A.S. asks from South Elgin, IL on October 28, 2008
Allergic to Dogs After Pregnancy? Tips and Advice!!!
Greetings Ladies,
I have and 11 month daughter (our first), and last Friday my husband came home with a dog. (Now before everyone jumps all over him for doings this... We had previously seen this dog at a shelter while looking for a dog for my mom. I loved this dog, loved, loved, loved it!!! My husband said it wasn't the best time for us to add to our family.) We previous had a dog that we had to put down a little over a year ago. I was thrilled on Friday that my wonderful husband went out to adopt this fella. Anyhow, as the evening went on, I got sniffly, scratchy throat, eyes a bit irritated. WHAT THE H---??? I have never had a reaction to dogs before. My husband returned the dog the next morning per my request.
I have two questions/issues here:
-Has anyone else had a reaction similar to this AFTER they had a baby? And how did you cope with it??? Medication/eventual tolerance??? What? Is it worth giving it a shot since I would NOT be able to turn around and give him up if it didn't work out?
-I really want this dog back. He is a perfect fit for my family. My husband is heart broken and mad at me. I am heartbroken as well. Should I try to suck it up, and re-adopt for the sake of a family dog. I really do have affection for this pooch.
Thanks in advance ladies,
A.
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K.C. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Hi A.....First I have to say How sad....We just got a new dog and Iam allergic to his hair. I get hives, but I still love him to death. You could be allergic to different things. But I do agree with one of the other moms statements. I could have been a shampoo that the pound had used on the dog before you adopted him. I would get him back and have him/her groomed and see how it goes after a day or two and if it doesnt work get some allergy meds...good luck
D.L. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Hi A.,
After I got pregnant I was allergic to everything. I had 2 cats & suffered for 3 years before I gave them up. You should go to an allergist & have them test you. This way you will find out what you are reacting to. It could be the dog or just the shampoo they used on him. If you are allergic then they can give you options on dealing with them. I didn't want to take any drugs so I was misserable for 3 years before I just couldn't take it anymore. It was like living with a bad cold all the time. I loved my kitties & it was hard to part with them because I had them for over 9 years. It came down to choosing between my quality of life & them.
D.B. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Are you taking any new medications? This sounds crazy but I took Lexapro for a few months last year and I became severly allergic to things that had not bothered me at all previously.(like the food I feed my fish!) It was absolutely horrible, but after doing some research on-line I found out that drug can make you hypersensitive to some things. It even made my seasonal allergies MUCH worse. As soon as I went off it problem solved! Also, like the other posters mentioned, it could be something on that particular dog, like flea powder. Don't give up on him yet!!
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G.H. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Sopposidly our body chemistry changes every 7 years so you may have built an allergy to shedding dogs. You can try a nonshedding breed or take an allergy syrup or pill. Nobody has to suffer anymore. Soft coated Wheaten Terriers are awesome. Very child friendly, stranger allerting, and completely loving animal. Besides, they look like a junkyard dog for the 1st few months then the hair grows out a yellowy-white that's absolutely gorgeous, soft, and smooth.
L.F. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
If you have a dog allergy you are NOT allergic to ALL dogs. You could be allergic to one and not the other even in the same breed. I had allergy testing done and I am also allergic to dogs, but this is what the dr told me. Each dog is different to you on an allergy level!
K.C. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Hi A.....First I have to say How sad....We just got a new dog and Iam allergic to his hair. I get hives, but I still love him to death. You could be allergic to different things. But I do agree with one of the other moms statements. I could have been a shampoo that the pound had used on the dog before you adopted him. I would get him back and have him/her groomed and see how it goes after a day or two and if it doesnt work get some allergy meds...good luck
S.R. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Well here is my story..After my last son was born when i came home to 3 cats) I thought i was gonna die ...I itched and couldnt stop sneezing.. These guys were my babies.So i took some advice and started washing them in anit dandruff shampoo and so far so good ...I vacuum and sweep alot and some times need a little benedryl but for the most part i think its worth it
C.K. answers from Springfield on October 29, 2008
A.,
It just doesn't seem to me that you gave it NEAR enough time. If you really loved the dog I can't help but think you would have tried to stick it out for a little longer than one day. I did develop allergies while preggers but just environmental. Before you give up on a dog so easily maybe you should speak to your doc to see if it is even possible that you all of the sudden became allergic. It isn't fair for you to be miserable but it isn't fair, either, to bring the dog into a loving home only to return him to a cold, dark shelter 24 hours later. There is no way you could know if you have an actual allergy so quickly. But it would be terrible for the dog for you to bring it back into your home for longer and then still have to return him. Please just think it through!
D.G. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
You have to feel healthy in your home....if that means not having a dog than your husband needs to understand that and care about your well being.
S.S. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
Hi A., I am no doctor, but my immune system got really funky after delivering both kids and over reacted to everything. Which is kind of what allergies are all about. It took a while for my immune system to settle down, but that may be what you are going through. Aside from pregnancy, I have pet allergies and still have a house full of wonderful pets. I used to take allergy medicine but after a while your body gets used to the dander. IMHO a great dog is worth the stuffy nose. Take care, S.
V.D. answers from Chicago on October 29, 2008
I gained all sorts of allergies after I had my first born. Funny thing is he is allergic to EVERYTHING. I got a puppy when he was 9 months old and it had to go back right away because we both couldn't tolerate it. When I talked to my allergist, he said there is really no such thing as a non-allergenic dog. Some breeds may raise your hystamine levels more than others, but if you're allergic to dogs and constantly are around one you can become more sensitive to other things you otherwise weren't allergic to. Any drug, you ultimately build a tolerance toward and shots may work, but it'll take awhile.
Sorry, but I do know what you're going through.
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