A.H. asks from Modesto, CA on June 23, 2007
Alcohol and Breastfeeding??
Hiya ladies! I am nursing my 2nd child - 4 1/2 week old boy. With my first, I had almost no alcohol while nursing - MAYBE an occassional half a glass of wine, but that was it. This time, I really enjoy having a glass of wine or a beer with dinner. I don't typically "feel" the alcohol and am quite conscious of when I next breast feed. I have read that the "pump and dump" idea of pumping the alcohol laden milk is not effective because breast milk doesn't hold the alcohol, rather it is like blood and holds it until it wears out...??
Ok, so here's the real question. Is my guilt unreasonable? a glass of wine or a beer about 4 times a week - horrible mom? or ok to do?
:) thanks for your feedback!
So What Happened?™
I am going to continue to have a single glass of wine or a single beer with a meal. I didn't mean to imply that I drink heavily or rely on alcohol - merely enjoy the taste with some meals (as I did pre-pregnancy). I also have decided to substitute Non-alcoholic beer to allow me the taste without any implications - if there are any!
Thanks for your feedback - ALL OF IT, EVEN THE FEEDBACK THAT IMPLIES I AM AN ACTUAL ALCOHOLIC! :) really. I appreciate the forum we have here to share our experiences and our views. For the majority of you who gave documented support that I am not jeapordizing my child by having A glass of wine or A beer a few times a week with a meal, thanks. It's always good to be right, but also great to have back up information (from experts)! Again, thanks to all!
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E.M. answers from Los Angeles on June 23, 2007
A.,
When I had my twins 16 years ago I had a bit of a problem producing enough milk. My Obgyn encouraged me to drink a beer late afternoon to relax. He also said the darker the beer the better. I usually drank about half a Guiness. This allowed me to continue to breastfeed until the boys were over 13 months old. I also began a workout program to help with my stress(I also had a 2 year old at the time). My boys are now 16 and are in Gate and Honors classes in High School.
Enjoy that one with no guilt.
E. M
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W.W. answers from Sacramento on June 24, 2007
I am not a doctor or researcher, but according to Dr. Sears' book alcohol will stay in breast milk for about 2 hours (for a regular glass of wine/beer). So, as long as you are conscientious of when you are drinking and feeding you should be ok. I don't drink and breast feed my baby only because I have never been much of a drinker except on my birthday. You are right about pumping and dumping. You're better off just waiting the 2 hours, that way you can really feed your baby! I cannot tell you whether your guilt is unreasonable. As my childbirth education used to say, "Do what feels right to you and your baby."
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C.M. answers from Salinas on June 25, 2007
Hi it looks like you already made a practical decision on what to do but breastfeeding issues are near and dear to my heart so I wanted to let you know about a good resource to check out. look up "dr. jack newman articles" on google and when you find the articles, you'll find some files on this very topic. in a nutshell, he is a breastfeeding expert and says alcohol is OK. (of course you obviously know to not get drunk to the point where you can't care for yourself or your baby.) there are other breastfeeding myths in those articles if you or any other moms reading this want to check it out. it is very informative. i can't believe some of the rude comments you got on here and i hope they didn't get you down!! if you want, feel free to email me... ____@____.com
M.G. answers from Los Angeles on June 24, 2007
I had a great doctor with my 3 kids and that was topic of conversation on more than one occasion. While pregnant or breast feeding (which I did with 2, the 3rd I couldn't) you are able to have a glass of wine/beer with dinner every night if you chose and things will be fine. So go ahead and have your wine or beer and your body knows what to do and filter it. I did and my kids are fine.
P.K. answers from Los Angeles on June 25, 2007
A.,
My wife and I have been experiencing the same feelings on this issue.
We sought the advice of our peditrician and lactation consultant. It is my understanding a glass of wine or beer will pass through the system in 2 hours and can promote milk production. So we believe your are safe if you don't feed or pump if you wait 2 hours.
I think you should talk this over with your doctor and consultant too.
As far as guilt, well, remember there are many cultures in this world which don't have such puritan attitudes toward alcohol. I think in America we have this unobtainable goal of making the world absolutely safe. Ultimately, you have to find your own safety level and remember most things in moderation are not harmful.
C.S. answers from Las Vegas on June 23, 2007
Hi A.,
I wouldn't do it. I don't think anyone really knows for sure how it all works. I have heard and read so many things which all contridict eachoter. Why not feed the baby formula and have the glass of wine or beer at dinner.
D.B. answers from Los Angeles on June 23, 2007
No! you are not a horrible mom! I say it is OK. When I was breastfeeding my second son, I was told to drink a beer a day for milk production, but that was 28 years ago. I do not think that it is recommended these days, but my advice to you would be to ask an expert.
There are experts on brestfeeding in the hospital. Call the hospital where you had your baby, and ask one of them.
D.
A.F. answers from San Francisco on July 18, 2007
I drank a little too while I breastfed because my doctor told me it was fine to do so in small moderation. We never had any effects from it. My daughter is almost 2 and doing wonderful. I would feed her, then have a drink with food, wait 3 or more hours and then feed her again. She's healthy, normal and a joy to be around. So enjoy a little wine or beer!
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