went to a movie LAST year together - when they were 7 and 10, (Where the Wild Things Are -which is a tale from a children's book, but not REALLY a children's movie, not young kids anyway, imho) and ended up in a full theater next to a woman with about 4 very young kids with her (age ranges probably 3 - 6), who talked throughout the movie, made noise with candy wrappers and were up and down in their seats playing (even though they didn't leave the aisle we were sitting on). The mom was constantly digging in her purse to find something to placate one or another of the kids. It was disturbing to me, but I figured my kids were engrossed in the movie and they would not care. The FIRST thing my daughter said to me upon leaving the theater when I asked her how she like it, was: "It was okay EXcept for those KIDS next to us. They talked through the whole THING!!" She was quite irritated.
Movie tickets are not cheap. And so while I suggest you give a dollar theater a test run to see how your daughter does, also bear in mind, even if she manages "to last" through it, how her behavior or whispering or whatever may affect the others around her in the theater, who also may have spent a lot of $$ to enjoy the movie.

Just because a lot of the audience may be children, it doesn't mean that they don't care about disruptions during the movie. And the parents that brought them are certainly going to be aware of how much they paid to treat their little ones (including popcorn and beverages). For my daughter and myself, at a matinee, on her birthday, with 3D, it cost me over $30 to see it, including shared popcorn and a soda. For our family of 4 to see ANY movie, and we almost always go for matinees for the kids' movies, it averages costing around $50. So, just keep that in mind, when you are deciding just how well your child might (or might not) do for 108 minutes. If you have any doubts, but YOU want to see it, then hire a sitter for your daughter.
Sorry if I sound irritated, but I've been through it many many times. And I know sitters can get expensive... but other people in the theater likely will have paid for one so they could enjoy the movie in peace. I know we have.

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If you are worried I might try a dollar movie first (so you dont waste much money) and then if that goes well do Toy Story 3 a week or so later. Whatever you decide may sure you bring a drink and snack as well as a lovey item. This really helped my son.

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We just took our 5 week old (she nursed and slept thru it.) with us and the kids ( 9, 6, 3) to see Shrek 3... We only see about 1 movie a year at theaters... But the FIRST time we took any kids our older 2 were 4 1/2 and 1 1/2... THey both did good...

Tips. Go to the earliest showing... They are cheaper than later ones so if you do have to leave the loss isn't as much.

Do not go the first week or so. Wait until the theater isn't gonna be so packed...

If noone's complaining and she's getting bored let her quietly play in the aisle... Oh, sit towards the back! THen if she's climbing around she's not such a distraction...

BUT she may suprize you and sit thru the whole thing in wonder... or fall asleep in front of the "Big TV"... Or the loudness and bigness may over whelm her and she could end up crying...
Never know until you go and see...

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I took my daughter for the first time yesterday evening to Toy Story. She is 3.5 years old. Before now, I don't believe she would have sat still for the hour and half movie.

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We took my oldest when he was 2.5 to see Madagascar 2. We went with the idea that we may be leaving in 15 minutes or an hour into it, but he LOVED it! We got him the kids' pack with popcorn, a drink and some gummy candy, and he sat transfixed. There were a few times near the end where he got in our laps, but that was it. We've taken him to numerous movies since then! I would definitely take her, but just have it in mind that you may not make it through the whole thing. Explain to her beforehand what the rules are -quiet, it will be dark and once you leave the theater you can't go back, etc. She'll probably have a wonderful time!

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she is pretty young, but there are kids who can do it. it's an individual call. i agree with the advice to wait until it's at the dollar theater so you don't waste money if she gets wiggly and has to leave.
and blessings upon the heads of all mothers who DO take their wigglies out of the theater and let the rest of us enjoy the show!
khairete
S.

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We have taken our little one to the movie theater twice. Once to see Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs, and recently to see Babies. She was good both times (she just turned 3, so she went at about 2 1/2 and 3). She started to get antsy toward the end both times, I would recommend introducing a snack when that happens. Have fun!

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