A.A. asks from Sonoma, CA on August 06, 2010
Any Recommendations for Books About Boys?
My son is 5 years old and about to enter Kindergarten. We seem about to embark on a great adventure, but some of it is scary to him (and his parents). He's an only kid and has always been rather confident, but he seems worried about the changes ahead. Seems like new behaviors and emotions are pending!
I'm wondering if those of you with male children and/or child development education and experience have any recommendations on books specifically about boys - their normal physical and emotional development in today's culture, and common joys and challenges. I'm particularly interested in books that would address boys and the 5 years and into teens age range. Thanks for letting me know what you really found helpful and, if possible, why.
In the past, I've really enjoyed reading How to Listen So Your Kids will Talk and Talk so your Kids will Listen, and the Touchpoints 0-5 years development books. Recommendations on what's good for the years ahead are much appreciated.
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T.L. answers from Sacramento on August 08, 2010
You should watch or read Raising Cain. It's usually on the PBS channel. They speak about boys and how their different from girls. It talks about their developement also.
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E.S. answers from San Francisco on August 07, 2010
Hi there!
I just finished "The Way of Boys". It not only helped me understand my son, but men in general. I highly recommend it!
I went to our public library and saw it in the new releases. After the rental term was up, I bought my own copy so that I can refer to it over and over again. I also sent my mom a copy- and we discuss it often!
It's written by a child psychologist and consists of narrative and case studies, from 4yo to early teens. I particularly liked that it was current, not based on research from the 80's (which is a different generation!).
I also enjoyed another book by the same author of How to Talk, Sibling Rivalry. It was very good at diffusing comparison and treating each child as they needed.
Best regards,
E.
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M.M. answers from Chicago on August 06, 2010
I enjoyed "Real Boys." It's an awesome book.
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C.F. answers from Rochester on August 06, 2010
Bringing Up Boys: Practical Advice and Encouragement for Those Shaping the Next Generation of Men by James Dobson
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B. answers from Augusta on August 06, 2010
K.F. answers from San Francisco on August 07, 2010
Bringing Up Boys, by Dr. James Dobson is an excellent source.
S.H. answers from Honolulu on August 06, 2010
If you go to Amazon, and input the search words "raising boys" MANY will come up AND the reviews of the books.
There are many good books out there, on raising boys...
But Amazon, is a good way to read the reviews on it and seeing what the book is about.
Good luck,
Susan
D.S. answers from San Francisco on August 07, 2010
A., I found raising my 5 children 3 being boys that all the books by Dr. James Dobson are excelent. He has a way of reaching in and understanding a boys heart.
I really wish you joy and patience in this new part of the adventure of parenthood. I felt like it was a theme park ride with lots of twists and turns but at the end the ride was worth every scarey moment.
T.L. answers from Sacramento on August 08, 2010
You should watch or read Raising Cain. It's usually on the PBS channel. They speak about boys and how their different from girls. It talks about their developement also.
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