M.M. asks from Redondo Beach, CA on February 26, 2008
Almost 3 Months Pregnant but Didnt Know
I had a small period each month for the last 3 but for the last year they have been hit or miss. I was on BCso I thought things were getting better. I just found out that I am over 3 months pregnant. In the last 3 months I have drank maybe once a week or every other week...2 to 3 glasses of wine or a mixed drink. I am freaking out, I feel like I cant talk to my dr. about it...because I feel like such a bad person. Has anyone know some one that drank while pregnant...I am worried about the baby.
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A.B. answers from Las Vegas on February 27, 2008
Don't stess and certainly mention it to your doctor. Getting off your mind and not worrying about it will be good for you both mentally and physically. My husband and I thought we would never have a baby naturaly. Then I came to him and said I'm late, should I take a test. He said to wait until I am 2 weeks late. The next day we off to our annual Memorial trip to Havasu where I drank, was on a boat bouncing around and in 117 degree weather. Two days later I found out I was pregnant. Things turned out fine. When I mentioned my big weekend to my doctor she said not to worry and didn't treatment any differnet afterwards. But certainly talk about it with your doctor.
D.C. answers from San Diego on February 26, 2008
The same thing happened to me, and yes I was freaking out too. I told the Dr and he said it wasn't anything to worry about, and I have a wonderful, healthy 3 yr old girl. They do routine genetic testings and screening, along with ultrasounds, so you should be reassured with that too. Talk to your Dr, that will help ease your stress levels, and everything will be fine!!!
M.S. answers from Los Angeles on February 26, 2008
I wouldn't even sweat the fact that you've had some drinks. Many people don't find out they are pregnant right away and do worse things while pregnant. Now you know and can take care of yourself from here on out.
Congratulations!
M.
J.L. answers from Los Angeles on February 26, 2008
You have to talk to your Dr. trust me they have seen it all. My best friend went through the same situation, she was 12 wk pregnant when she found out and she has a healthy, beautiful baby boy. Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy.
L.S. answers from Los Angeles on February 26, 2008
you should definitely tell your doctor so any preventive measures that can be taken, can be taken. i'm sure your doctor has heard & seen worse. i pray that all is well with your child.
A.C. answers from Los Angeles on February 26, 2008
i'm sure you're fine, only having a couple drinks once a week or less isn't nearly as bad as you'd think (although not advisable). it's women who have a tendency to still drink and get drunk or drink more than a few drinks on more of a daily basis.
you're body does a lot to protect the baby in the beginning, so i'm sure you're better off than you think. always tell your doctor the truth, how else can he help you?
best of luck, and breath easy.
S.M. answers from Las Vegas on February 27, 2008
Seriously, dont stress...and tell your OB about ALL of your concerns. If you can't be open with him/her about something this minor, then you are going to have issues.
I did not know I was pregnant with my first child until I was nearly 16 weeks. I had an eating disorder and drank heavily. The day I found out I was pregnant all of my habits changed. He is now a handsome, intelligent and athletic 9yr old.
My point is, a few glasses of wine here and there didnt/will not harm your child.
Congrats and good luck!
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